-Lack of empathy. Anytime I am with someone and they look down on someone else for whatever reason, it always makes me cringe. I don't get it and I think it's a scary trait. You never know what someone is going through, it's just as likely that I could have been in that homeless guy's position that you are snubbing, while your perfect life goes on. Everyone has their own story and if you don't know it, then who are you to judge -Narcissism. Narcissists have zero accountability, self awareness or empathy: every problem is somebody else's fault; bad things just keep happening to them and it has nothing to do with how they behave or respond to conflict; any problem you have is nowhere near as bad as what they're going through so you should just be thankful you don't have it worse.-Being mean to animals. I saw a woman walking her dog in my neighborhood the other day and it stopped to sniff something and she yanked the shit out of the leash. Shit, wake up five minutes earlier and let your dog have a nice walk and smell some stuff god damn.-Misogyny: men who view woman as inferior creatures and sex objects Also vanity, materialism and racism
There's a whole list for me, but I'll give my top 10:
1. Bad self-care/ always self-deprecating 2. Major hypocrite 3. Entitled, inflated ego, inconsiderate 4. Disrespectful to people, religion, race, gender, etc. 5. Always complaining, negative towards everything. 6. Two-faced 7. Dishonest 8. Doesn't communicate/too many secrets or unknown facts 9. Too clingy/reliant on others 10. Narrow-minded/lack of awareness
Stupidity mixed with being smug, arrogant, or stubborn.
My mother was like this; dumber than a rock yet REFUSED to ever admit being wrong to anything, even with concrete proof or evidence. Also, social justice warriors & feminists tend to be like this too; some of the dumbest people on the entire planet, yet too stubborn to ever stop being retards. It irks me to no end and willful ignorance is legitimately the worst combination of human traits I can imagine.
@GothicDesire There is literally no rights any women in the Western world need, and most feminists are just moronic, lazy assholes with no social skills, no job skills, and no work ethic who just try to whine their way to the top because they have a pussy, which puts them even lower than sex workers, who at least put their pussy to work. No, I'd rather stay single for life to be with some hateful cunt who sees the entire world through the eyes of oppression and does f*ck all for women in third world countries where their Tweets and Reddit posts are irrelevant. No one who fights for "ACTUAL needed rights" calls themselves a goddamn f*cking feminist any more than Buddhists still use swastikas as a symbol of divinity, peace and love.
A woman being a feminist or woke is literally the most unattractive personality trait she can have. She'd have to be a man or queer in order for me to be more turned-off, and I couldn't give a baby mouse turd who disagrees with that. No self-respecting man is going to be with women who despise his entire gender (and their own gender, too).
Abuse. Hitting, screaming and cursing, breaking things, threatening, playing the victim, selfishness, ... Anything that would turn an otherwise peaceful environment into a warzone. 🥺
Anger. He can get angry at the world when he needs to protect me. But anger directed at me completely stuns me. A man is not masculine when he is screaming in my face. If he’s angry, walk away, go to the gym or just leave me altogether. Never get angry at your woman. Men are generally bigger than us and most definitely always stronger. Can’t describe how it feels to be shouted at by the very person who is supposed to defend me.
I hate when you meet a beautiful girl and all the sudden she opens her mouth and she starts talking about other people and putting other people down like she is Queen Alla Bala for me that just shows me how ugly she is on the inside I think it's just rude
Violent anger and aggression. I can’t stand people who think they can win an argument through loud voices and physical posturing (or threats). Instant ugly and irredeemable card.
Being untrustworthy, or not caring about my feelings. Not caring as much about me as I do about them. I expect the best treatment from people because I try to always give that in return. People have asked me "why the fuck do you care so much?" That's a good question.
I really dont like the cocky, arrogant, know-it-all types. I need someone humble who can hear everyone out and agree to disagree. I like for him to know he looks good without having to state it all the time
Manipulative, disrespectful, two faced, narcissist/sociopath, disregarding my emotions/concerns. Turning everything into a fight or ignoring/ghosting. Lack of self accountability. All that
Any type of insecurity... people with high levels of insecurity tend to be more passive aggressive and lack the mental an emotional fortitude to find true happiness.
I've been called snide, whatever that fucking means. For me though, I can't stand people that dont know when to shut up. lips can be closed just as much as run.
Manipulating some one to think they love you but just do it for fun. It hurts. All but one "relationship" I've had were like that. It's cruel. I was truthful why can't they be. They lied to me about being with someone. That's wrong.
Lack of personal hygiene, where the resources to fix that are freely available.
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Lazy, toxic, Karen, god complex, perverted, and those who watch Invader Zim and Nightmare before Christmas and make Gir and Jack Skellington their personality trait until their fucken 26 or until they’re emotionally exhausted. Those people are toxic.
Being greedy greedy people in general have a hard time no matter what that’s why most of them are alone funny how the greediest people end up losing all that they’ll ever need
being a self entitled Karen who think the world should turn around them
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Being disrespectful to others let it be anyone waiter or anyone , acting petty and lame, self indulged won't stop talking keeps boosting about themselves
Yeah I hate that too ! I got my hair done a few days ago and this lady tried to walk away without paying for her hair and that hair dresser was so sweet too?
True, but the term was hijacked by progressive socialists in this country's Democrat party to hide their true, far left beliefs. So, I use the label they adapted to refer to them.
They aren’t socialist though, just social democrats and AOC is a fraud in my opinion. Just a mouth peace for their dems since they know the younger generation wants more progressives but she just sides with democrat policies and defends Biden
I realize that you are young and have likely been exposed to indoctrination by socialist teachers. So I understand you don't see that there is no difference between social dems and socialists. This country was never meant to have social programs like we have today. It was a survival of the fittest plain and simple. But is was based on the Christian philosophy of love thy neighbor. Removing religious values from the way things are done in a capitalist system removes the empathy and restraint needed for it to be humane. When a business person has no feeling for their fellow man, they are ruthless (slavery is the best example of this). The Great Depression gave progressive democrats an opportunity to create social programs. Which is an often used part of the Marxist strategy, (never let a tragedy go to waste). That's obviously a paraphrase, just like liberal and progressive are word choices to make something evil seem like it's good. We both come from a lineage of slavery in America, but we rarely think of slavery as anything other than an American issue. Slavery goes back as far as we can reach in history in every society. Slavery is still prominent today and not just in small places. China has government run industries with slave labor. Of course, we know that the Democratic party always uses the African race as slaves to this day. First in their cotton fields and today as their go-to voting block. They have working vigorously throughout the history to keep the African race down in this country (do some research). Remember, it took the first Republican president ever elected to free the slaves and the KKK was a a group of rich white democrats. Democrats have fought in congress of many occasion to deny the African race of rights and equality. That includes the current president, Biden. I've gone on too long, I just want to ask you as a smart young black woman to do a lot of research for yourself and be careful of the people who try to get in your ear.
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