I have a date with her on Saturday. Should I try to engage more with her whenever I see her the rest of the week? Seems like she is?

[Anonymous]

I see her on most days but she's been a bit distant since I asked her out until yesterday when I went to ask her how she's doing, and after that she came to me twice, one time putting her hand on my back and asking if I could help her with something. I said no and pulled her tongue out looking away from me. Weird

Of course, she knew my no was actually a yes as I always do that to her and I did help her, we ended up spending like 20 minutes talking a bit later. I just wonder if I should be more playful with her as she was today. Though neither mentioned our date

I've been keeping a distance until our date because she kept hers most of the week and was very short on words but perhaps I should follow her lead here?

[Guy13]

You led. She wants to be led. You spoke as Main Planner and Doer and she happily submitted and sought your attention. Talk at least once during week BUT not on same schedule every week etc