What should I think of this guy's behavior who went to a friend to ask if im single, today he saw me & referred to me using my last name?

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I met this talented guy since jan 2022 at an organization. We work together once in a while in a team setting coz we sing. I didn't know his name so i found out that since January weeve been friends on facebook coz he sent me a friend request and i accepted it but i didn't recognize the name and didn't find out months later until a friend told me that HE asked if i was single.

Twice i saw him at the org, i said hi he gently pulled me to him and hugged me 😀 and briefly peak to me with so much excitement. On my birthday i stopped performing mid-performance afterwards he walked up to me, gently pulls me to his chest and asked "are you feeling unwell?" And i told him yes, he said sorry.

He makes those piercing eye contacts with me when performing and smiles every time he sees me, or if im coming jn with friends hed look past them to see if im coming through the door and look away once we make eye contact. He commented under a post of me performjng on fb and complimented me. I posted about a service i provide on facebook, he messaged me for the first time and asked if i can help him but then never got back to me with the docs i requested.

Today, as i walked in he looked past the person i was with and made eye contact and look away, during his performance he couldnt keep his eyes off of me. Mid performance i was going to the water he was sitting witj the gusy he saw me and said sometjing to me (didn't hear) the guys laugh.

After, i stayed behind to take group pics, i saw him trailing around till i start leaving and he follows me, i held the door for him he then said something around the line miss "my lastname" its not even that cold why are you shaking🤣 and i said well you wouldn't know coz you have a nice heated jacket on then he says see you next week good night. Im stunned lol the fact that he refers to me using my last name and i wonder how he learned it and why he reffered to me using my last name

What should I think of this guy's behavior who went to a friend to ask if im single, today he saw me & referred to me using my last name?
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