What do guys find attractive about older women?

[Anonymous]

Who knew Kate was 20 years older than Pete? He went from Ari to Kate

I find older women attractive

I don’t find older women attractive

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You know, you would think with all the older women bashing on here that most guys would say they don’t find these women attractive, but way more guys did. It seems like the guys that don’t are more vocal about it on here.

[abhivashisht98]

They're bodies are fully developed and at their prime.
They have experience and they are less judgmental than young girls
And personally, I'm a switch in bed, so being a sub to an older woman is hot

[OlderAndWiser]

1. It is a common mistake to think that those who speak the loudest represent the majority.

2. I am 64 years old. When you ask about "older" women, what do you mean. . . like 85 or 90 years old?

[Asker]

This was toward the younger crowd of guys, but when you were younger if you were attracted to women older than you then you can answer from that perspective

[OlderAndWiser]

When I was 23 years old, I dated a woman who was 46 (just one year younger than my mother.) She was not as pretty as the younger girls but she was very straightforward and did not play those silly young girl games.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[MzAsh]

More mature
Less drama
More confident
More sexually adventurous

[Pinay_ako]

yes, I wanna know too

[Asker]

Read the comments, I do see you ask a lot of questions about age though, not to be rude, but are you insecure?

[Pinay_ako]

not at all

[Logorithim]

Well, it's just a matter of finding individual older women attractive. I found a lot of women in their 30s attractive when I was a young adult but only had gfs my age and it never occurred to me to think of them as potential gfs.

[Asker]

I’m asking about what guys find attractive about older women in general. Not individually

[Logorithim]

Honestly, I've never found them attractive as a group, but they're usually really confident about their bodies and I found that very attractive, plus they know how to relate to guys better.

[Wharvey98]

I wouldn’t say no to Kate Beckinsale, or Kate Blanchet for that matter. And she’s about 7 years older than Beckinsale. It’s not always about age. Now obviously it’s more common to enter a relationship with someone closer to your age, but it’s not impossible to love someone who’s a decade or more older. Sometimes people just click.

[Wharvey98]

I stand corrected Blanchett is only 4 years older.

[ImagineSketchy]

Older women usually know what they want and are less afraid to let people know. More experience. More maturity. Life experience. Etc. Aged wine or whatever. Kate also doesn't look a day over 30 in that picture.

[djmzes]

Simple

[Asker]

But Kate is pretty

[djmzes]

And u r under 18

[LeeKenz]

That sums it up really well

[constantine15]

Older woman don't play nearly as many games, and contrary to what many people say... the "mature" look is hot as hell.

[Asker]

Who doesn’t want to look mature? 😂😂

[reptocarl]

They know what they want and aren’t shy about getting it

[YHL6965]

I prefer older women because they are more mature, don't waste their time and my time with game and they know what they want.

[intjgamer]

Older women tend to have their shit together and aren't looking for flings.

[ccal28]

I guess the phrase "aged like a fine wine" sums it up best.

[HereIbe]

Older women are...
Far less bitchy.
Far less psycho.
Far less clingy.
Far less demanding.
Far less shallow.

[SSuar19]

generally older women have a calm attitude and a graceful appearance

[TripleAce]

They understand men better
more nurturing... lol

[HITLER187]

Eventually it will become the opposite and not long take it your not 30

[Asker]

What?

[HITLER187]

Everyone is katelynn Jenner now

[Texaskid1]

Older women know how to rock it good in the sack. All the experience pays off.

[MK2808]

They're mature. Don't do things that annoy their man.

[Asker]

Maturity depends on the person not their age

[MK2808]

Maturity comes with experience. And for enough experience, you need to live enough as a human being.
So it is easy to conclude that with age people get mature.

[Asker]

Experience definitely won’t make a person mature. I know many immature older men and women.

[MK2808]

Yes. I didn't mean it is guaranteed. There's nothing certain. But the proportions are better.

[Liam_Hayden]

I usually date 5-10 years older,

[Asker]

So what did you find attractive about women 5-10 years older? More established?

[Liam_Hayden]

I think it is mainly because my parents were older when I was born, so their friends had kids who were older. I essentially consider them my contemporaries.

[PrettyRegular]

I find women attractive. Age is just one factor.

[Asker]

So you would date a 45 y. o woman?

[PrettyRegular]

Maybe if she would be youthful, attractive and I would like her a lot.

[ROCKS128]

Their matured body maybe...
Their sense.

[RedThread]

Sure that's not a problem for me.

[skeetskeetskeet]

Nothing wrong with hunting cougars

[Asker]

Cougars hunt young guys, it’s not the opposite

[skeetskeetskeet]

Young guys can't go looking for them?

[Asker]

Young guys approach anyone