Older women - what makes them so appealing to younger guys?

Question

I’m recently divorced and just started dating again.

What I’ve noticed that surprised me the most - there are A LOT of younger men (some MUCH younger) with an affinity for older women.

And I’m not talking about men who want a Sugar Momma either - but full blown relationships. What’s up with that?

I mean I’m flattered and all but it feels so taboo. Should it? Your thoughts?

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

When I was younger, about 19-20, I was dating a woman in her 30's.

Honestly, for me, it was the sex. I was a teenager, and my hormones were in full rage mode, and older women were just so much better in bed. They knew what they wanted, and, more importantly, they were more comfortable about expressing their desires.

They were also less inhibited about giving, so I had more fun with an older woman than I did with someone my own age. There was also a lot less drama, less partying (which was never appealing to me), and they were more mature. Women my age were just annoying. Between that, and better sex; older women were just more enticing.

Deepinthought345 · Accepted Answer

For me, older women don't bullshit or pretend to be someone else. They are mostly independent. They are objective, take initiative and have a great sense of humor. But I don't generally put a number to the age. If someone younger also shows the same qualities, I'd find them attractive as well. As far as bodies go, I've never really been attracted to bodies of women. Call it something an older person would feel.

KathrynTaylor · Accepted Answer

We’re more sexually experienced and seem exciting, like tasting the forbidden fruit.

Guy13 · Answer

Sexual Education and clear about wants needs unlike the other girls at 19-20. That’s what it was for me.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

There's nothing like the teachings of an older woman. Lost my virginity to a 26 year old when I was 18. She was my SCUBA instructor. Totally hot and curvy in her wetsuit.

I also found the women in their 40's and 50's, when I was 30-ish, to be attractive. They were calm, cool and sexy as hell.

Lookitsmadmax1994 · Answer

I think older women are very attractive. I was dating a women in her late 50's within the last year. I knew one of her kids was older than me. I thought she was in her mid to late 40's she looked so good.

We got along so well, very easily like two peas in a pod. She was surprised that I know a lot of older music from the 50's-60's-70's etc. Trying new restaurants, having wine, endless conversations. It was so refreshing.

Absolutely NO DRAMA. When we went out to eat she would pay for a dinner and I would leave a tip, next time we went iut it switched. Completely 50/50. Which was absolutely amazing.

For a women in her late 50's I didn't mind the scares, she's very much still fit, boobs are very perky considering she wears a 34G in bras. We would spoil each other with gifts.

MrCommodore · Answer

I find lots of older women attractive, particularly if they are slim snd in shape. The scars and saggy bits etc don't matter, they can be just so hot.

Anonymous · Answer

That's easy.

They are generally confident in their bodies and know what they want. They also have a lot of experience, generally less selfish, can lead, and also teach.

in my opinion, all men should start out having sex with older women.

Anonymous · Answer

They just want sex. Getting into a relationship to have it more often is a way to navigate any defense mechanisms. Don't believe me? think they are as you say looking for 'full blown relationships..' then see for yourself. Few of them are interested in the 'older woman' just the sex. This is similar to how a lot of men confuse a woman wanting their non sexual validation and attention, for actually wanting them...

There will be a few exceptions of course.

SixFootSexy · Answer

Younger guys will take what they can get, any average young man might as well be invisible to his female peers. In addition, older women usually expect much less than a girl his age:

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Cause they know what they want and aren't afraid to go afraid plus they don't play games they have a more mature mind

Avicenna · Answer

It's just about sex

KrakenAttackin · Answer

As the old saying goes, "women are like dogshit, the older they are the easier they are to pickup".

Aragorn560 · Answer

emotionally maturity, stability, confidence, and independence.

Anonymous · Answer

I like how an older women knows to be elegant, have an open mind and be full of love, she is like a natural aphrodisiac

Berethor · Answer

How desperate they are, most old women are aware that men tend to prefer young women.

Anonymous · Answer

Ding ding ding ding ding...

Anonymous · Answer

Older women are willing to have sex with them whereas girls their own age and younger are harder to get.

Amur8711 · Answer

Their experience.

jimmy2 · Answer

It's all good

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