Why do men lose interest in women?

Question

Please need feedback

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

We either get to know them and that slimy personality starts to outshine what we were attracted to from the start or we were tricked from the start and we start to realize it... both reasons are sort of the same, depends on how you look at it.

Let me explain further with female's own behaviors. Makeup, fake shit all the way from eyelashes and eyebrows to boobs and butt. That's not them. Fake behaviors as well. Can I hear a round of applause from the dudes who recognize chicks who pretend to like video games or sports that slowly get exposed for doing it only for attention? ... it sort of happens a lot.

It's not a chick-specific thing, I think... every dude I've seen that has a great 5-minute presentation tends to not be able to hold onto anything long-term. I think the reason I pull a 20-year marriage while others can't even keep a girlfriend is because I kept it pure and uncut right from the start. Even my side-chick success I attribute to not lying in any way whatsoever. That and being able to pass shit tests... although I will admit the shit tests are fucking annoying. But again... it's the deception or lack thereof that makes the difference.

Outside of that... things change... we all know that hawt Latina that went from a 10 to a 4 just because she got into a relationship and decided working out is for losers and eating in excess is where it is at.

You know what I'm talking about, don't deny it.

Again, I don't think this is gender specific... If you got with me looking like this

Would you be happy if I just got super fucking fat? I mean with man tiddies, a gunt, and developed flabby arms? If you got with me just for what I have going on... my guess is you'd be a little disappointed that I let it all go just because I feel like I trapped you in a relationship.

Anyway... that's my little mini-my take on the subject. Hope it helps, but if I don't get MHO... AI bot is my bitch. She sucks me off every night.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Sometimes, they discover something about a partner which drastically alters their idea about the long term prospects with a woman. Maybe they discover that she is an alcoholic, or bipolar, or spends every penny she gets in her hands.

Sometimes, people tolerate things early in a relationship because they are hoping to make it work, and sometimes, guys tolerate dealbreakers because they want to have sex with a lady. After they have sex, they lose their patience to tolerate whatever behavior is the problem, and they say sayonara.

Sometimes, guys aren't strongly committed and another girl comes along who gets the guy's attention and they are ready to move on.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

I suppose it’s the same as why women lose interest. Lack of interest- boredom.

For the guys though, if they got “bored,” it meant they never had serious feelings for the girl and the boredom was just the passion or lust that faded. They maybe just “tried” the girl, to see how fun it could be, or what could be gathered from it.

I’d also say there’s som fair exceptions- of guys getting bored with someone who didn’t have similar interests as they did- so say he’s an “adventurist/dare devil,” and she wants to “settle down,” raise a family, or stay in her small town of 23. He may wait and think their one liking or something in common or same job choice at the time links them, but they’re incompatible. He gets irritable and she doesn’t budge. He loses interest and moves on. 🤷‍♀️

Another way of him losing interest is lack of connection. She maybe doesn’t relate to him or listen to him. She may be selfish or doesn’t love him back. He senses it but maybe isn’t sure or doesn’t actually want to leave her, so he gradually loses feelings for her. He loses interest.

Types of guys/ reasons for losing interest, in summary:

The not-so-serious guy/ player: loses the fun factor. —> loses interest
The “fast lane” ambitious guy or simply the one with different goals and life interests: loses hope of following similar life paths/ lifestyles. —> loses interest
The guy who realizes the relationship is one sided : loses feelings of attachment/ meaningful connection. —> loses interest

These are the three basic categories, I feel, can occur within different relationships. There may be others I’m missing, but these definitely are the general, Core 3.

clovertheminotaur · Accepted Answer

For every man, there is a unique reason. Unless you can describe your own situation, it's a complete tossup as to why a man could lose interest. It could be something as simple as an internal change and something as complex as a faltering relationship.

For example, I fell out of love with my now ex boyfriend because of a series of events. I didn't turn to anything but solitude, and that's when I realized I was happier alone than with him. If I went into detail, this would be an essay, but I'm saying this because... Well, I know women are the same way too.

