What do you do to cheer yourself up after having a bad day?

[menina]

Yesterday (13th of July) was an awful day for me. It wasn't the worst day of my life but it was terrible! I'm still trying to "recover".

So any tips that might help me? I really need something to make me feel better.

[VIVANT]

If the weather allows, I’m going out for a walk or to climb trees listen to music. I think walking & music are my go to bc you can do it immediately but if I can’t walk I’ll swim if I didn’t swim I’ll shoot hoops, archery, fencing, wall climbing— but if I can’t do a physical thing (unfortunately often it’s the fact of being unable to do physical activities which I love- bc of s nerve condition- is the reason I’m feeling down.. movement is my peace my relax my excitement my happy pull. It’s kind of everything to be do it can suck bring blocked ) I’ll watch something or read. If I really want to escape I’ll put together outfits and attach a script to each and walk through each scene in a foreign language. Of course if there’s someone I trust and don’t mind bring around even in feeling lie, hanging out can help but ideally I rather be alone at that point.

i am very sorry you’re stuck in a rut from a terrible time Menina, I hope you feel better soon ❤️‍🩹

[menina]

Thank you @VIVANT. 😊🙏🏾
I'm sorry to hear about your nerve condition. Hopefully you'll get better too.

[VIVANT]

🤗 ✨ 🫂 ✨ 🤗

[menina]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🤗🤗😊😊

[Paris13]

TV, Gag, LoveShack. org. lolxxoo

[menina]

Thank you Paris. 😊

By the way, what's LoveShack?

[Paris13]

Welcome, @menina. I Replaced it with Reddit. It is something like this Site. xxoo

[menina]

Oh, I see. It must be cool.

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[magiusX26]

solo gaming. if the game doesn't screw up RNG type cheat (yes video games do cheat the player at times) and frustrate me/piss me off (not a very common thing for them to mess up like that but common enough to be a back of the mind concern) that is my peacefulness and lets my mind rest most of the time. its weird that my mind can relax so much considering the amount of reading and attention to whats read and other details in most games i play (rpg such as final fantasy or skyrim) that i can usually easily fall asleep mid playing.

[menina]

I'm surprised to see that video games can cheat the player.

[magiusX26]

RNG is short for random number generator (algorithums which are all flawed to varying degrees) . one classic example of a game cheating the player/s is when you "lag out" of a game, win, tough spot/jump and another way that doesn't get noticed as much but very much comes from RNG is the number of times you have to repeat an area/quest/action (grinding) for a certain rare drop item because RNG determines if said item appears. another common way is those times you (mostly older and side scroller games) jump from one spot to another, know you made it because you have made that jump thousands of times repeatedly in the past yet for some fluke reason you didn't even though you did not change anything you are/should do to sucessfully make that jump gamer/controller-wise.

[menina]

That's interesting. I don't know much about games, so thank you for explaining it to me.

[magiusX26]

part of why i know about these so well is am an older gamer and it was more obvious in a lot of older games. a pretty common one in current systems , thanks to most now being online gaming in one way or another is lag cheating by both the computer and other players.

[menina]

Yes, since you have more experience you're able to understand that. It makes sense.

[JackCarter]

Beer LOL...

Being sad about something that went bad never helps in any way... being happy might!

So I kind of force myself to be happy lol... I read somewhere that you can cheer up by forcefully laughing :)

[menina]

Well, now you just made me laugh 😂😂😂
So thank you. 😂😂😂

[JackCarter]

And you just made me happy by letting me know I was helpful.. so Thank you too...
Have a good day tommorow!

[menina]

I'm glad I did. 😊 Yes, you were helpful, very helpful.
No problem. 😊 Thank you, I hope so! 😊

[JackCarter]

Hey.. hope you had awesome days after that and thank you for the MHO!

[menina]

Hey, thank you so much! You too. No problem, thanks for cheering me up. :)

[ohsheeT]

Okay so what you can do is go down to the grocery store and every aisle you walk down the person heading towards you walk up to them smile and say pull my finger see what happens I don't know it might make you feel better it might make them feel better it definitely made me feel better cuz I just started laughing but okay 10 minutes

So what was your day so bad by the way you should really try that it will make you smile

[menina]

I'd rather tell you in private. I can message you if that's ok for you.

[ohsheeT]

Yes you can

[menina]

Ok, thank you.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I play with my rescue kittens. If you do not have rescue kittens, find adorable small animals to help/play with/feed.

If you've never had a baby raccoon crawl up your leg and eat out of your hand you're missing out.

[menina]

I'm not good with animals. Especially if they're small. 😬😬

[VIVANT]

This made me smile so big ☺️

[AmeerX]

A bit late to this but I try to accept loss and seperation as things made by God. We can't have everything in our life. Whatever is available is what we can utilize. God first makes the circumstances for our survival and then put us into them. So, if you feel you had a bad day just accept that weight put on you that day was what God knows you can handle.

I have retinopathy and I know my time is near

[menina]

Thank you. I really appreciate your answer but I'm not religious.

I'm sorry to hear about your disease.

[AmeerX]

You don't have to be religious. Be a spiritual person

[menina]

By spiritual you still mean believing in God? Or something else?

[AmeerX]

It could be God, or universe. Whatever you want to name it

[menina]

Ok. When I said that I'm not religious, I didn't say that I believe in God.
But I guess I know what you're trying to say.

[AmeerX]

Same here. I believe in God. Muslim but I am not religious. I hate pretenders

[menina]

Pretenders?

