Will a player and violent guy who always leaves her gets heartbroken if a girl stops loving him for another guy who treats her right?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Hopefully. But if she keeps going back she’s part of the problem.

[Anonymous]

Why would it matter? Your need for retribution is your undoing. If a guy is player or abusive, simply use your head and leave him for a decent guy. That's how you get revenge. You make your life better and leave him in s***ty existence.

If your so petty that you just want to stay get some form of payback. I'm sorry then you're just as toxic as him. And you're kind of made for each other.

[Opinion Owner]

An inconvenient truth.

[Asker]

Yeah, but it's a reality that needs to be accepted

[Opinion Owner]

Just know in this world that you can only change the changeable. You can change your life. You cannot change other people. I mean you can put effort and time in, but they have got to want to change. The only way I'd be with an abusive person is if I felt she was doing as some sort of a defense mechanism, and needed to know I wasn't going anywhere to trust me and drop that toxic behavior. But I would demand that she make strudes to heal and get better. If a guy is "verbally abusive" I would try to talk to him about it to discern if his verbal abusiveness was a defense mechanism or if he was just an a**hole. As far as physically abusive or him being a "player". I wouldn't even give him a second, I'd be out the door. Why would you even want to be with a player? This is rookie girl mistake #1. I'll never understand why so much of your gender thinks a guy who pulls women to be a catch.

[Asker]

Because of dependency nature, we don't want a guy to leave us once he makes us get attached to him, we feel it harder to let go even if we later come to know that he is a player. It's attachment for girls but some guys won't understand that. Even if they understand they keep on hurting that girl and comes back to her again when she moves on

[Asker]

They are just trying to take advantage of a good girl's nature. One day, she will not even take him back is the day he realises what he lost but she won't be with him anymore. Even though if he doesn't realise, she doesn't care after she moves on successfully from him

[Opinion Owner]

So choose better!

[Asker]

Yeah