How often do you and your SO get into arguments?

[JaxiCats]

It feels like me and my boyfriend get into a lot of unnecessary arguments lately.

[Effably]

Depends on what we classify as an argument but probably weekly at least, if not more often.

However how often you argue, it turns out, has very little impact on how well a relationship lasts - in fact the research on the topic often highlights it as a positive (although there is an obvious bias in it and so it tends to not be taken seriously). What supposedly does determine longevity is instead how you resolve arguments. Something I believe I have learned to be good at by now, and am still improving on.

[QuietVerbena]

Not that often. I hope you guys still care about each other.

[Kylal412]

Almost everyday and it is fucking our relationship up!

[Kylal412]

But we still love each other and stand by each other

[Agape93]

Not as often these days