[menina]

And again, I didn't say that I believe in God.

[AmeerX]

By pretenders, I mean people who pretend they are religious but they're evil inside.
And I understand but I meant you should believe in some higher power at least

[menina]

Oh, I know what you mean. I don't like people who act like that either. You're right.
Well, but some people don't believe in any high power and they still live their lives.

[AmeerX]

@menina of course they do. Still it's alright.
Better than being with hypocrites

[menina]

Exactly.

[SnowedIn]

I hear you! I've had several of those this week.

• Watch Netflix
• Fresh coffee
• A favorite, unhealthy meal
• Pet the cat
• Personal time

[menina]

I don't have Netflix, but I could watch one of their shows.

[SnowedIn]

Right! 🙂 It's the act of watching something wherever you get it from. Escapism lol

[menina]

It sounds exactly like something I need now. :)

[SnowedIn]

That, the coffee, and either cake or ice cream

[menina]

I don't drink coffee, but I wish I could eat cake or ice cream now.

[SnowedIn]

🍰..

[menina]

🙏🏾🙏🏾

[AviatorTom]

It's rare that I have a really bad day. When I do, I usually play with our dog and watch some funny videos.

[menina]

You're lucky. 😊

[tfan1]

If you have the time and distance isn’t a factor - treat yourself for a day or two at the beach 👍🙂. Failing that I cheer myself up with masturbating 👍🙂😉

[menina]

Unfortunately I'm far away from the beach. It would took me about 3 hours to get there. :/
But I love going there, it makes me feel better.

[tfan1]

@menina - that’s the same distance from the beach I go to. What beach do you go to?

[menina]

Really? That's funny. I'm pretty sure it's not the same beach you go to.

[tfan1]

@menina - I understand. You want to keep your locations private. That’s cool 👍🙂

[menina]

No, it's not about that. It's just that I'm sure that we aren't on the same country.

[DiegoO]

Hmmm, a good sleep, arts and creative writing.

[menina]

Creative writing sounds good.

[DiegoO]

It really helps

[menina]

I can do that.

[Fuentes]

I watch TV or Bing watch a new show I been holding out on if I had a bad day to forget shit for abit

[menina]

Thank you, I might do the same.

[Fuentes]

If u need a free websites of streaming I can hook u up, all u need is ad blocker and faster internet and tour good to go.

[Fuentes]

Your**

[menina]

Thank you, I appreciate your help. I know some free websites.

[Fuentes]

But I got the best shii, best sites lol

[menina]

I believe you do Lol

[Fuentes]

Well if u ever need them let me know, I got it on deck hahaha

[menina]

Sure, I will ask you hahaha

[LavLavLuv]

Eat my favorite food
Watch my favorite horror movies
Sleep!!! Lots of sleep because why not🤣
Hangout with my friends
Chillin and tea time with myself ☕️

[Sparkie460]

It sounds like we both had really bad days. I turned on some music

[menina]

I'm sorry to hear it. I listened to some music yesterday and it helped me. Hope it helped you too.

[Sparkie460]

I'm sorry you had a bad day. I hope you're in a better mood. It did help me

[menina]

Thank you. I am in a better mood. Hope you are too.

[Sparkie460]

Your welcome. That's good to hear, so am I.

[menina]

That's also good to hear.

[Sparkie460]

Thank you for asking

[menina]

No problem.

[Phoenix98]

I take a good hard nap and listen to music, have a cup of coffee or maybe have a hard workout.

[Guardian45]

I love ice cream, corn chips, and GREAT TV for a bad day! I hope you feel better!

[menina]

Thank you. 😊

[MrHappy99]

Usually stick the TV on, watch something daft to take my mind off it listen to some silly music and top up the tan😂

[menina]

The tan must be perfect, right?😂😂😂😂😂

[MrHappy99]

Always got to be perfect! 😂

[menina]

I knew it! 😂😂😂😂😂

[DreamLife7]

I like spending time with myself outdoors such as scenic drives, walks by the lake, looking at luxury areas and Journaling. Omg Starbucks lol or coffee canal just lights me up

[Anonymous]

I just think about you and I automatically smile in my bad days. Your thoughts make me smile even at my worst. 😘❤️

[Opinion Owner]

Menina my love I can't pm you 😘

[menina]

Have we chatted before? 🤔🤔

[Opinion Owner]

Aw menina the queen
What ya think we chatted before? 😘

[menina]

Yes, I think we did. You had another account.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes my love you're right such a intelligent person you're i was searching your account but finally found 😘😘

How are you baby?

[DaBiggestBird]

Thinking about God helps me. It never fails, just like the Sneaky Thumbholes.

[CuriousMufuxka]

The same thing I do celebrating a good day! Drink rum!

[HMZ444]

Workout

Spend time with my girl

Read

[exitseven]

ice cream cone;

[menina]

Wish I could have one now.

[andreasderjuengere]

Coming home; meeting my two-dog-family :)

[bananathunder]

masturbate to get those free dopamines lol

[menina]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[bananathunder]

works 100% of the time LOL

[menina]

I can imagine why LOL

[Kelly6]

Do Sun bathing to relax or do gardening

[Christoff92]

Listen to relaxing audio Soundtracks

[Likes2drive]

Watch a good comedy

[Mark987]

Listen to uplifting music

[BLP11520]

Music or play with the dog

[eagle1951]

I watch TV