What height of partner do you prefer?

[Anonymous]

A lot shorter than me

A little shorter than me

Around the same height

A little taller than me

A lot taller than me

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Men on average are around 5’9 while women are 5’5, so if it’s over four or five inch difference then I’d consider that a lot.

[LuciaReina]

I would never date a manlet. No woman deserves such a cruel fate. My man must be a lot taller than me. Anything else would be unnatural. A real man is tall.

[Asker]

Huh? 🫤 there’s perks of a shorter guy for sure. I don't know what you’re on about. And if a woman is 4’11, a guy whose 5’6 would be plenty taller than her even if he’s not “tall”. Plus for tall women, to limit their choices so vastly would be really negative. Most guys are 5’9 and if a woman is 5’9, she’s eliminated the vast majority of men with that mentality.

[Adam51132]

Look, I know you have insecurities in your life that cause you to post things like this. We all do. many insecurities we have are true. just think of some you have. it could be about looks, financial, about family or friends, weight height, etc. i imagine there is one. well guess what, it is probably true and valid. it probably makes the quality of your life worse as a result. and there is probably no way around it. and it will probably affect your future. DID YOU KNOW looks affect what job you will have? There are hundreds of studies on it. They also affect what friends you will have, and everything else.

I know you have insecurities about looks. everyone does.

You can avoid this fate. I implore you now, kill yourself before you experience the horrors yet to come. Kill yourself before you influence society for the worse. You will be better off like that, in the dirt where u belong you filth.

[Asker]

@Adam51132 you're a psycho

[Adam51132]

I was replying to Lucia Reina, not you. Sorry if I offended you by accidentally replying to you.

But in the case that I replied to her and did not make a mistake:

Oh really? You think I'm the bad guy now?

Replace short men with certain racial groups and you'll see how disgusting your comment is.

What if she had said she didn't date anyone with Jewish ancestors and had used colorful language to express her distaste? "I would never date a kike. No woman deserves such a cruel fate. My man must NOT be Jewish. Anything else would be unnatural. A real man is not a kike." And then I had told her all the things I said. What would you do then? Yes, you would react differently and not call me a psycho.

Maybe your justification for that is "short men were never discriminated against historically." Well buddy, you're in for a surprise. Hitler himself believed height was a sign of superiority. When he spoke of Mediterranean Aryans (Graeco-Roman race), Jewish people, and Mesoamerican tribes he said their spinal and cranial height meant they were dumber than, weaker than and inferior to Nordics.

[Adam51132]

and to add on to that: here's a group that was never discriminated against historically. Fat women. In fact, in ancient and mevaeval times they were considered attractive.

What if she was a man who said: "I would never date a fat fuck. No man deserves such a cruel fate. My woman must be a lot skinnier than me. Anything else would be unnatural. A real woman is skinny." If I had told him what I said, you would react differently.

What a double standard.

[Asker]

@Adam51132 I know. But you’re still a full blown psycho

[Adam51132]

if your reaction would not be the same, and there is a double standard, is it not warranted?

[Asker]

@Adam51132 nah I don't tell someone to kill themselves because they won't date a guy shorter than themselves lol. Check yourself in

[Adam51132]

"I would never date a n**. No woman deserves such a cruel fate. My man must be white. Anything else would be unnatural. A real man is white." Literally what she said, just replace Black people with short people.

And surprisingly studies reveal this isn't even a stretch to make that comparison. Short men make less money, face more discrimination even among other men, and have been discriminated against historically as I have pointed out in previous comments.

Hell, I even found a study once that said short men faced as much discrimination in society today as Black men do.

If I were a woman and said, "I would never date a n**. No woman deserves such a cruel fate. My man must be a white like me. Anything else would be unnatural. A real man is white." and someone said "kill urself", you would most likely react differently. But as I have pointed out there is really no reason to.

If you don't see what's wrong with your position despite the overwhelming evidence, I'm sorry you're just a fucking idiot

[Adam51132]

To add on to the previous comment made a minute ago:

It isn't even that she just said she wouldn't date short guys. She showed blatant bias and bigoted hate speech against short men, calling them "unnatural" "manlets" and "not real men." Oh, and that's not all. If you look at her other comments she says things that are far worse.

If someone said such things about Jews, Black people or gay people, and I told them kill urself, u would probably agree.

And surprisingly studies reveal this isn't even a stretch to make that comparison. Short men make less money, face more discrimination even among other men, and have been discriminated against historically as I have pointed out in previous comments.

Hell, I even found a study once that said short men faced as much discrimination in society today as Black men do.

Yet if its short men, you dont agree with shit. If i dont date fat women, or black women, or jewish women, or bisexual women, people like you get mad at me. But when a woman say's she won't date a short man and uses horrifically foul language and bigoted hate speech, you think its OK as fuck all of a sudden.

LOL, who looks stupid now.