Use this as a moment to reflect on yourself. Chin up, keep your head high. The right guy will keep his interest in you.

Summeroflove · Answer

There’s a lot of reasons and it goes both ways. One is lack of interest form the other person. Sometimes someone shows interest and they don’t really show interest back. So theh sort of loose interest or eventually someone starts showing them interest.

Ir can be. Sometimes people create this huge fantasy of who someone is in their head. To actually get to know them and they aren’t who they expected.

It can simply be. Crushes come and go.

Maybe he found out she has a boyfriend. Maybe he learned something about her. Who really knows.

Avicenna · Answer

Apparent disinterest on her part, poor communication, her showing interest in other guys, dealbreakers become evident.

DarkSpectrum811 · Answer

I’d imagine the same way most women may lose interest in men. The routine. You become so used to the person that they lose their appeal once the freshness wears off.

Others, may depend on the individual and realizing you don’t have much in common which is a huge reason why, but this will vary by person. One thing that bothers me is huge red flags in their personality which makes one want to give them up altogether. Both sexes do this but the ones that are demanding or overly clingy will get a pass by either sex. Too much familiarity also leaves one heading for the door.

RavVid · Answer

You mean a specific woman or women in general?

If a specific woman the periods between sex lengthens over time. It can be so hard to get a yes, you just give up and masturbate over a girl at work during the morning shower.

Women in general? Eventually you see patterns and you come to accept it is not going to be any different with the next one so hope doesn't spring when you meet a new one.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Most men don't know what they want, they are flaky.

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I'm not a man but I would think, he might be attracted to her physically... but her personality is not compatible with his. So he starts losing interest after a while.

Eifjf84jr · Answer

I think the biggest reason is because when give sex away to the guy at little cost in the beginning and then over time the cost becomes far more expensive. The required payment takes the form of more quality time, energy and attention.

Better when there isn't such a stark difference too soon before his emotions lead him to a place where he actually wants to invest.

DextroShade · Answer

It's likely because you have become more trouble to him than you are worth by some combination of being annoying, not submitting, consuming too much of his time or resources, and not putting out enough to be worth dealing with it.

CozyCoffin · Answer

Boredom, lose feelings, spend too much time with another person so you gain feelings for them, and more. There's really any number of things or more than one.

AngryCarl · Answer

Men haven't lost interest in women. OnlyFans exists.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Sometimes, many times, honestly we lose interest because the woman is just a boring person.

Likes2drive · Answer

Many reasons, things don’t change for the better, doesn’t want to try new things, sex is not happening much. Things like that

litty736 · Answer

Because some women give them more than they deserve. Now they have accomplished their mission, they are off to another prey.

Anonymous · Answer

They didn't they never really had it to begin with.

ienjoylookingatgreen · Answer

We get bored or we get sick of them that's the only reasons.

grega239 · Answer

Constant rejection. Betrayal, abuse, acknowledgement only when convinient and useful

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Because so many women lack personality. You can't keep a man with pussy alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Be she gets boring , or is not interested in sex anymore , refuses to try new things, etc

Anonymous · Answer

You gave him the sex or you didn't give him the sex. 💀

Anonymous · Answer

She becomes a complete asshole like demi did

Lynx122 · Answer

There can be so many reasons for that.

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

Maybe it’s like an attention span sort of thing.

sheikalana · Answer

Bad attitude.

DreamLife7 · Answer

You weren't who he thought you were

HouseMoat · Answer

When women lose interest in us

Raaj4you · Answer

When women play hard to get.

91bryce91 · Answer

same reason i lose interest in a kleenex

RebelisAlwaysHere · Answer

because women are ugly

Why do men lose interest in women?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Why do women lose interest so fast in men?

Why do men lose interest in women?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Why do women lose interest so fast in men?

We're glad to see you liked this post.