When dating, is sex with the majority of women almost always contingent and transactional?

[msc545]

Always contingent on whatever non-tangible thing (s) she wants, and transactional in that she has to HAVE something for it. Does this fit your experience?

[Guy13]

Across the board, when women bond and tap into their partners humanity and vulnerability then the transaction and contingency elements vanquish. Their reasons become something that they themselves can not describe beyond, “I ache…I am aching for you, etc” and that’s not just the horny days of the month.
For most women I know, it is the quality of connection that we provide. Self revelation and gentle kindness matters as it relates to woman’ sexual attitude towards another.

[FilmGuy93]

That's been my experience... when a woman wants to fuck you, it's usually to get something out of you.

[msc545]

This!

[Anonymous]

No i want sex for sex you can be broke and ugly, it excites me to just give you good sex. I really don’t want anything back don’t get emotionally attached to me either.

[Lowiu]

Yes I want something for sex an orgasmus and fun for myself too

[NathanDavis]

I think it is quite clear that I've never experienced any negativity therefore you'll never see me complain about these things nor things alike...

when you're both, worth better and can offer much better... you just have it way better, of course

[exitseven]

No although I have a small body count all the people that I had sex with did it because they wanted to. There was no Quid pro quo.

[SnowedIn]

This does not track with my experience. With the women I've enjoyed sex with, there were no conditions, contingencies, or transactions.

[Tyrael]

There's always a price to pay.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely, positively, yes.

[slatyb]

Not at all.