What do younger women find so attractive about older men?

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I suppose they have their shit together, more open to the world, experience, compassion and just have a better understanding regarding the world around you?

Ladies is there anything I'm missing? Why do you find older men attractive?

Crimsyjo · Accepted Answer

Different needs. We (women) are not all the same but I can answer very well from my perspective as I only liked men in their 30's when I was teen/20's. And now I'm older I like men in their 20's a lot!

My needs at 20 - a husband. Supporters. Protector. Feel secure and safe. Young men haven't really bulked out as much. Some have baby faces. Growing up through school with immature annoying boys, that face is just a reminder of your classmates.

My needs 40 - energy. Sex. Passion. Haha. And what guys are all into sex and energy and exploring other than (most) guys in their 20's? At this age I'm self sufficient independent. I can do and have anything I want by myself. Except good sex with sexy guys. I need a guy for that lol. So I get them.

But - of course life is not so simple really. My hubby who was 30's was not the strong protector father-figure guy. Just another loser. And a lot of older guys now seem to be living with mommy still and not at all the big shining Knight in armour. Just big kids.

And younger guys are not as immature as you think and actually in my opinion have a lot of emotional intelligence. I think this generation of guys understand women much better (but unfortunately this generation of women have got meaner and narcissistic with self image).

So I think younger gals are missing out choosing older guys. And why not still be youthful and grow together and enjoy lots of sex. I think guts over 25 seem like they are the right age to both want a relationship, be goid partner and still be fun.

Curiouskitty99 · Accepted Answer

I’m attracted to older men because of their maturity level. Obviously some can be very immature, I know from personal experience. But I could tell a difference between younger people and older people when I had talked to them. I’ve tried my best to like guys my age but I always just go back to liking older men. It’s just that most of these older men have more experience in things. And they give me comfort. It can be super risky when going for older men as a young girl since their intentions can be bad

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Mainly the maturity level she is attracted to , i usually date younger girls’ and they all said they liked how mature I was and how I listened to them compared to guys’ her age. They felt heard and respected and felt trust

Billlewis · Accepted Answer

One thing they probably like is that they can use us for money without having to have intercourse with us, as well as the fact that we often give them our blessing to have a boyfriend while they're using us.

Apple1996 · Answer

I never went through that phase of liking older men. I've always found people my same age most attractive

BetaBucks · Answer

I'd like to get inside of some girls' heads on this one to get the most honest answers. I'm old and gross and get more college age girls hitting on me now than at any younger age. Obviously I don't act on it, but it's a trip. I know it helps that I'm in athletic shape, but I've been fit since my mid 20s.

Puppystarfish23 · Answer

I think it's because older men tend to have there shit together more than a young man would. There a lot more maturer and understanding and will make time for you.

Most young men in there early 20s just want hook ups and to go out drinking with there mates. They aren't interested in a serious relationship or are to scared to be one or even how to approach a young woman.

I like that they can look after me without me even asking for it.

Sunnysunny123 · Answer

The things you said and mostly maturity, i would never be able to cope with a 18, 20 year old who still wants to club every weekend also emotional maturity and patience. Younger guys tent to not be so handy when it comes to fixing something so they just tend to throw it and throw a mini tantrum in the same second when i see a man throw a grown up tantrum i gag and need to throw up.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Well, lately, I have realized they are more mature emotionally, and financially stable. So, guys in their late twenties at this point scream hottie to me. 🤷🏾‍♀️

If they aren’t financially stable yet, they usually already have a plan and are working towards being financially stable.

Guys in my age group are not emotionally mature, and do not have a dang about being financially stable. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Caroline91 · Answer

His confidence. His ability to love and commit to me. His readiness to be a family man. His ability to support and care for us. His appreciation of what I bring to our relationship. He is my rock.

avery58 · Answer

They usually like their money, that's the main thing with most young women who date older men. There are also those who appreciate their maturity compared to younger men, but I'd say it's a minority.

Drewtate · Answer

They make more money, have a home and a good car. They aren't starting from scratch. Women these days won't accept a man who makes less than 100k, the only guys in their early 20s thst do that are nfl players

Kelley1 · Answer

I don't find older men attractive. Younger men are far more attractive.

Account · Answer

I have never liked older men. I have always liked people close to my own age.

JuliaCartorez · Answer

when I was younger I liked a mature man who could put me in my place and had lots of experience. I ended up dating someone my age but he was mature compared to the other boys my age.

Anonymous · Answer

That they’ll die soon and get to keep his money

Meisdipa · Answer

Never have I had this occurence. Maybe I'm exception

Japangirly · Answer

Older guys are just more understanding, funnier and more comforting than guys my age. AND WAY MORE MATURE AND LOVING.

rienna888 · Answer

lol I’ve always dated men younger than me for some reason probably it’s because people tell me I look younger and also have a goofy personality

strateguy632 · Answer

In general, not attracted, so none of those, but worthwhile to act loving for money, just no pimp.

Texaskid1 · Answer

Greater maturity and stability.  More interesting conversations.  I and 47 , I dress decent and I exercise. I will still get women in the 20's checking me out.

paledreams · Answer

I often wonder why also like his balls and sick will be saggier, you know - like why would a 20 year old lady in her prime bang a 30 year old man for examples Lol 😆

RavVid · Answer

When I was early 20's I was very impatient to get in - at the first hint of moisture, foreplay was over. So maybe that is a factor.

AviatorTom · Answer

Experience and Emotional and Financial Stability would be some of the reasons.

patrick994 · Answer

For maturity, experience, cultural background, economic resources.

Avicenna · Answer

I think I’m more interesting than I was as a young man.

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

Şahsen ben yaşlı erkekleri severim çünkü daha olgun, daha deneyimli, daha sahiplenicidirler.

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

I walked away from dating and relationships when I was your age age 21, which now was 38 years ago and I never looked back.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Let me see... We older lads treat ladies with respect while being unashamed to let them know we want their body.

Anonymous · Answer

Older guys were always hitting on me from when I was 12 so I just went with them.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maturity, more likely to be financially stable.

Vegasrunner · Answer

Typical the things thatake men attractive to women take longer to acquire

Babygirl_S · Answer

I like the maturity and experience but he should also look good

Nazgol · Answer

Same reasons as you said. Manily compassion, knowing how to be a gentleman and compassion

Anonymous · Answer

Are those not enough reasons? You need more?

Anonymous · Answer

there's something about grey hair that gets me excited. I feel like they are old and wise and that i should follow them as apprentice.

NathanDavis · Answer

you answered yourself... lol

Ladsin2 · Answer

Success, confidence, reliability...

onedarkcloud · Answer

The money they think they have!

msc545 · Answer

$$$$$$$$$$$$$ !!!

Crazzyyworld · Answer

Because younger men want $. Same age bugs

ManInChains · Answer

His money

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

THEIR RETIREMENT FUND

turanmert · Answer

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hiya9087 · Answer

their wealth

noohair · Answer

I wish I knew.

BaronReagan · Answer

I don't know.

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