[Adam51132]

to add on to the comment I made 10 minutes ago:

I once knew a guy who was 5'3. He was everything a woman could want in a man. He was jacked, very intelligent, and had an amazing face. But he did complain that no women liked him, except for this one girl who ardently loved him who was an absolute weirdo who made him very uncomfortable. At a party after he passed out from being drunk and that very same girl tied him up and pegged him when he woke up. He was literally traumatized from it.

But since he could attract no attractive women due to his height, he ended up committing suicide because it was a pain he (and many others) could not and cannot bear.

Studies have shown 96 percent of women will not date a short guy. Imagine no matter what you do, there is always this characteristic about your appearance that repels 96% of the opposite sex. The remaining 4% isn't even that attractive, and are honestly the weirdest.

[Asker]

@Adam51132 tldr... also, psycho lol. You're just talking to yourself tbh

[Adam51132]

LOL, if you read the whole thing you'd understand why I'm not a psycho and am not talking to myself. but go ahead ignoring facts and being ignorant

[Asker]

@Adam51132 Def a psycho. Being a crazy bitter short dude isn't gonna get you chick's man. I've dated dudes taller shorter or the same height... but dudes who were insecure and toxic never had a sliver of a chance with me or anybody so good luck dying with that.
Some women don't want short guys, chill. Plenty are fine with them.

[Adam51132]

I'm not a short dude first of all. I'm 5'9. I just have great sympathy for short men because I have seen their hardships.

I was just pointing out that people who use slurs and rule out entire groups of people don't even have two brain cells and are no different dead.

[Asker]

@Adam51132 I'm taller than you, so short to me lol. I find men of average height 5'7 to 5'9 have the biggest complexes and insecurities. Dudes I've dated who were 5'4 never even mentioned their height because they didn't focus on it and that was hot

[EmmaMary]

Well I'm 5' 10" and my husband is 6' 3" hopefully this answers your question.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Berethor]

Little how little? I want her to be at least 5 inches shorter, she don't need to be super short.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Asker]

At least 5in means 5in or more so I’d say that’s a lot shorter

[Berethor]

Yea, men are on average 5 inches taller, so it's the normal height gap I would say.

[Asker]

Yeah but if it’s 5+ then that’s a lot

[Asker]

I’m 5’9 and people would judge and shame me if I said I’d like a man whose 6’2+ 😂 or at least acknowledge that a lot.

[Berethor]

You very tall for a woman, and I think that dating a tall man would be ideal for you. :)

[Asker]

Nah I prefer guys my height

[Berethor]

Really? most women want a very tall man, it's feminist idea or something, same height?

[Asker]

Lmao no I’ve just been with varieties of guys and resize the same height is best

[Snedger____]

Shorter than me between little and lot

[Asker]

How much is that?

[Snedger____]

4-5 inch is perfect

[Asker]

That’s a lot lol

[Snedger____]

Lol thought thats average. I feel dominant when girl is short

[Asker]

I thought about it and realized that’s probably a little shorter. Tho if I asked for a guy who was 4 or 5 inches taller I’d be screamed at by incels 😂 that was why I was thinking it was a lot

[Snedger____]

Haha. 4 inches would be like her forehead parallel to my lips. That’s perfect lol

[Asker]

I’m 5’10 so four inches for me would be 6’2

[Snedger____]

Umm yeahh absolute pair

[TheUniqueOne96]

A lot taller than me.

I'm 159cm and in my head, a lot taller sounds cool to me.

That being said, as long as she's not way shorter than me and the size of a toddler or anything, then it's fine.

[UniquelyBasic]

I don't care if she's taller than me or shorter.

[Asker]

It’s just about preference

[boggboss]

Don't have a hight preferences

[Asker]

So it makes zero difference to you if she’s 6’6 or 4’11, or 5’5? All the same?

[boggboss]

Pretty much seen beautiful girls much taller then me and shorter don't see why I would limit options on hight

[Asker]

Nah I’m not saying that. Just wondering what people prefer. I’m dating a guy whose 6’5 rn and it just solidified my feelings that I prefer guys my own height; even though I love him regardless and there’s pros to a tall partner as well.

[boggboss]

But for me there are no pros or cons when it comes to hight

[Asker]

I mean next to a short guy, I feel like a trophy wife; short guys also tend to take better care of their hygiene. But I can’t have him be dominant the same way as a taller guy.
Guys my height (I’m around 5’10) tend to be strongest, I can steal their clothes, and it’s the best for sex. But they can be insecure and not like when I wear heels.
Guys who are taller make me feel very small and cute, which is nice. It’s like a traditional type of dynamic. But it can make sex awkward, and they’re not as balanced or strong a lot of the time.

[boggboss]

Fair enough for you but yeah I dont attach things to hight really not bothered if a girls taller then me in or out of heels I'm 5"8 by the way if that makes a difference just never been a factor for me

[zagor]

No important except in extremes.

[htmndg183]

A lot taller than me.