How do I cheer up?

[Anonymous]

Guys check me out but the only men who’ve been interested enough in me to pursue me have been my stalker and some creepy guys wanting sex. To top it off, my bestie says we’re getting older and dumpier, so that soon, no men will want us. Not just the men who were obsessed with us. That lowered my spirits considerably. I’m mildly pretty, as is my friend. I don’t want my stalker to want me. But I sometimes feel sad about not having a partner. Not just any partner, but a good man who loves me whom I love back. I have lots of friends, male and female and a good job, yet I feel like life is passing me by.

[kylee2437]

Tell your friend to stop being negative and using age an excuse to not look your very best. There’s people that are in their 50s that have a better outlook on themselves

[Wise4myage]

Start being the one who initiates contact more often.