I find that I seem to be the person everyone wants to sleep with but no one wants to take me seriously enough to put a ring on it. I consider myself a good woman. I have a full time decent paying career, am in school full time, have my own house/vehicle, I know how to cook, I clean, and essentially take care of business but no one takes me seriously when it comes to dating/relationships. In my early 20s I dodged a few bullets by declining marriage with men who weren’t on my level or looking to get on my level as far as assets go. But now that I am in my early 30s, I am ready to build a family with someone and be with just one person. It just isn’t happening for me… is it because I’m what society would consider above average in looks or is it because men are intimidated of successful women?

this is one of those cliche where have all the good men gone thing women always go on about 🤦♂️ sounds like you said no to all of them.

They must be very stupid, you sound like a real "catch" . Mature and responsible, intelligent and attractive. There must be someone suited to/for you.

You think you're above average but possible you're below average for many guys.

You're a woman, men don't care about your job or status, we aren't women

Attractive women aren't taken seriously if they don't present themselves seriously

Im going to do the typical thing women do on here for questions like this. Quit whining

Where do you live? What's the culture like - I need to understand and get more facts.

Because the more attractive she is, the higher her expectations will be

DM me maybe we could connect and see if our waves match? Looking for something serious as well but with the right person.

Whaaat? Let's marry tommorow and have 6 kids

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dolemite89 Follow
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this is one of those cliche where have all the good men gone thing women always go on about 🤦‍♂️ sounds like you said no to all of them.

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They must be very stupid, you sound like a real "catch" . Mature and responsible, intelligent and attractive. There must be someone suited to/for you.

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You think you're above average but possible you're below average for many guys.

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  I promise you I’m not though :/ people stare at me everywhere I go. If I’m at a bar, I am approached. I work in healthcare and I have doctors hitting on me trying to take me out (I don’t date coworkers).
  
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  I am told all of the time that I should model because I am also pretty tall.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  And yet you're single n crying for guys...😊
  
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- Asker
  
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  No. You misread. I’m crying for one to do more with me than just fuck me. I want a relationship and a family.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  What you have to offer on table apart from boobs n hole !
  
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- Summeroflove
  
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  Then stop letting men have sex with you until marriage. That will rule out those men. But you’re the one letting them
  
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- Summeroflove
  
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  Honestly……… You let them have sex with you. Unless it’s rape. It takes two to have sex…..
  
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- Summeroflove
  
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  You’re just as bad as they are
  
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- msc545
  
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  Do you have any insight at all as to how arrogant this sounds and how unattractive it is?
  
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- aoihewgf
  
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  Saying what you just said is not going to invite men to commit lol
  
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  Hawaiian men find crazy really attractive because it's interesting and fun in the very beginning and it's also easy to have sex with. After they have their orgasm. They realize that they're getting into something that they don't want to deal with and they leave. That is a well-known scenario among almost every man I've ever met.
  
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  Okay the stupid AI changed the phrase every man to Hawaiian for God's sake. I hate this AI.
  
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You're a woman, men don't care about your job or status, we aren't women

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Attractive women aren't taken seriously if they don't present themselves seriously

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Im going to do the typical thing women do on here for questions like this. Quit whining

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Where do you live? What's the culture like - I need to understand and get more facts.

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Because the more attractive she is, the higher her expectations will be

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DM me maybe we could connect and see if our waves match?
Looking for something serious as well but with the right person.

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Whaaat? Let's marry tommorow and have 6 kids

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  I’m down. Especially if you aren’t American. Duel citizenship please.
  
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  I will send you a carriage of fireflies to pick you up and no I am not American
  
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  So maybe you are not serious :)
  
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Because Women ignore Shy Guys and Unsuccessful Guys.

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An image of you would have certainly helped

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Girl DM me we gonna have a talk.

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Probably cause you’re not on they’re level

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but men do.

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Well let them see you walk out of their life

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Says who?

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