How regularly did you and your SO fight at the beggining of dating?

[Anonymous]

Apparently me and my boyfriend have fights every 2 months (we do have a second fight now). Is that too regularly or normal amount if your opinion

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The first time we had a problem was because he told me he would leave me if I gained weight and I found that disrespectful even though I am not planning on getting fat. And now we are arguing because of our different hygene views. If it helps with answers because I feel so lost about our relationship

[LazerBean]

Never. If you pick the right person, that doesn't happen a lot and especially not in the beginning.

[Asker]

So if we argued 2 times in 3 months its a problem. We are dating for 3 months

[LazerBean]

Yeah, I'd say that is definitely a lot and especially in the first few months where hormones are typically hiding most red flags

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion on this. I thought it was ok because everyone I know argued even from the beggining of dating but now Im gonna think about it some more

[NotTacocaT6969]

Never.


Fighting is not normal or healthy.

[Asker]

So if we argued 2 times in 3 months its a problem. We are dating for 3 months

[Anonymous]

We never fight, and that would be a red flag if we did.

[Asker]

Thank you for your opinion. I thought it was normal because by talking about issues is the only way to resolve them. But I guess we are not ment for each other if we see flaws

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you and I agree.