This guy seems to really like me but he’s popular /social with a large social media following and a lot of female friends. Should I reject him?

[Anonymous]

Honestly this whole question comes from insecurity but considering how I feel I wonder if I should just reject him over this.

To be clear there is nothing wrong with being any of what I named before but I’ve always avoided entertaining those types of guys dating wise because I feel like I’ll never be a treasure in his eyes. If your friendly and like everyone, know a ton of women, what makes me different?

He’s handsome and nice and etc etc like not saying he’ll cheat or whatever that’s not fair to assume about him but if everyone wants you need do you need me to? At the same time throwing away a good guy because he’s well liked probably isn’t very smart.

Should I just let him go? And if not how do I get over my fear of be involved with liked men.

[Anonymous]

You’re saying he “seems” to like you, so don’t you want to be sure that’s the case and if he’s even wanting a relationship before considering everything else? I wouldn’t even be thinking of getting serious with him until we started dating anyway. Keep in mind that being a nice guy does not always equate to being a GOOD guy, and you may find he isn’t a good match at all.

[Asker]

He’s be asking about being exclusive but I’m not sure consider him how we’ll known he is.

[Asker]

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[Opinion Owner]

Got it, well in that case I would say to make your decision based on how he treats you. For instance, is he consistent with his effort towards you? Is he reliable? When you look at your standards and requirements for a man, does he align with them? Those are important considerations in your decision making. But more than anything, please go with your gut and don’t feel bad about it. You have of fair reservations about dating this guy, and while you’re doubting yourself it may be your intuition trying to warn you. You know yourself and how your mind works as well, so you don’t want to sign up for a future of worrying and doubts.

[Guy___]

It depends on you. Some women prefer a popular guy.

[Asker]

I absolutely despise dating popular men, on the other hand a really like this guy.

[Guy13]

Not sure if he has a serious interest and you are already preparing your wedding?

[Asker]

He’s said he wants to be exclusive. I’m not sure if I want that, I don’t like dating popular men. On the other hand I like him.

[Guy13]

I see. Popular, beautiful, and “what are you doing with me” dating partners can be loyal too. I get it though. They get way too much unsolicited attention from women.

[rienna888]

Since he’s nice he might not cheat. I’d say give it a go or you might regret it. And you could learn from dating hin