Why are some boys like this?

[GreyAndWhite89]

Why is it that after highschool and after some real bully girls reformed, some boys choose those girls that used to bully them in highschool as wives while non-bully girls who only joined the bullying in order to be popular are rejected and ignored by those same bullying victim males?

Some also say that bully girls are courageous compared to those non-bully girls.

Seriously, what does all of these mean?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude I don't fully get it either man. Here's my theory on why some dudes end up with their childhood bully girls:

- For some guys, they see getting with the bully girl as like, winning now. Like they get to one-up her by having her into them. It's weird revenge almost.

- Then y'know, bullies can be super confident and pushy. After school some guys might find that weirdly attractive, even if it hurt back then.

- I guess it's like, the bully girls were the "cool" or "hot" girls in school. Even if they were mean, some dudes still built them up in their heads cuz of that.

- Then the non-bully popular girls, they were still tryna please other people back then ya feel me? It's the bully girls who stood out more individualistically.

I dunno man, it doesn't really add up to me either. Bullying is lame no matter what. I wouldn't judge any dude for who they date, but I wouldn't wanna be with someone who used to hurt me like that. Takes some real twisted thinkin to look past that in my opinion. But different strokes for different folks I s'pose!

[BoopBoopBeep]

The only thing worse than a bully is the crowd that supported them, because they didn't have the balls to stand up and actually DO anything, one side or the other. Maybe the bully reformed, the others are just cowards and validation seeking followers.

[Anonymous]

So you are obviously lying about your age. What gives?

[VictorMachiavelli]

Kids bully each other, fight and argue. Most grow up and move past all that, realising that it’s just dumb kid stuff. That’s all there is to it. Anybody who doesn’t drop it as adults has just not grown up yet.

[Billlewis]

It's very simple -- men absolutely love mean women, period. I'm one of 'em. ;)

[Avicenna]

They might just be going for the first available woman

[In_Trance]

It doesn't mean anything