Then you need to make a commitment to one another. Have more words of reassurance followed up by congruent actions.
Interesting.Quite honestly, I'm not sure the disqualification period ever really ends with women. They expect more out of relationships, where the guys tend to want to chill and exist without always having the ears pricked up/being on-call.However I've also heard an analysis (from a guy) where once women are invested, they are reluctant to give up, and will also tolerate quite a lot. So I don't know, do those two theories cancel each other out... maybe.
@AmandaYVR that’s accurate. I can understand from a biological perspective why women are picky. They want someone to protect them and the baby. But then you see so many of them falling for aggressive assholes. From an evolutionary perspective those guys are much likely to cheat, abandon, beat their mates and be shitty/abusive fathers. That actually negates that evolutionary entire argument on why women find these guys appealing. Think about it. But it’s true that once a man “has her” we would like to relax a bit. We do NOT enjoy the early stages of the chase. Especially if we have been rejected multiple times.
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You're absolutely right. That's precise.
Insecure people also overthink. In fact I think is more a sign of insecurity than high IQ.
@DiegoO Maybe they are overthinking everything, because they have high IQ and are insecure as a consequence?
@ElvenMr it could be a combo, but for me it has to do with insecurity. Even a person with an average IQ can have insecurities in a relationship. 🤷🏽♂️
Lol I don't know why but your story is kinda funny😂
@Sir_Glance_A_Lot it is a funny story I'm one of the Crazy Gals
Absolutely. This generation is content with toxic and has come to believe toxic is love and no one communicates anymore. Everyone just expects everyone to know what goes on in their head and what they’re feeling which ends with a lot of misunderstanding and miscommunication.
Yeah, it's a real problem. I feel like a broken record saying it, but my advice anytime someone is having relationship problems always essentially boils down to "communication is key."
Repeated mistakes like what?
@VVirgo seriously? You really want to open this up? LolWell like for example when you choose the same guys repeatedly with the same character flaw thinking " he's different" lol. No, no he isn't! It's painful to watch you women make the same mistakes over and over again. But in actuality there is science behind this. Believe it or not both genders do it. This video explains it well https://youtu.be/Hvysy11716g
I think In the sense of “Does he like me? Is he interested? He’s not really acting like it. Is he not into me?” I think women tend to overthink more in those situations and we often end up not knowing what we’re talking about and we don’t think clearly and always assume the worse and forget that people have their own reasons for doing things which have absolutely nothing to do with us lol.
@Elizabeth001 only if you were real 😭😭😭
Trust me I know I can admit I ruined possibly good relationships with guys because I thought so much about “Does he like me? Is he really interested? Is he just telling me what I want to hear?” “He doesn’t act or seem interested.” Letting my thoughts eat me alive and 90 percent of the time, I was way off and had no idea what I was talking about.
I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm glad that you have recognized that tendency in yourself. I think it's partially a self confidence thing.
Actually there’s a difference in overthinking and anxiety. @Aliyahha if you overthink that much, you may want to do some research on anxiety. There are interesting methods to stop and divert your brain, nervous system. Even search sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems.
We'll that was one unexpected reply 😂, Thank you for the offer anyways 😅.