Why are boys so confusing?

[egilla]

So, this guy has shown a lot of interest in me. He's interested in what's going on in my life and is very intentional about talking to me when I see him. We've been on a couple dates, but even though he constantly shows interest, he won't ask me to hangout again. Also, my friends recently saw him getting lunch with another girl (I realize this could be innocent but it's worth mentioning). I'm so confused and I feel like I'm being played. Am I being paranoid for nothing?

[tzdc21]

Well it might be nothing. I don't know your relationship with this guy. I don't know how long ago you hung out with him, I don't know how much you're reciprocating his interest. Have you tried asking HIM to hang out instead of waiting for him to do it?

[egilla]

Yes I have asked him to hang out for our second date and I also recently asked him to hangout again but he hasn't gotten back with me.

[tzdc21]

Through text or a phone call? I don't know exactly the reason why he's not responding. Maybe he's not interested anymore or maybe he's just busy. I don't know.

[Tracker1958]

Dear, can you take a hint?

[Lionman95]

Because boys are complicated, too.
From a guy´s perspective there is a difference between liking a girl and being in love with her. Your problem could be that your guy isn´t ready to ask you out but instead he just likes you. That means he enjoys being around you and spending time with you but he hasn´t fallen for you. It´s just a way of him being friends with other people.
But did he call your meetings "couple dates" or is that your description?

[SphynxUK]

Are they dates? Did he say they were or are you assuming? If they were, maybe he now sees you as a friend. I they weren’t dates then maybe you need to ask him if he wants to hang out or date. It takes two you know.

[coachTanthony]

He's just not that into you and may not want to be with you or anyone else. He's what we call a cool casual guy who dates around.

[Tracker1958]

For every action they is an equal reaction. What feminism has done to women is the equivalent reaction men are having to it. Feminism tells women, you don't need a man and men are happy to pump and dump you. It's a huge get out of marriage free card. Men are loving all the free sex with no committing to any woman. for men it's a dream come true. What make this so special is that women believe it's their choices. If she act like trash, men will treat then like garbage. Single motherhood is going out the roof and men are told to never marry a single mother. If she can't make her first marriage work, she doesn't have the will power to make the second marriage work.

[Candyterry]

Who hurt you bro

[Tracker1958]

@Candyterry not hurt and still married to the same woman for 45 years.

[Candyterry]

I agree with your opinion on women & men nowadays. But I thought you were hating on us women 😅

[Tracker1958]

@Candyterry well maybe 50/50. At my age, I need to stir the pot for entertainment purposes.

[FilmGuy93]

Relationships are a give and take. If you want to hangout again, why not take charge and initiate it yourself?

[LiamJHayden]

The truth is he is probably just trying to get laid.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

They are confusing if you think you understand them more than you really do.

[Anonymous]

If you don't take him, someone else will.