Is it a perfect time to give her space?

[Anonymous]

So I've been talking to this girl for a few months (Went on dates, hooked up and met parents). So this weekend I stayed with her (even met her parents). She didn't contact me for two days. So Wednesday, I made plans for the weekend to go to her and cook, she agreed to it. So today, we making plans to what to cook and all. She had an apartment appointment she had to go to. Cause she's has to move in a few months. Few hours later, she texted me saying, "Hey this weekend is off sorry just not in the mood things aren't going right for me". I told her that I'll call her after I get off work. She replied, "Don't bother have a good day". So I basically said that I'm here for her no matter what. I'll give her time and when she back in good spirits then reach out. This her first time canceling on me.

Is space a good thing for her right now?

[Guy13]

Did you say that I’m here for you no matter what?

[Asker]

Yes I did. I shouldn’t have?

[Guy13]

Exactly…she has no respect for you now. You don’t respect it look out for yourself why should she. I can’t trust someone that’s this accommodating. Who knows what he will agree too with someone else. Steel Backbone and Leadership is lacking.

Figure out how to lead as in not take No again. Overwhelming her with time, date, decision, and no mouth or no from her. Seriously but kindly but seriously toned.