I think he was thinking of dating and having a SO (i use SO instead of gf/bf) or partner as the same thing. in my opinion even if you have no xp with dating you could still have with having a SO or partner. Or just random ONSs for that sake. Dating is its own thing in my opinion, even if you did dates with a SO or partner it might not have started that way and so again you kinda have "no" xp with dating because all the dates you did was with someone you already know, which kinda isn't the same think. I think he uses the term as an umbrella term for relationships and other things like wether youve lived with someone or not, had sex or not etc. I mean what does he mean "teach you stuff"? Teach you how to hold a fork? How to use a napkin? How to walk or hold hands? He must obviously be talking about sex or relationship ins and outs. But dating only means dates, again in my opinion, which many end up with no relationship and no sex as some people are conservative. Meaning one can have xp with many of the things he seems to be refering to without actually having gone on dates.
And no id welcome it if i was interested in her as i have little experience with dating myself. Like actually meeting people i haven't met before for just coffee or dinner, or like cinema, walks whatever it is people do🙂 I've done it, but far from graciously... I spent many years in college, there the name of the game was meeting gals at parties, out on town, at the dorms, or at campus. And then we always made plans at eachothers dorms, but i wouldn't call that dates, closest maybe was if i or she invited over to dinner, and damn did i consider that formal. "movies" seems (ed) to be a magic word when stating what you're inviting over for if sex was the main goal.🙂
My first girlfriend didn't have any experience dating or flirting or any sexual experience. My ex was/is (I don't know anymore) a prude. This may sound cruel but I am looking for someone emotionally and sexually mature for a relationship. When you date someone who is naive to anything that has to do with a romantic relation, take in to account you will only be that person 1st, of several other possibilities she/he will explore in her lifetime.
I feel I opened a pandora box when I think about my ex.
Dating is not about experience. It's about finding a suitable romantic partner to start a life with. Why care about what another guy thinks? It will lower your self esteem more and lose confidence. Date somebody your friends with. He only wants experience because it means sexually experience girls. And it means more sex for him. You don't want that kind of person. Nobody can teach you anything. It's willingness to be a lover or not. I never dated either. Doesn't bother me much that others don't like me for it. I do what makes me feel happy.
I don’t see why not. I don’t have really any. I have had a boyfriend for pretty much the last 2 years of my life. Before that never been on a date. First that make me less appealing
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I'm a 26 year old guy, I'm currently living in Cambodia although I have lived in 5 different countries and have always been quite popular with girls. I say this because there is a difference for how 'popular' a guy is with girls as well as what his endgame is.
As a guy you'd want a girl for 2 different reasons:
1 sex
2 family
If I were to look for some action I wouldn't want a girl with no experience since those types of girls are way more defensive and take a lot longer, also I dont need a girl to take the lead since I know what I want and like, so very experienced girls are also a no.
When it comes to marriege however I 100% would go with a girl who has no experience (my current girlfriend hasn't even held hands with a guy before meeting me and she is definitely my keeper)
There are a few reasons for this, as a guy there is a certain instinct to be able to lead the relationship and teach her about it in the way you like (for example dates, love languages and sex). Since first time experiences are very powerful. Also non experienced girls are very commonly in a *1 guy only* mindset and they are way less likely to cheat because of this. (Just think back to your first boyfriend and if you ever wanted to step out on him if he was a good guy).
Hope this advice helped.
I would like to date girl with no experience. They're more open and can have a good connection with you. The girls with experience would probably be remembering the things that went wrong in their previous dates and will have a plan for when things go south (even if they loose interest to the guy). Also some girls might already start judging people by some hobbies the guy might have based on their past experiences. Dating with a girl with experience is basically going carefully, you never know when she might leave from the date.
That guy just wants a girl he fuck and use for a few dates and move on. "Independent" girls love buzz words. He is just wants to use you dummies!
I am taking the girl that makes me feel happy, and is respectful/respectable. She might have experience, she might not, its something I dont care about.
I would gate her whole-heartedly. I read a very good definition of experience:
"Experience is something you get after you needed it."
There are things that she may have experience in, where I don't have that experience. I just want her to be honest. The rest we will figure out. Hopefully, I will not lose patience.
Because he's an idiot and just wanted casual sex. The less experience in dating and sex the better for marriage. For men who are serious you would be more attractive. For lazy guys just looking for sex they would find you annoying and less attractive.
