What is one trait that you immediatly find unattractive?

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This could be in friendships, work, dating and etc. This could be aesthetic or in personality and so forth. What trait in someone is an immediate no for you? For me its people who are racist, objectify people, or make fun of people for things they cannot control (like conditions, burn scars etc)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For me it’s personality. If someone’s entitled that’s the first thing that’s like fuck no… Bitchy no…. Standing up for yourself and others isn’t being bitchy. But being bitchy for no reason I’m not wasting my time.

Women who can’t communicate and expect me to read their minds. No…. I don’t want to be with a child especially not being married to one. Use your words. I speak English I’m not telepathic. And yes fuck yes there are men who do this to women. But that’s not the question.

Women who sleep around a lot. Women who pretend to be someone they’re not. Women who put others down to feel better about themselves.

Women who for sone reason they feel the need to be in competition with her partner. No…. We’re both on the same side. I don’t want someone whose going to work against me. Push me to be better? Yes. Challenge me? Yes. But still love me where I am and for who I am. Because she genuinely wants to see me be the best that I can be. And I want to see her be the best she can be. Not be at war witn one another. That’s so low IQ

MicahRaine · Accepted Answer

Work: When someone is arrogant and/or thinks they're better than someone else and communicates that rudely. In my experience, there's someone like that at every workplace, and that person is rarely the best or even "good" at what they do. Unfortunately, those people often move up to management (especially in poorly run companies) because they are naturally domineering and people are afraid to confront them. Lucky for me, it's my job to find those people and change them :) Friendships: Someone who lies. If you lie to me and don't change after I talk to you about it, you're out. I refuse to waste time with someone I cannot trust. Relationships: Someone who won't shut up about how much of a catch they are/how they're so perfect for me. If you aren't willing to let me figure that out for myself, we will not be moving forward regardless of how attractive, successful, or touchy you are.

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

Having no manners! My parents made sure manners were the number one thing we had as kids so it’s very hard to understand people that weren’t raised to have manners.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

1. Dirty hands. 2. Shifty eyes/wording. 3. Lack of courtesy.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Diving straight into the heart of the matter, one trait that turns me off faster than a light switch is lack of empathy. You know, that inability or unwillingness to understand and feel what another person is going through. Whether we're talking dating, friendships, or even professional relationships, empathy is the glue that holds everything together. Without it, there's a coldness, a distance that just can't be bridged. It's like trying to listen to music without any rhythm - it just doesn't flow right. So, if someone shows a lack of empathy, it's a clear red flag for me, much like those traits you mentioned. It's all about connecting with hearts and minds, right? 🤷‍♂️💔

kwsmith2 · Answer

Judginess. I don't mean just judgmentalism. That's not the best, but not an instant dealbreaker. I mean passive-aggressive judging of friends or acquaintances. There is almost no coming back from that.

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say a person that makes me feel like they don´t listen me. But instead they look on their phone, seem to be more interesting in other things and are not focused on our conversation.

BTigers96 · Answer

Narcissism. People who love themselves more than others. If it weren't for Narcissists Facebook, Instagram, and countless other social medial platforms would immediately collapse. 😃

Alli112 · Answer

Bad temper. I don't deal well with yelling or someone who experiences/expresses a lot of anger, regardless of what my relationship is to them.

thatshydork · Answer

Rudeness will always be unattractive in my eyes.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Anyone who describes themself as a mental health advocate. Also, any kind of hustle culture, positivity grindset. I swear, every person I've ever met like that is insanely toxic.

Anonymous · Answer

Immediately upon seeing someone. I’m going w a nose piercing, especially the bull nose piercings. Colored hair, like red, blue, purple, green, etc. Facial piercings.

Nikki1989 · Answer

@kylee2437 stole my thunder. Bad manners is an instant turn-off.

DrPepper12 · Answer

people with no filter. Bruh, i don't know you and you don't know me so STFU about your racist bigotry til you know i will NOT tolerate that shit!

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Personality-wise- snowflakery Appearance once- short nails

DarkLegacy · Answer

Everyone has flaws so mocking someone elses flaws is just arrogance and being conceited.

Randomdude849245 · Answer

People that think they are better than others.

MrGSpotHer · Answer

Girls that are bitchy or mean for no apparent reason

zombiewoof · Answer

People that judge others just because they are a bit different and belittle them for it

DryGermanGuy · Answer

The princess or diva types. 🙅‍♂️

FreyaRed · Answer

lack of impulse control.

RavVid · Answer

I would say holding political dogma

HighValue · Answer

Anyone with liberal morals.

exitseven · Answer

Somebody that is cruel.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

bad hygiene

Anonymous · Answer

unclean and doesn't know it

Dongie · Answer

Being ignored and or shhhssed.

OtterMan68 · Answer

Being high maintenance.

dragoblack · Answer

Narcissism and complete lack of effort

msc545 · Answer

Poor verbal skills.

VoyeurGuy · Answer

False bravado

andreasderjuengere · Answer

overweight

rienna888 · Answer

Cheap people

handsomelad70 · Answer

Bigotry !!!

Staximus · Answer

Shady people

andy530 · Answer

Closed mindedness

shortster · Answer

Smoking

Anonymous · Answer

Arrogance.

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