Guys, what would you think of a girl with no dating experience?

[osmalik]

Imagine you're on a date with a woman (mid to late 20s) or chatting with her online and when it comes to discussing past relationships she says that she's never been with a guy before. Would you be weirded out?

[Avicenna]

The only thing I would view differently is I'd expect that she would be clueless about some things other women would understand about relationships, especially communication. I have dated a few women who didn't have any dating experience and they were great to date, but you had to teach them a few things about relationships.

[DextroShade]

It depends on her age:

• 25 and under it is desirable for her to be a virgin for various reasons
• 25-30 I start to wonder why she hasn't found a man yet
• 30+ indicates that something is really wrong with her because she threw her best years in the trash and couldn't find a single guy she would consider marrying or even hooking up with in that time

Even if you don't lose it your virginity has an expiration date as a desirable trait. And don't try to hide behind tradition or religion either because women who are truly traditional get married young.

[osmalik]

I do understand that after a certain point it starts to become questionable. I do believe that the majority of people are just unlucky in that aspect rather than holding onto strong religious beliefs. So, in your opinion, it would be better if she at least hooked up with someone after a certain age or if she genuinely stated that she just wasn't lucky with meeting a compatible partner?

[DextroShade]

Find a guy who wants to take you seriously and have sex with him. You probably have a guy in the friend-zone who would love to be your first and not discard you after. Don't throw it away on some player who will just pump and dump you.

[osmalik]

I don't have a person like that but thanks for the tip.

[DJB72]

My ideal woman. Seriously.

I regret that I'd slept with two girls before I met my wife. She regretted having had one boyfriend before me.

It's nothing to do with my Faith - although I am a Christian - I just wanted my wife to be the only girl I had been that intimate with and I longed for her to feel that way too.

If I were single again now I'd rather find a girl with few guys in her past than the most skilled sexual partner on the planet because I'd rather she's trying things because it's me than because it worked for the last dozen she slept with, and the same for me - I'd rather do something fresh with her than offer what's worked before.

A girl with no dating experience or sexual experience would be amazing. That's the girl you marry.

[Chill_Thoughts]

Nah it's all good, but it does make me think twice about going into something casual. Cause if it's your first time, no matter how honest and clear we make things, you'll probably still get very attached and that's perfectly fine as long as I am as into it as you

[NamerOfStars]

Probably, but it's not like there's nothing weird about ME, either. I mean, if I'm on a date with her, then there's at least something about her that I like. A late start is better than none, no?

[Joshydavid25]

Not at all.. I would think she just didn't want to end up with just anybody, or was focusing on her studies or being stable in life. But I would be anything but weirded out.. I might wonder why she hasn't been with one yet though..

[MysticDevice]

Wouldn't be weirded out at all but I would be very intrigued.

All my partners, even in highschool, had already dated someone before me so I always thought it would be neat to be someone's first.

[DarkWinterNights]

It kind of depends why, but it probably wouldn’t bother me. I haven’t dated in a long time so I’d basically be in the same boat.

[Lionman95]

No I would rather ask her why she never as in a relationship but it wouldn´t be a red flag to me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

No but my next question would probably ruin everything, is ask if she has a body count, I won't ask how much but with a yea or no, I'm either talking or walking.

[osmalik]

I literally mean with no guy so there would be 0 sexual experience.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Then that's a W no lie

[jarkitor20]

Wouldn't be weirded out at all
You have to start somewhere and some people end up with the first person they meet

[ColHathi]

Happens. I know someone like that. My own experiences are limited too. It wouldn't weird me out