Why do women reject men who wants them and go after the man who doesn't want them?

[Engin12]

Is this how their ego works?

[Dinklex3]

Because the feeling isn't mutual.

Just like you shot yours with her, she's shooting hers with someone SHE likes.

It takes 2 people to make a relationship. We have to be in a relationship with you just because you fancy us and we don't feel the same? Is that how YOUR ego works?

[Engin12]

Thats an easy thing to say but if you dont appreciate some who loves you that means you dont even love yourself. How can you love someone else then? Why would you think they would love you?

[Dinklex3]

?
Your logic is that if you don't have mutual feelings for someone, you don't love yourself?
So. Putting my own feelings aside and dating someone i don't have feelings for just because they like me, is loving myself? Ignoring my own feelings and dating someone out of pity is loving myself?
Do you think you're the only person who has feelings for this person? So we just have to date everyone who loves us?
You make absolutely no sense.
You're saying that you'd date a girl you didn't like and had no attraction towards just because she likes you? Lol.

[Engin12]

I'm saying I would give her a chance at least. I think most beautiful women are adorable and easy to fall in love with. But she shouldn't bore me with her words I give you that.

[Dinklex3]

I believe you're being dishonest.
I said someone you didn't like and weren't attracted to.
You aren't owed a relationship just because you like someone.
The whole world doesn't revolve around just you and your feelings.
I feel sorry for your future partner. Apparently only your feelings matter.
Entitled.

[Engin12]

If someone likes me I think thats a good thing. there's no reason to dislike them unless I have a good reason for it. I like beautifu and sweet women. Attraction is one thing but she should be honest and loyal and care about my happiness. I would do the same. I didn't say any of that about my feelings. I actually said the opposite if she likes me I would give her a chance to date me because I'm single and so I wouldn't hurt her feelings if she has feelings for me. We would see how it goes and we would have sex too.

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t lol. first of all, I have never been rejected, and second of all, I would never waste my time on a dude who I feel does not have any interest in me

[Engin12]

Thats fine lol but do you think if men takes time to build confidence to talk to her would you think he doesn't have interest and ignore them?

[Blackcupcake]

I don’t think I understand your question right now… do you mind rephrasing?

[Engin12]

I'm saying its been a month with a girl I met without talking to her because I was gonna ask her out but I was afraid she would say no. But I wanna talk to her again. Do you think its been too long?

[Engin12]

I just found out my problem. I'm searching it on google I hope it helps

[Engin12]

Why did you stop talking I hate when you do that

[Engin12]

Seriously why did you ask me then you are not saying anything

[Engin12]

Will you say something I'm giving up on you

[Blackcupcake]

okay relax… I actually have a life outside of gag and I do get busy sometimes, it’s not like I’m rolling my thumbs and ignoring you.

also “I hate when you do that” have we ever spoken before? lol

and to answer your question, give it a shot.

[Engin12]

Ok thats fine. I have a life too but I sacrificed some of it to wait for your response lol. I generally hate being ignored no offense really. I want to give it a shot and I want it to work because I love her she just doesn't know it yet.

[Engin12]

Did you let me go now cuz I enjoyed our conversation

[Engin12]

I wanna keep talking about this with you. Followed. See you soon

[misogynistic_pig]

Because the men who love them are beta men, it's the same thing that happens with cats, it's a biological behavior that dictates that whoever needs the relationship less is who rules the relationship, this principle has a name but I don't remember what it is.

[NewYorkCity]

This is how their biology works. They date handsome bad boys for their genes and then trying to settle down with nice guys for a long term commitment.

[coachTanthony]

It's in their DNA. LOL

[bamesjond0069]

They only get one man so they want the best one possible. Where men get more women as a strategy and just go for all the ones easiest for them to get basically.

[LiamJHayden]

Some like the challenge. For others, she probably does not find the interested party attractive in that way.

[Anonymous]

"Never waste your time trying to understand why a woman does ANYTHING. Just know what you're willing to accept/tolerate from a woman" - Guy Rule #36

[Kelly6]

This is very common. But at the end they realize it when it’s too late