Personally I would date a girl that has no experience or limited experience. That is not because I want to teach her what I like. My reason is that I could help her grow into the lady that she wants to be. I also could make sure that she would not be abused the way some guys abuse ladies.
If I was interested in her then sure. I got no experience either. So what if there is some awkwardness. Just laugh it off and move on like adults. You don't need experience to enjoy something. And therr's a first time for everything.
I've never cared either way, but I've also never minded being the teacher. To me, it's like, say, taking someone to Disneyland who has never been there - you get to relive your first time through their experiences.
Generally yes I would. I do want a certain maturity level in a person, however I'm talking about "basic" maturity that a person can develop even without being in a relationship.
I'd actually prefer someone with no experience. That way they can develop their dating skills along my patterns, and will most definitely be more compatible as a couple.
I don't have much experience myself, so it would actually make me feel more comfortable just knowing our dates will probably be a little clumsy in a cute way.
Yes I would. I haven't dated much myself so I think this would actually be nice. I also like the idea of someone experiencing something new with me.
Yes. Definitely. It's always nice to be someone's first. It's special. The awkward moments. The silly mistakes. And odd fights. And making up after those odd fights.
Infact i would prefer to date someone who hasn't been in a relationship before..
I have done this. As long as it's not because of mental illness or something else negative it's not a problem.
I'll prefer it if she haves no experience with dating this makes you feel a little bit more special if you are her first date and not her 50 date
You mean the perfect woman? Yes.
Your guy friend sounds like a retarded piece of shit to me, sorry to say.
If I like her it would not matter, but I would have my guard up a little in case her inexperience makes her feel like she wants to "branch out".
That guy is probably outliar.
Thanks to this site, I know if you're a female, guys will date you.
The reverse is not true, however.
I'd like to date girls which have not one-night-standed or had short relationships with other men. If a girl has inexperience with dating, but she did got laid, I'd pass. Otherwise I'd be all ears.
Sure, doesn't matter to me at all. Hell, I'd just be glad I got a date in the first place.
Absolutely... she can certainly learn a thing or two at her choice of place and time... that being said, she should be dating someone near her age... not an old perv
Yes. They aren't applying for a job. They just want to be with someone they want to be with.
I have no experience. Would be interesting to explore that world together.
Sure. Each time you are with someone new you need to figure out what makes your partner happy anyways.
The less experience in anything the better. No expectations, and I'm in the driver seat.
I don't understand why any man wants "experienced" but to each their own.
I rather have no experience cause who knows she might be more pure and clean than the other ones no offense. Plus can make a huge impact in their life.
I don't really think he would have to teach your stuff I mean she probably knows way more than he thinks and probably have her head on her shoulders pretty good but you never know so be careful
I would. I have no experience either so I honestly might prefer it, we could learn from each other and teach each other.
I don't mind. I like to have no pressure fun on the first few dates just to see if we are compatible romantically.
Well I'm in the same boat. So I wouldn't be able to teach her much, but I'm certainly willing to learn together.
And you believed him. Oh well.
Just find someone that likes YOU just the way YOU are.
totally. probably because I've barely dated myself but still
Inexperieced girls are clean and pure they have no past, i dont think any sane man would want more than that
Of course.
I don't like experienced girls at all on any level
I've never dated, asking me this, it will be a great for 2 having this situation
How old is he? 12?
If that's what a guy between 18-24yo says we should extinct soon
Why would I care if she has experience dating? As long as the pussy is good and made freely available to me, I can work around anyting else.
Some guys don't have a problem dating a girl with no experience
Sure. Everybody had not experience in some time and this way is more funny for both because everything is gonna happen naturally
Yes why not. It's a date. Do t matter how many experience they have
Yes so I can show them what it really not to be like I love training lol
She needs to start somewhere, right? So yes, I'd date a inexperienced girl.
A woman who has surpassed 25 and never had a boyfriend?
Some guys would love that
All of us had no experience dating at some point
Yeh cause neither do I
Yeah, because I don't have any either, lol.
Only if she's open minded.
Yes.
I've even done it
No problem with that, just no dick-brainwash there
Dating experience doesn't matter to me.
Yup? How would she gain experience otherwise?
I have no experience in dating.
You have to start somewhere.
Yeah, it would be fun to show them new things.
Yes!! Very enthusiastic about this
Yes I would. That's not a turn off to me.
It doesn't matter, we all have a first time
I have no experience with dating so yea
Yeah would probably be refreshing
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