Would it be weird to have both a female best friend and a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[RavVid]

Not a whole lot. The girlfriend should realize that if your FBF had carnal intentions then you would have done it already. In actual fact your girlfriend friends can be a benefit to your relationship. They will tell her she is being a bitch to you if they like you. Ditto on the inverse.

The point is your partners friends are part of your relationship and often beneficial.

Your task is to help FBF and girlfriend be friends.

[bolverk]

It happens, but be prepared for the girlfriend not to like it, she will always see the friend as competition.

[Asker]

Even if I married her instead of my friend?

[bolverk]

Yes even if you marry her, she will see your friend as taking up time/attention that should be hers, and if you are already dating the girlfriend you have to make it clear that your FBF is just that and nothing more, if the girlfriend cannot accept that you might have to move on, the choice is yours.

[Asker]

I like my FBF but my girlfriend is the most important person to me.

[Angel_ica]

No is not weird as long as best friend is only a friend

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. That has been me since middle school.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't recommend it.

[In_Trance]

Ask your girlfriend. She'll tell you