Women, what are your biggest challenges in dating & relationships?

[MzAsh]

What would you say are the top 1-3 challenges when it comes to dating and relationships?

For example, finding a decent guy, getting commitment, etc.

[Anonymous]

For dating, I would say finding a decent guy who wants more than just a hookup ranks pretty high. I guess that goes hand-in-hand with getting them to commit.

For relationships, I think the biggest thing in recent memory was knowing how quickly to progress the relationship. I didn't want to push things too fast and scare him away, but I didn't want to move too slow and have him think I wasn't that interested. Luckily, my boyfriend was great at steering the relationship forward, and I just followed his lead. If it was up to me, I would've been completely clueless.

[MzAsh]

Thank you

[devilish-cutie]

1 putting myself out there being as sensitive as i am; fear of being violated in any way
2 being patient with the whole process
3 not many ways to meet men for potential relationship
4 not being able to just friendly hang out with men and get to know them as people without putting preassure on it cause of social expectations
5 my emotions getting the better of me cause i idolize the guy and the guy pretends he is that ideal when he really isn't
6 generally finding mature (especially emotionally) men that respect you
7 struggling to find the best crieria to apply to well choose the right guy for you, mixed with your needs right now, biological clock and how much are you unrealitstic vs how much you need to accept (settle for)...

[jennifer_bloom]

1 - Staying interested in a guy, after I learn his flaws. 2 - Finding an easy going guy who doesn’t get angry. 3 - Finding a guy who will stay loyal to me when he has other options available.

[MzAsh]

Thank you

[Anonymous]

I think finding a good guy, finding someone who wants commitment vs hookups, and someone with my same views/values/mindset.
I’ve had someone who was committed and shared the same views, values, and mindset, but they were not a good person whatsoever.


It’s not asking for much.. im not asking them to be Mr. Perfect, but i’d like to be on the same boat as them and them to be a good person.

[MzAsh]

Thank you for this!

[Anonymous]

1. Finding a guy that I can really vibe with on a deeper level
2. Finding a guy that’s patient and emotionally mature and someone who is willing to communicate/open up
3. Just finding a guy in general lol

[MzAsh]

Thank you

[PrettyPriya]

#1 is just keeping things exciting. It is a challenge accepted and very much enjoyed, to be honest. 😊👍

[MzAsh]

Thanks for answering!