Why have guys stopped sliding into my DMs?

[Audiofox]

I know people say it shouldn’t matter because “they’re just creepy anyway” but plenty of people are starting good relationships this way. When I turned 30 so stopped getting random DMs as if I instantly became as attractive as a 97 year old. Is this an objective sign that a woman is unattractive? What attributes in a profile pic make guys want to DM a girl? Do I always have to hoe it up or can I just look respectably nice?

[Guy13]

Yep, a girl has to seal that deal by 27 cause babies x2 or 3 by 33.

[Audiofox]

Oh, I don’t want children anyway.

[Audiofox]

Also I know a number of women who got married in their forties…

[Guy13]

Alright, I do too but he is 52 and she is 41.

[Anonymous]

Do you want honesty or do you want me to tell you what you want to hear? Because the truth is a quality woman will ALWAYS be a quality woman (even at 97). But yes, you PHYSICAL marketability does decrease as you age. And the women who've relied ONLY on that will notice the decline. But this is a good thing! Because as I said, a quality woman will ALWAYS be a quality woman. And the odds of guys with questionable motives approaching you should decrease.

[Nik1hil]

Sun Rose at 18, to venture out..

22 was the Noon, to collect firewood and food.

25 was afternoon, to Find shelter, a safe cave.

28 was sunset, to Light the fire and cook the food.

30 was Dusk!.. Its time to finish your meal! And Go to sleep!..

35-60 it's a cold winter Night!.

That's the Horrible part of being a woman I think, you can either have a career or have a family, both things have same window for them!..

[Juxtapose]

The guys who are generally going to be good for relationships are not going to be the types to message random women 🤷‍♂️

Players and people with some sociopathic or narcissistic traits are usually going to be the ones with the balls to message a whole bunch of women at once in hopes of snagging a fishing hook so to say. Guys who are more emotionally invested are going to focus on one woman at a time.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Accurate.

[B0nerD0nor]

You should be you, don’t be someone you’re not to get attention. If they don’t notice you then they don’t deserve you.

[Brando10222]

That's strange! But be yourself. You don't have to be a hoe for that attention