What are some of the struggles you yourself have faced in dating?

[VanillaSalt]

What are the struggles women deal with in finding and maintaining a life partner? Please keep examples simple and from personal experience only.

[mandyfire98]

It just comes down to compatibility. Not all humans are compatible with each other. Even if you find each other attractive it doesn't mean it'll work. It's a mixing of personalities. That's not an easy thing to accomplish. People get in trouble when they settle and think they can nust Change the other person. That's when relationships are awful or just don't work.

You have to find that person who blends with you and matches with your values, beliefs, personality almost perfectly if it's gonna work. They don't have to be exactly like you but they need to mix with you well. So most of the struggles I've gone through were just clashing with other people. Not being overall compatible.

[laly520]

I was so shy at first and I didn't even bring myself to call him sweet names face to face also I couldnt hold a long eye contact but after some time I started to get more comfy n way too less shy

[Ms_Facesitter]

These will probably be silly...

He's a good guy but moves faster than me.

He wants to get physical quickly.

He got turned off by my height.

We don't share the same long term goals.

I like him but, I caught feelings sooner than expected, so I will try to push them back a little to see if it's actually true and right. I don't want to be blinded.

[KittygosMeoWW]

I used to be attracted to the most douchiest guys who were narcissistic and I ended up having making up for their lack of masculine behavior, working on it though. Now I just struggle with not finding anyone interesting because as soon as I see a red flag I’m out.

[Nikki1989]

Most men always promise things they can't deliver, so you have to suffer through awful relationships to find a good one, and sometimes that search can be a long and painful one.

[Alwayreckles93]

Mine was bsck inthe day years ago nosy mothers. Seriously you grown ass sin is no longer a baby get the hell out.