Smart nice tongue but not that beautiful what should I do?

[sgt_sa3d]

there's a girl in our class, she tends to be in the top students in our class, when she's talking she sounds like Jordan Peterson (I mean I like the way she talks) and when I imagine being with her I just imagine me and her talking about deep stuff, but... She's not good-looking I mean she's not ugly but her beauty is moderate and for now, I'm okay with that but

I'm afraid if that won't work for me in the future maybe after we are together I hate her because she isn't (Hot), and break her hurt

So what should I do?

[SueShe]

First, you should address the issue of your age which is obviously not 20 as you pretend it to be. You can ask GaG to correct your age and have it reflect your true age, which I presume to be around 14-15. You can use this form to have GaG change your age

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/contact

Misleading others to be someone you are not is not appreciated on this site.

Now, it looks as if for you, this girl's personality and intellect is not as important than her looks. Now try to place yourself in her shoes and she thinks something like

"This boy is always staring at me and I wonder what he wants from me. If only he had the personality and intellect to match mine".

While she is actually mentioning something important in a relation, you seem to be worried about looks only. That is something that is not important in a relation because looks fade with time while personality, a good character and intellect stay a lifelong.

What you should do? Leave her alone and let her be with someone that is not just interested in looks...

[PrettyPriya]

This poor girl….😞

[SueShe]

@PrettyPriya Yes, she is better off avoiding him.

[crystalshadows02]

Hi SueShe, this Anonymous user has been trolling, as she has posted the same picture multiple times. I tagged you and PrettyPriya there, but she removed my comment

https://w w w. girlsaskguys. com/qt/how-do-i-look/q4966421-do-you-think-this-guy-is-too-handsome-for-you

[SueShe]

@crystalshadows02 Thanks for reporting. I will check with GaG administrators.

[jorfan3]

I kinda of developed a rule for myself, after I gave someone a chance I didn't find attractive.

If you date someone who isn't that attractive to you initially, give them a chance for a couple months. If their character doesn't change their appearance enough to be attractive to you, then you probably don't see enough value in them, and it won't work.

I didn't find my husband initially attractive at all. But after a few months, I found him cute and handsome because I adore his character. I dated another guy before him that I didn't find attractive, but after a few months his appearance didn't change near as much. I always saw his flaws wished I could change them.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you fall in love with her, she will BECOME beautiful to you. If she doesn't, then just end it, telling her you don't see you two as a long-term couple and leave it at that.

[sgt_sa3d]

That was the best comment I read today.
Thank you very much

[jorfan3]

You're welcome! Glad I could help! 😊

[OlderAndWiser]

It is also possible that you could develop a relationship, fall in love, and be strongly attracted to her. It happens.

[PrettyPriya]

You must be joking, yes? You are already predicting you will not want to be with her because she is not “hot” in your eyes. You deserve whatever makes you happy and she deserves better than someone that views her as a temporary placeholder until something better comes along.

I advise you (for her sake) to not pursue a relationship with this girl. Why would you do that knowing full well that there is a good possibility you are going to break her heart.

Furthermore, why would you want to be with someone that you won’t fully commit to. This sounds to me like there is an ulterior motive to any relationship with this girl. Just leave her be and wait for this super “hot” girl you would dump her for. At least that saves her the heartache of dating someone shallow that would kick her to the curb the second something better comes along.

[SueShe]

I found my 🥨 again. Have a couple for the long trip...

[PrettyPriya]

@SueShe Ah! What I wouldn’t do for a good pretzel right now. 🙂

It has been such a long day so far. Lots of waiting. I hope you enjoy your week-end!

[SueShe]

Honestly, I prefer to be in my shoes now rather than to have to go through what you have (or have been going) through...

I will now take my bike and go for a 2 hours ride. It is like Spring outside.
Enjoy the rest of your week-end and regards to Mr. B**.

[Adaeva]

Be nice, do her a favor and keep looking. If looks are important and if you can do better, there is nothing wrong will seeking what you want.

[sgt_sa3d]

maybe you are right

[TacosRAwesome]

Don't date someone you're already not into.

[arandomgirlbruh]

you must be a troll

[SueShe]

A troll and a child...

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure tbh sorry

[Anonymous]

I don't know.