Any benefit of dating outside your race?

[Anonymous]

I am black woman that is always been curious about dating outside my race. I have dated few black guys but they always seem to be rude and selfish. I don't know if the white guys are any different.

[Datboi65]

"I dated a few black guys and they have been rude and selfish". Pause it right there.

First mistake: you generalized and ENTIRE ETHNICITY from "a few" men.

Second mistake: you're asking strangers online if a different ethnicity would behave differently from your experience.

A person your age should have enough life experience to understand that life comes with nuances and that there's never a one-size-fits-all answer for almost anything. I'm pretty sure if a man says the same thing about black women, you would be offended regardless of what his experiences were. Why do you think that it would be appropriate to make the same generalization about Black men?

Also, why do you believe that other men would be any different? What you will have to understand at some point in your life is that rude people come in all colors. I can care less if you have a preference outside of your race, more power to you in that. What I don't appreciate is the slander. Do black men do the same thing? Yes, and I would also call it out as well.

Finally, if you want better results THIS is what you should actually focus on finding a man with the following traits:

A) Honesty

B) Reliability

C) Good moral character

D) Leadership

These are the character traits you've been missing. What I tell you is if you wanna oversimplify things and only go by race, you will never find someone who fits all of these, because you're not looking correctly. These things I mentioned should come before race, height, and finances. The rest is additional, but these are the essentials. You lose these, and believe me no amount of asking questions online about other options will get you anywhere.

[Guy13]

I think you need to understand the man experience before plunging in... As a white guy here is what I found:

European Women:Spain/Germany, Tricky.

Filipina: hot, sexy, and loyal unless she realizes that's she's hot and sexy.

Black women: sweet and shapely jaws drop but then bat shit crazy at any moment-this was a PhD girl.

Thai: biggest heart and most loyal to the man she is dating. Beat the hell up with the Ugly Stick or good-looking... it does not matter

Chinese girls have this deep seeded anger thing but mostly a proper manner

American girls: laughing stock of the world with their junk hanging out and LGBT.

India/Middle East: hot but to much Father rule my house etc garbage.

[Multi_personality]

Don't judge all man base on a few. Man are as simple or difficult as woman. You need to stop focusing on their nationality or skin color and just find someone you fit well with.

I have date Brazilian, Mexican. Dominican. Puerto Rican, Haitian and your typical white American. They all had awesome things and bad things.

[AmandaYVR]

Genetic diversity. It lessens health issues.

Plus rebels and independent thinkers are f'ing cool.

[Avicenna]

People who are willing to date outside their race have a larger dating pool. Depending on the situation, there may be different challenges presented as well. At the end of the day, we date individuals, not a race.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Never date someone for their race, date them for the person they are…Rude and selfish isn’ta racial trait, it’sa personality trait

[bamesjond0069]

You may find there are benefits or not. Depending on the kind of environment and social circles you are in to date in the first place. I would imagine dating a white ex con or a black ex con might not be that different just as dating a white ceo and a black ceo might not be that different. That being said this is not how most people in theory or in practice interracially date. Often ones social circles they have access to has primarily a certain race and by seeking another race they move into a drastically different social circle. This is what can make it seem like it's very different.

I've dated multiple girls of every race and this is my opinion of it all.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I think it's beneficial just to date people you click with most regardless of race. Just try not to think about race and ethnicity too much unless your cultures are so different that you can barely talk to each other. You are hamstringing yourself if you just try to stick to a narrow group of people both in terms of friends and lovers.

[DenizLikesTennis]

What a lucky topic/question! Because I was always interested in dating black women but in my country, it's rare to find one. No, I am not against white too. But the only reason is because I believe they're being underrated and overlooked when it comes to this

[Weapon77]

Tons of benefits. For one thing, children of mixed ethnicities tend to be healthier, and sometimes stronger, faster, etc. You know how incest and inbreeding creates disease and weakness over time? Well reproducing with someone of a different ethnicity is the exact opposite and has the opposite result normally.

You also have the benefits of experiencing another culture and growing as a human being. You also increase your dating pool percentages drastically.

[MichaelEspinoza]

Well here's my opinion , I'm no expert on this but I will say this - as a male & a Hispanic I like both black women & Russian women. Now if I was to date a black woman or Russian woman as a Hispanic male & people had a problem with me dating either a black woman or Russian woman - well then that's they're problem not mine. So really I believe God is not against interracial dating or Marriage for that matter but he is against a believer dating & marrying a unbeliever.

[Anonymous]

The sex is more exciting for me.

I'm White and I feel more comfortable and attracted having sex with women that are a different race. I like that she doesn't remind me of my sister or my mother in any way at all.

[MendaciousMarxist]

Men in general suck so good luck with dating outside of your race, I've dated within and outside my race- all ended the same way.

[Adaeva]

Black man white women marriage are the least successful. White man, black women marriages are slightly more successful then white/white marriage.

[MCheetah]

I don't care about race. As long as she's a sweet, caring, single hetero woman with some curves (and ideally, tall), I'm happy with her.

[Phoenix98]

Larger pool of people to choose from I suppose but I mean at the end of the day your dating an individual not a race.

[Berethor]

White guys tend to be less rude and selfish, that's why there are less white criminals.

[TheSpaceGnome]

There isn't going to be better odds that he will be less rude or selfish.

You might try examining personality types instead of race.

[BJP21]

From my experience with a Latina Mexican girl. You learn new cultural experiences, you gain a great level of respect from others. It can teach you a great deal of cultural tolerance.

[UnknownSwede]

People will be rude and selfish regardless of race. Date whoever you're comfortable with

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I reckon you can appreciate culture more easily.

[Anonymous]

If you're smart, attractive, articulate and love to have sex, I'll show you what it's like! I love black women who are those things.

[haremhan]

yep different, we are so polite guys, believe me...

[Anonymous]

Beautiful mixed babies