Why do women lose interest so fast and are flaky with men today?
It seems with women in order to keep them around you have to sleep with them as soon as possible or they get bored of you and stop contact.
So many girls have a great night with a guy but if the dates are far in between for the next date she might not even contact him again.
So many guys have fun back to back conversations with women and think she likes them only for her to eventually go cold and never respond.
Even when out on dates girls tend to rather be using their phones a lot and u basically have to constantly raise your voice sometimes to grab their attention back.
Where a dude was having a long distance relationship with a girl and they both visited each other and had a fun time with each other but she loses interest and ghost on him.
I just don't get why women seem to be like little kids that constantly need to be entertain or they just forget about you and move onto someone else (this is of course before you sleep with them). Why are women like that?
I think it ties to inner unhappiness with women. When you're dissatisfied on the inside, you won't be happy or satisfied with anyone else either. That being said, it seems to be that there is a kind of emptiness in women that they have to sort out with themselves first before they can really appreciate or be satisfied with a man. I think men know how to be content more often.
I lost interest in the last guy I liked pretty fast but only because he was so boring! Every conversation was the same with him and he also had wayyyy too many personal problems for my liking. Other than this one case, I usually maintain interest for at least a year.
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You could of: 1. Been upfront and told him you'd like a new conversation 2. Taken part in a conversation rather than leave him to carry the topic discussion all by himself.
I did, I'm not dim. It's not my fault he couldn't properly continue to carry the conversation. I'm a very blunt person, makes me come off as bitchy. I wouldn't leave my feelings unsaid but thanks for assuming I'm incapable of knowing how to handle social situations, much obliged.
Well if you did I see no reason why he would continue doing the same conversation when he knew it would annoy you. Your response seems to be a defensive one to save face like you made an effort when you really didn't.
Sure. I know I was clear so I have no remorse, I did what I did and he didn't fix it. Not my problem. Guess you're just a bitter stranger, God forbid I explain what happened without someone saying I'm defensive.
Person: Defends point. Oh you're defensive, you have something to hide.
Person: Doesn't defend point. Oh, you have no defense, you have something to hide.
How you seemm to projecting some feelings on to me. My point was never challenged, you simply made assumptions about me probably based off of what's happened to you before. Sorry you have had girls move on because of miscommunication but that doesn't mean you should go around trying to act like everyone is like that. That's called being bitter.
You said he was boring because the conversation was always the same. I gave you some advice for the next guy you consider "boring" that rather than giving up like most women do on men or expecting men to be mind readers and know what you thinking, why not help the guy. Tell him you don't like the conversation and move on.
You then got defensive and said you did all that but it doesn't seem like that's very true and your just trying to save face. A normal person hearing a person respond with a lack of interest in a topic would of changed the topic and ask what you' d like to discuss.
No me telling it how it went and you automatically assuming I was "saving face" just because it didn't fit what YOU wanted to happen is called projecting. Why am I arguing with you anyways, I know what happened and I know you're just some pathetic asshole who wants to pick a fight. Goodbye and goodluck in life... you sure will need it!
Because it doesn't make sense unless he's really dense. If someone flat out told me they were bored with the topic of choice i would change topics not continue and bore them. Especially if he was trying to keep you around.
The guy is merely giving helpful advice. Often times when we point to someone else for problems in a relationship, we realize the problem comes from within.
So the question to be asked here is, are you interesting? does that person want to partake in the interesting things you want to do. If he is not even open to learning and doing new things then yeah maybe you can claim he is boring.
These are just tools, we are not assuming anything against you. Wish you best.
I've actually had that flaky problem with 12 of the dudes I have dated in the past. I guess my craziness scares them off but if that's not the case then I don't know.
*I am naturally restless by nature *I get bored with people and places easily *I can't deal with ongoing expectations + jealousy + obsessiveness + anger
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