I have wanted to date this, beautiful, sexy woman for a long time. However I just found out recently she is a single mother. Should I still go for it?

[Anonymous]

[Avicenna]

It's generally a bad idea to date a single mom.

[SnowedIn]

Do you really think that? I'm curious why.

[Avicenna]

@SnowedIn; Uh, it's well known. Their focus isn't on you, they lead more chaotic lives than they would if they didn't have kids, their finances are in worse shape and there is more drama overall. And that's if they aren't trying to get you to be a replacement father for their kid.

[HateyouxD]

So what if the lady had kids by you... say she wasn't a single mom.. and eventually had your kids... she wouldn't turn out the same? As in her focus isn't mainly on you... but the kids?

[Avicenna]

@HateyouxD: That’s a good question, but it is different. And those are my kids with her, not another man‘s kids, so I want all of us to spend time together and I’m very focused on my kids as well as my partner.

[HateyouxD]

Lol what if her husband died? She gets punished then?

[Avicenna]

@HateyouxD: I don't see why some other guy should be expected to pick up the slack. There should be a social safety net in place to help and so should friends and family. If a man wants to get into such a situation, that's fine too, but I don't think you can expect many men to do that or even be able to do that.

[Anonymous]

Why do you care what we think? You probably shouldn't as ita not genuine and you only doing it for people who care LOL

[tedbuoyy]

I agree with you

[jshm2]

Post the pictures of this beautiful, sexy woman and we'll tell you.

But what's with the upright rat, pics?

[MiamiMadness]

Ok let’s be honest for a second.. do you really have a chance even if she has 20 kids?

[Asker]

What do you mean? Why wouldn't i have a chance?

[MiamiMadness]

Just the general vibe of your question makes me think you stalk her social media and she more then likely doesn’t know you exist. Please correct me if I’m wrong.

[Asker]

You are wrong bro. I have known for a while now. And she seems to feel the same way. The reason she didn't mention it for now is probably because she thought it would push me way if she mentioned it to soon.

[Asker]

before now*

[MiamiMadness]

Hard to tell with some GaG users so if you’re being serious then it’s probably not a good idea if it bothers you that she has kids, she can’t sell them off like the old days

[exitseven]

It depends how old her kids are. If thjey are toddlers I would say no.

[Love2Watch]

If you need to ask us, no. If it was right, you wouldn't need the opinions of a bunch of anonymous people on the internet.

[Whatisthatname]

Isn't that up to you to decide if you want to be in a relationship with someone who got kids from before?