Is there something wrong with me? Is is bad to be just pretty and kind?

[Anonymous]

So every guy I have dated or got rejected by say I'm just pretty and kind and other then that I'm an airhead. Like I feel so insecure about it that and I want to stop being called that. Like I did just graduate from college with a diploma in accounting and I love art, music, and history. The only thing about me is that I don't have a job due to being fired three times in a row (I know embarrassing) and am struggling in my career right now because I'm having a hard time adapting to a work environment from having never working in my life till now and due to my slow processing skills and poor attention to detail, I have a hard time grasping things fast and not making mistakes. Other then that it's I can't drive and I don't know to cook which I'm currently trying to change but I do know to bake and very well at that too. I know I'm flawed but I wish there was a way I could start to being a better me and not have my flaws bring me down in life. Also, I desire to be able to have guys see me more then just pretty and kind. P. S I'm 22

[LazerBean]

I'd say just keep working on yourself. It sounds like you're already trying, so if that's the case then you're on the right track.

[Anonymous]

You're more than that.

Even being just pretty and kind, you're less likely to be rejected than the majority.

[Veronica1111]

It’s not you lol it’s them