Girls, What does girls think of guys with no experience?

[Rich5252]

I am 21 and I’ve never had a relationship or any form of intimate touch. I exercise 5-6 times a week, I own a business and take trips twice a year. I have a friend group that’s always down to go out and have fun. For some reason I’m always the odd one out. I’m very shy at first and just can’t seem to find anybody interested in me. I’m just looking for some feedback from a woman’s perspective. Please and thank you.

[WonderBell99]

You're only 21, still young, so I wouldn't think much of it. But if you were nearing 30 and still had almost zero experience with women, I'd go "Well, what happened?". It would be ludicrous to expect a 21-year-old to have had as much experience as a 30 or a 40-year-old.

You've mentioned that you are shy, so is it safe to assume that you're not comfortable with making the first move and haven't done so till now? It's not wrong to be shy, but you should outgrow your shyness at some point, especially if it is holding you back from letting someone you like know that you're interested in them. Personally, I've made the first move on 3 guys. One of them liked me back and we went out for a few months, and it didn't work out, but I had a good time. A lot of girls do not make the first move on guys. AT ALL. So, if you're trying to play it cool (for a long time) or not letting her know that you are indeed into her, she will not know and she will probably assume that you are not interested.

You can always find an experience if you're willing to go for it.

[SueShe]

The fact not to have a girlfriend at your age is not an issue in itself. That is perfectly normal and nothing to worry about.

Your type of character seems to be a little conflicting because if you own a business, you should not really be the shy type of person if you want to be successful.

Perhaps you should join a club or take up a hobby where you can meet people that share the same interest. Meeting people with similar interests can be very rewarding because you can share your passion or hobby and even meet the one that appeals to you. Good luck.

[CrazyGirl2]

It all depends on the personality of the woman, since we are no more “all the same” then all men are “the same”. We’re individuals, and as such each have our own individual tastes. There will be some women out there who are more “wild” and I doubt that you could keep up with that. Other women are more laid-back, it seems that the latter would be a better choice for you. I do have to say, that it seems strange that you have a succefull business, but say you are shy? It takes a very open and dynamic personality to build a successful business. How is it that you can be open, strong, and dynamic at business, but you can’t meet a woman? Look, if you are a good man, decent looking, and have a GREAT sense of humor, then you should have no problem building a romantic relationship just like you built your business! After all, it basically takes the same skillset. Good communication skills, confidence, building trust with clients, compromising, and finally closing the deal!

[Rich5252]

I guess it’s myself holding me back, thanks so much for the feedback. It’s good to hear other opinions

[Rich5252]

I guess when it comes to building a business I invest everything into it. Maybe I should do the same when meeting someone I like.

[Rich5252]

Well not everything but you get the idea.

[CrazyGirl2]

Yes, that’s a VERY good idea! Relationships take work, I know that some say “nah our relationship is easy, no work at all” but they are kidding themselves. If you want a relationship, just like when you started your business, you’ll have to take some risks. The first is actually asking girls out. OF COURSE some will say no, but so what? Brush yourself off and try again with someone else. I’m sure you had failures on the way to having a successful business, getting a successful relationship will be no different. But most women go their entire single life w/o ever asking a guy out. I know that if I liked you and was being flirty w/ you, but you didn’t ask me out, I would just assume that you were not interested and I’d move on. So the very first thing you need to do is ask a woman out, and be honest with her on the date, don’t pretend that you have dated/had sex with lots of women, trust me she WILL know that you have no experience as soon as things begin to get serious, and you can’t find her clitoris. Most women are very understanding, and would never mock or belittle the fact that you have no experience, and any women who do should be dumped immediately! They are NOT the women for you. But you sound like a sweet guy, I cannot imagine that you will have much difficulty in the dating world once you get started. Good luck sweetie.

[tireduck]

personally what I think: doesn't really bother me. Depending on the person and our connection I don't mind being their first sexual experience to get some skills on their resume. On the other hand, if not romantically invested in them I don't care to engage but rather let them get that experience from someone that can return their feelings.


