Is there even hope?

[Anonymous]

To start, I am FTM. I will be turning 41 in January. I am 5’2, so I am challenged in this department. I don’t have a real stable foundation for myself. I never really had direction for my life. Its been a struggle. How do I get out there and try dating when I know I don’t have anything appealing to offer a woman? Add a cherry on top I am painfully shy? But I’ve been told that I’m good in bed.

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+1 y

Lmfao.
Born female bodied. Now
I am legally male and I look very male.

[Guy13]

Not to be crude... but am i understanding that you went from no penis to penis? And are dating as guy?

[Berethor]

You remind me Elliot Page, also too short to be a man, it's known that women prefer tall men.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Asker]

Unfortunately I am very aware that women typically are attracted to tall men. Hence my question. And I am not aware of who Elliott page is.

[Berethor]

I see. A FTM who don't know who Elliot Page is? really? here an a link about Elliot Page.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elliot_Page#Personal_life

[Asker]

I see. I think a big part of my ignorance on who he is , is that I don’t really identify with the transgender community. I also am not real big into celebrities.

[Berethor]

You don’t identify with the transgender community? interesting, I guess it make sense as you come to GAG and it not exactly a 'safe space', but looks like you can handle it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sXQkXXBqj_U

[Dkc123]

Try with people with same procedure!

[Asker]

Hmmm.. I don’t know what to think of this. I am attracted to cisgender women.