What turns men off with women in relationships?

[spiritGirl13]

Nonsexual answers please……

[Shamalien]

When they never stop wanting more. Just be happy when we do something for you and digest that instead of immediately wanting more.

[spiritGirl13]

Well said💯.

[Juxtapose]

Any sort of shallow behavior whatsoever. I really don't like shallow people.

[spiritGirl13]

Example?

[Juxtapose]

Judging my worth by my personal material wealth is a solid example. I pay my rent on time every time, that's all they need to know.

[spiritGirl13]

Nice got ya. Basically worrying about irrelevant stuff.

[Juxtapose]

Yeah! A good relationship should be like best friends but you are sexual with each other and that heightens the intimacy.

[Juxtapose]

None of my best friends asked me about my money or any of that bullshit. My closest friends are the standard to which I hold potential dates to.

[spiritGirl13]

That’s a good way of seeing it. Never thought about that way.

[Juxtapose]

Thanks! 🤜🤛

[MCheetah]

1. Transgender (males.)
The biggest dealbreaker of all. I'm not gay, which means I'm not attracted to anyone who isn't a heterosexual monogamous female. Don't be male.

2. Feminist/far-left/woke (far-left.)
The biggest personality dealbreaker of all. No man-hating, bitter, negative, angry, complaining women should be tolerated.

3. Bisexual/queer (lesbians.)
Self explanatory: If she's queer, then she's a lesbian. If she's a lesbian, why on Earth would I want her? Lesbians are a giant turn-off to me. So, straight women or nothing at all.

4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally.
This is a clear dealbreaker and one I won't tolerate whatsoever, not even red flags or warning signs of it will be tolerated.

5. Polyamorous/isn't single/the "open relationship" type (an adulterer; unfaithful.)
These are all basically the same thing: Being promiscuous. I don't want to have anything to do with fast and loose immature women like this who have no loyalty and can't be trusted in a relationship.

6. Promotes lewd content of herself online (including and especially OnlyFans.)
The same thing as the one above. These women are unfaithful, selfish, make poor life choices, and can’t ever be trusted.

7. Has “preferred pronouns,” or uses terms like “genderfluid,” “non-binary,” etc.
These people are mentally ill narcissists and psychopaths. I won’t be tolerating their nonsense.

[spiritGirl13]

AMAZING right on 🤙🏼💯

[Pyrofox]

Probably would be conflict addicted narcissistic nature. A lot of women never grasp a man's goal is to reach a Zen end of the day point. Aka a point of not thinking, worrying, reaching the point of idhgaf. Which cannot be done if a woman is narcissistic, boss bitch, conflict obssed and needy.

[spiritGirl13]

Interesting 🧐

[Pyrofox]

That being said. If you manage to do the opposite you will become the most highly valued woman in the world. AND you get to reap whatever riches your other half makes while you do little more than cook meals, and look after the kids. Whatever other hobbies, intrests and activities you want to do that are your intrests are also fully funded. Well within whatever man you choose. Has a budget for that but that should be without question if you are already having kids together.

[spiritGirl13]

And how can one maintain that zen like state for their man.

[blackgaletiger]

Attitude and how she carries herself
Having no filter in public settings
Constantly bad mouthing others
Talking about rumours and other peoples problems and drama
Having no ambition or goals in life or to do anything

[HighValue]

Drug use, drinks lots of alcohol (for me I don't want her drinking any alcohol), promiscuous past, dishonest, hypocritical, has contact with an ex, feminist, and basically if she has liberal/Democrat views.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Trying to "fix" us (translation: nagging)

[spiritGirl13]

Well said.

[TotallyAlmost]

Insecurity, high-maintenance behaviors, bossing around.

[spiritGirl13]

In what do insercurity play a role in it? For an example what would you say?

[TotallyAlmost]

Girls that talk themselves down or compare themselves to others all the time. Or fish for compliments.

[spiritGirl13]

💯💯💯💯

[TotallyAlmost]

why do you ask

[spiritGirl13]

I always wanted to know in what way can a girl be insecure and the man is turn off by it. Don’t want to ruin a relationship with insecurities. So that’s why I asked

[FilmGuy93]

Edginess, argumentativeness, impulsiveness, jealousy, general anger and bitterness.

[Anonymous]

When a woman wants a confident, strong and successful guy and then expects him to not be dominant.

[spiritGirl13]

Lol yeah. that’s a turn off👎🏼😴

[LOGESHKUMAR]

Men want a women to share work & men want them to do many things as by own..

Men doesn't want No answers mostly on all things..

[spiritGirl13]

Rephrase your answer. I don’t understand

[LOGESHKUMAR]

I mean men doesn't want No answer from her partner regarding all things.. They want their partner to do all things..

[Anonymous]

Bad behavior, non-caring attitude, playing mind games and tests, vagueness, doing drugs or smoking, social media profile full of stupid reels.

[spiritGirl13]

Tell me more about the non- caring attitude?

[Brando10222]

When she's rude for no reason and doesn't always care about her partner. But she always wants her partner to care about her.

[boggboss]

Clingyness demanding bitchyness

[spiritGirl13]

That’s Understandable.

[Anonymous]

Feminist brain cancer

false victim mentality

nagging

controlling

getting fat

Reduced sex drive

abuse

cheating

[Anonymous]

Real simple. When the juice simply isn't worth the squeeze. Women are work. The benefit has to outweigh the work. Or at least be equal to it.

[Anonymous]

Women with drinking problems, possessive and controlling nature, narcissistic, emotionally abusive etc.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the upvote.

[Luckycharms12]

Nagging or trying to change us.

[spiritGirl13]

👌🏽💯

[chicosuave]

emotional and bipolar. huge turn off for me.

[Williams_cla]

I would like us to have some conversation together, if you don’t mind…?

[CloudMassacre]

Distrust

[spiritGirl13]

Okay How can you tell if she has distrust? Or anyone?

[CloudMassacre]

I don’t really know how to describe it, it’s a vibe they give off, little things they say in response, or the kinds of questions they ask

[spiritGirl13]

Got ya. I find myself doing some of those things. I appreciate your feedback ❣️

[CloudMassacre]

No problem 👌