In society term: some girls don't really care for guys with no experience especially if they have no confident. Though there are girls out here that like to slut a guy out 🤷‍♀️

[Sour-rose]

I think you're a noob and won't be able to keep up with me. But if I have patience and you're clicking with me, I think you be able to stay with me. However, i'm not speaking for all women but usually if there is SOMETHING, someone will spend time with you.

[Redhead1981]

I don't think having no experience is a bad thing. You are still young. I think it is fairly easy for guys to learn. Plus every person likes different things anyways so in a relationship it is about learning your partner and teaching them what you like. Girls may think that you are not interested in them if you are super shy. Try doing hobbies or classes/ clubs where you can meet people with similar interests that will help you to have something to talk about and meet someone.

[kevypatyy7]

I find guys without experience more comfortable to be with because they are curious and always sure to not make mistakes.

This creates love and understanding since they will make their opinions and feelings open to the girl they are dating

[Tranquility_Lady]

I like a guy who's a vigrin with no experience because that means I'll be all his first and I love that my boyfriend and I were all I first and I rather be his first then him have experience with other woman but that's just my preference

[Adaeva]

Who cares if you have experience? Women don't date because a guy has experience. They date because the guy is good looking and has other desirable characteristics.

[golden-locks]

You sound like that you would be somewhat intimidating to women, despite being so introverted. But not to me though - because I like and am attracted to men your type :-)

P. s. what sort of business do you own?

[Rich5252]

Restaurant, so I have a good personality, I just don’t apply it outside work.

[redpanda_]

Being older I'd rather it, but I've had a fair bit of experience now. If I had limited or none as well, I'd probably be pretty happy with someone who was in the same boat!

[Lowiu]

I dont think its that bad guys mostly can learn very fast if they try to

[TacosRAwesome]

When I was your age (18 to like 23) it was aww sweet we can learn together. At my age, I'm not yet ready to be a cougar and if he's my age I'm like what happened?

[Daniela1982]

None of us had experience at one time. Pay it forward.

[Lis-the-librarian]

To be honest, it doesn't matter at all if you are hot.
And creepy if you are not.

That is how most women will see it.

[Anonymous]

Well I'm 31 with no experience cause I'm kinda of an incel so... But your age I think your fine and its nothing to worry about. Just try to take more interest in attracting girls.

[AsaKyo]

It's preferable since I also have none, if you're talking about intimacy

[katestar]

No. You're good

[linka_pat307]

Not everyone has experience, why not teach you the things you don't know

[katestar]

Like what?

[linka_pat307]

@katestar like how relationships work, things that keep relationship healthy... I guess

[katestar]

So. This is my first relationship

[katestar]

With a guy

[linka_pat307]

@katestar okie, any worries

[katestar]

Yeah. You didn't ask me which guy

[linka_pat307]

@katestar😄you are funny... So who is the luckiest guy that you are with

[katestar]

I have feelings for my crush.

[linka_pat307]

@katestar okie, am pretty sure you haven't told him, do you think you two have chance of dating

[katestar]

Um. Yeah. This guy. He's a actor. He grew up with me as teenagers. And now we're adults.

[linka_pat307]

@katestar childhood crush... You just tell him (you know I had crush on you and still do) if he single buh if he gives signs of not liking you, don't get urself hurt

[katestar]

He's single.

[linka_pat307]

@katestar perfect, just take this chance buh if you are shy just write a letter expressing yourself

[katestar]

Seriously?

[linka_pat307]

@katestar yeah... Just make sure your friendship isn't spoiled

[katestar]

It's not

[Minahh]

It is totally okay, dont worry. Personally I like guys with little to no experience :)

[Preeti161101]

Frist time no one has experience do and get it

[Mamaganja]

It would only matter to a pillow princess.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Not a problem. I'll gladly take the lead.

[Jojojojojojojo]

I think it’s alright u just 21

[Literalbillionaire17]

Personally I think it cute

[Anonymous]

Virgins should stick with other virgins.

[katestar]

I've never had a boyfriend.

[ZenJen444]

I wouldn't be with interested in a guy like that.

[tonamimargaux]

They are cute.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with, just not as fun