How come girls don't want to be in a relationship nowadays?

[chris_987]

I've just ask girls in my area that are single if they want to be in a relationship, so what with girls do they just want to hookup nowadays and be on birth control forever?

[Sevenpointfive]

that's not true at all. they do but they want to be in the fairytale relationship or at least something that comes close. so some hold off until it's too late. some get knocked up and have to deal with a mediocre relationship and some really fuck up.

girls only want monogamy for kids and financial security. this is proven by divorce rates! they get the kids and the money and don't need the guy. so, a better question is why don't they want to be monogamous to one guy anymore?

my conclusion is all women are whores/sluts and all men are too. put them in a situation of cheating and they will cheat. true love is something that we've lost

[JohnOh1986]

Internet dating is ruining things for most men and women, in my opinion. Many women are inundated with men messaging them, so have so much choice etc, so its harder for them to be satisfied/give most fellas much of a chance. Plus being single is encouraged way more for women than men. There are always consequences to things.

[Akam93]

In this messed up society we dont trust men anymore. Except maybe 5 percent of them. But also were afraid of them finding someone better as in looks, body, personality, all that stuff. That's where the insecurity and fear come in.

[chris_987]

But my point is that girls still get in relationships, even though they don't trust men. So why are you getting together with someone you don't trust and then complaining that it was toxic. It seem obvious to me that it gonna be toxic if you end up with someone you hate

[Akam93]

I'm not saying about me more so other woman. Let's just say I hear a lot stories. I was talking to amazing man not to long ago and I let him go because fear crept into my mind and made me think he would find someone prettier than me. :/

[chris_987]

Well I suggest therapy for that. But you should definitely do the same experiment that I did, ask women who are single if they want a relationship and when they say no, ask them what are there plans for the rest of there life? Since women want commitment it makes no sense that they don't want relationships anymore.

[Akam93]

I dont need therapy for it. I mean I'm still depressed over him and cry over him but someday I'll be ok. Woman are difficult human beings.

[chris_987]

It's not Normal to be in a constant state of depression, you've been lied too is my point. Your almost thirty and if you can't be happy in life now then your gonna struggle later on in life trust me.

[BarryLiverstone]

Some girls seem to not be as trusting of guys as others and they just want to hookup and have sex. I ran into a few of them last year.

[scott04sa22]

Freedom

[Anonymous]

They are too picky.