Do players/bad boys ever fall for the good & innocent girl?

[Anonymous]

like really fall seriously for them?

or do they just use them?

or maybe they're not interested in them at all?

[kholland65]

They do, its just more rare. It takes a girl who is really perfect in their eyes and fits them really well.

I'm not a player by any means, but I have a friend who is the eptiome of a player. He never really believes in having a Girlfriend and is always screwing a different girl. However, there have been one or 2 times where he did meet a girl that was just different from all the rest and matched him so well that he basically fell in love with her.

The problem for players though is their behavior is a double edged sword. They may be getting a lot of action on a regular basis, but as soon as they do decide to settle down with a girl, it never usually works out because they've already tarnished their reputation and good girls won't take them seriously.

[RikkiTikkiTavi]

only if she's pretty looking

[Asker]

am I ipretty enough for that or not? please be honest, I swear I won't compleain or judge

[RikkiTikkiTavi]

I need to see more photos then

[Asker]

hmm I don't have morre pics that I want to put on here. so I'll just take it as a no. thanks for answering!

[TheUglyOne]

the one photo you had as your avatar from what I could see you look pretty, but it was only a photo and I only saw it briefly, since you changed it.

[Asker]

yea I don't like having pictures on here...

[RikkiTikkiTavi]

I can't answer it then... XD

[girlthatneedsanswers]

It happened to my friend when we were in 9th grade. This playa (not beach if you speak spanish) liked her sortof. In 9th grade they were official. In the end it didn't work out, my boyfriend at the time and I betted how long they would stay together... I won because it lasted one month. loool

[Asker]

ok. not very nice to bet about your friend's relationship though...

[girlthatneedsanswers]

i know... but she wasn't really a friend friend if you know what I mean

[Hades]

I've never seen it happen. I've heard of them using good & innocent girls for sex a lot, though. The girls usually think that they're special and that the players/bad boys will commit to them, which inevitably backfires.

It's pretty funny to watch it all go down.

[Asker]

really? I don't think it's that funny

[Hades]

It's more to do with the fact that it's so common and predictable. Like watching lemmings wander off a cliff to their demise.

[arashmenalagha]

They might do it just because they want to have a good time with them, and leave when their done. It doesn't end well most of the time :(

Can you please answer my question? thank you :)

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[Anonymous]

If a "good girl" falls for me, it is because she is attracted to my player lifestyle and bad boys ways. If she falls for me, then she's not a "good girl". She's a good girl in name only. If you like the bad boy, know his history and lifestyle, and still sleep with me, you aren't "good". I always laugh when so-called "good girls" tell me that they "usually don't do things like this" right before I slip a condom on. Right! lol

[Asker]

i'm a virgin and I've only kissed one guy. and that one was a player

[Opinion Owner]

Why did you choose to associate with a player?

[Asker]

i didn't know he was one

[Opinion Owner]

Simple solution: Don't go any further and be on the lookout for potential warnings in future guys.

[Hades]

Well put.

[Asker]

But I still like him more than any other guy I've met. And I do wanna see him again :-/

[Opinion Owner]

You obviously are making excuses for him, which is exactly why you aren't as good as you claim. A truly good girl runs from a player and doesn't fantasize about "making him a nice guy".

Girl, listen up.

I'm a player. Girls are like entertainment to me. They aren't all that different one from another. Personalities are somewhat similar, slight variations of vaginas, boobs, etc. A player is someone who bounces from one girl to another.

If hang around, you aren't "good". Are you good?

[Asker]

so there is no way I can see him again?

[Opinion Owner]

Not if you're smart, no. Take it from a player, we're much better at this game than you'll ever be. If you think you're smarter than those of us who live this as a lifestyle, you're about to learn a very hard lesson.

[kambo_trick3y]

Personality often doesn't come into the equation for shallow guys like that.

Hot is hot, it has no personality bias or border. It's as simple as bad boy sees hot girl, bad boy wants to f*** hot girl.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like a bit of a fantasy, but I'm sure it's happened plenty of times before.

[TheUglyOne]

Yes, they do. In romantic comedies...

[beerY33]

of course it happens sometimes...

[ArrograntWarrior]

only if the floor they are standing is slippery

[Asker]

:)

[99PROBLEMS]

Sometimes.

But most men love bitches

[E_Stone]

You really think so?! I agree there are aspects to "bitchy behavior" that can definitely attract attention, but there's no way I'd want a relationship with a rude, egotistical, unpleasant person.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Absolutely wrong. Men hate bitches, but are willing to tolerate them if the girl is hot enough to bed. Your post lacks this all-important distinction.