I like this guy but I barley know him and my fear that he’ll like another girl is stopping me from even trying to get to know him?

[Anonymous]

I like this guy I barley know, I have some mutual friends with him but it’s a bit too distant for me to just hangout around her and then have him show up. As of now I have no shot, because we haven’t even spoken before.

I want to get to know him but we’re in 2 separate social groups and I know he knows a lot of girls, how do I know he doesn’t like them? I don’t wanna humiliate myself! I have an opportunity to get to know him because we’re both in the same group for a volunteer thing coming up but I’m scared of being rejected and having some other girl chosen over me.

Should I just let it go and find someone else or try?

[Guy13]

It seems like it is him and not her or lady friend group. He seems to think he’s in the grocery shopping and testing the fruits and vegetables.

I'm not sure because I am not there in the vibe BUT I am guy who has been a woman’s candy store.
I hope this works out as you wish, however, if he’s not careful he’s going to blow-up a lot of good…piss off a hornet 🐝 🐝🐝🐝 nest.
Sit back and let the real guy show-up…

[Asker]

The “real guys“ that show up always have a ton of girls surround them, because they approach women and flirt too much. The guy I like is a nature nerd who collects legos

[Guy13]

Sounds like you found the smart and sincere "Keeper" of the group !!

[Vikkrram]

Ok so tell me from how much time you know each other? And haven't you had any conversation before like not casual but a formal also?

[Asker]

Essentially once which is why I called it’s crush. Barley at all, my fiend has been trying to set up for a while without explicitly telling him “we’d look good together” so he knows of me and has seen me. After my friend told me about him I noticed him basically everywhere at school and my friend tells stories about him all the time.

[Vikkrram]

So basically it's an attraction coz your friend always tells stories about him and that's why you have developed a crush on him?

Is that a case so?

[Asker]

Yes but I’d like to get to know him

[Vikkrram]

Cool just look at some signs if you knows him then he also knows you..

Signs like if he is looking at you , if you both had eye contact on a daily basis , if you both kinda become awkward around each other..

And is that case so then strike a Convo wid him as you both are in kinda same groups. So make some excuses to have a chat wid him...

But do remember one thing just act normal not overly excited...

[slatyb]

Talk to him when you see him. If he engaged, then invite him to coffee or something.