Will I likely cheer up when I start work?

[Anonymous]

right now, I feel depressed and lonely. I feel like the only attention I get from anyone other than my family and best friends is from my stalker and a desperate man I know who can’t find anyone else. I feel like I’m not going to find the right man and that I’ll be forever bored, broke and alone.

[Anonymous]

Yes, because work will help to take your mind off whatever is bothering you.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks and best wishes to you.

[Asker]

Best wishes to you too

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Why don't you forget those two losers and just go after someone you DO want.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Asker]

You’re welcome ❤️❤️

[Guy13]

If you really want to "cheer up" then set goal and time frame in which to accomplish them. What are your plans for your money? There has to be something, outside of life bills, that one can be working toward.

Whether it is a kids college fund, townhome down payment, rowing machine, and/or better place/car.

[Anonymous]

So let me get this straight. You have no one. Except a guy who is desperate. And you're too good for him. I mean I don't personally care. But how does this make you too good for him?

You might be forever broke, bored, and alone. Probably not. You'll probably cave at some point.

[Asker]

I haven’t dated him or the stalker but yes.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes what? I didn't ask a yes or no question. 😆

[Asker]

Because he’s less intelligent, unattractive and has a bad job.

[Opinion Owner]

You said you don't even have a job.

[Asker]

I said I’m starting a job. In my question.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, which means by my calculation you don't have one currently.

[Asker]

I’m told I’m getting the job, so that’s good enough.

[Opinion Owner]

But you don't have a job. And yet you still think yourself better than him. If you don't see the double standard then I'm sorry. Anyone else reading this would. Have a nice day.

[Asker]

Until they met us and got to know us both.

[Asker]

I think he’s a good man, but he’s not the right man for me. I don’t have to date him just because he’s alive and male.