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Men and women tend to be attracted to their complimentary opposite. A masculine man / woman will generally be attracted to feminine [men/women], and vice versa.
I've known women who have said they are more like men in attitude but to be honest I haven't seen that in them.
You mean to say you are "career focused". So called "masculine energy" is a different thing, linked to chakras.
Men like women who are pretty and not fat. How many guys were into Ellen page who had a lot of masculine energy even when she was young, she used to walk like a guy even.
Most men don't actually go for such women. Men want to feel needed so if you masculine enough then he won't have to protect you yet it's his duty so it hard to find but some do
Yes but I find for some men it’s a fine line, if your in it for a relationship you need to relay that because you can become more of a “ bro” and get friend zoned simply because men don’t see those qualities beyond the “bro” aspect.
Yea a Feminine Men want Masculine Women. Also you need to be upfront with your wants and needs in relationship otherwise you will waste yours and others time.
You’ve your answer “your biggest want in life is money”. This is less important if men into woman like you or not.
That's very hot. You should go out with me. Not hitting on you, just saying that you're totally perfect. Don't change.
I'm afraid you've stereotyped women a bit here.
Which people might mistake for a pick me.
Some do some do not. It really just depends on the guy honestly
Depends on the definition. If girlie want to outearn then fine. It's not like my daytime drinking is going to pay for itself. As long as my authorita is respected I'm fine with it.
Drop that "energy" nonsense. There is no masculine and feminine energy
I like masculine women. But they have to be really nice.
sounds fair enough. i wouldn't call it masculine energy but more like self reliant and an independent thinker with a good work ethic and very goal oriented 😁
Romantically? Nope.
I don't want another man, I want a woman. I like feminine.
No, I don't like women who are career oriented to survive, however I like poor women who have no other means to survive other than sucking other mens dick.
I do not no. I like my women, women. Those with real feminine energy attract me, not the overdone try-hard girly girly kind though but the naturally feminine kind.
The vast majority of men prefer feminine women, it's what we're built to love. But there are certainly some who like a more 'masculine' type like yourself.
If you mean having qualities like confidence, , assertiveness etc. absolutely
Isn't that a Tomboy
What do you call a guy with feminine energy? Someone said fag
In general no. A woman needs to play her role or she is less useful as a partner at best. A threat to peace at worse.
No, we don't, but I'd venture to say that you've already known that.
I wonder. A lot of guys like tomboys but how far can that go?
*cute tomboys
If I wasn't cute, a lot of guys won't say they'd go for someone like me.
@anon1903 yeps
Would you happen to be a Taurus? Cause you sound like a female version of me in a lot of ways!
No, men do not want to feel like their girlfriend is another bro. There's something unique about femininity that men just cannot offer.
Also I personally really do not get along with people who obsess over material wealth because that is one of the most shallow and weak motivations on Earth.
I do, at least mentally (not physically).
Feminine looking tomboys are the best, especially nerdy artistic ones that collect stuff, play video games, are career driven, talented, smart. etc.
I don't have a negative view on material wealth though.
Action figures, old games, expensive tech, rare one of a kind items, art, books, a fancy house, a workshop, etc. all good stuff.
@TheSpaceGnome I like nerdy stuff the women who can be logical but I want to feel like I'm with a woman, not a guy.
*and the
The stuff she mentioned isn't masculine in my opinion, its intellect based.
@TheSpaceGnome generally being disagreeable, focused on things instead of people and ambition is masculine.
I disagree.
Those are also intellect based.
@TheSpaceGnome definitely not. I would argue that being agreeable and people focused is intelligent because once you look at psychopaths and whatnot? You realize they are extremely bored. Why are they bored? They don't have human interaction that is meaningful since humans are objects to them. So clearly focusing on your interpersonal relationships is a smart way to be happy and nobody likes a disagreeable prick.
Ambition can go either way.
If you don't think interpersonal relationships are important, try living in solitary confinement.
You can do without intellectual pursuits but you cannot do without people.
Maybe you can, but intellectual and creative pursuits take priority for me.
@TheSpaceGnome okay, would you rather be locked in solitary confinement with all the intellectual pursuits you could dream of but no human contact or the opposite?
There is no human alive that can stay sane without human contact.
If given the choice between giving up creative and intellectual hobbies, or giving up human contact, I'm choosing to give up human contact.
Without intellectual and creative hobbies, I would feel completely dead inside and uninterested in interacting with anyone, but i've been lacking in physical human contact for ages now, and mental relatability for almost my entire life, I still found joy in science, gaming, music, writing, and art.
I need both to be happy, but I need the former to tolerate existing.
I've spent time not having any way to do those hobbies, never again!
@TheSpaceGnome Fair enough, I can't claim to know you better than you know yourself. I hate it when people do that shit with me.
Yeah I have a mostly nicola tesla type mentality when it comes to science, engineering, music, art and other forms of creativity, its my obsession. Or at least the mentality of him the internet currently portrays anyway. The only difference is I do actually value affection, sex, etc. Just not to the same extent as my creative passions.
Yeah he is very disagreeable.
I mean, you make good claims. Human contact is nice, and women can be gentle and all of that and have their hobbies too,
But I think when it comes to making a living, men should let women be able to do that for themselves.
Actually no hate on men, but this society in the economics aspect is doing no one any favors
We have a guy friend of mine in accounting with negative outlooks
And someone (a lady) like Cardi B saying she’s balling but on a budget too…
At the height of her fame…
So it doesn’t matter how men or women act.
I agree with you women shouldn’t act like men, but we should be allowed to have a conversation and not closed off or shut down.
Unless ofc the opinion shared is just not relatable by the other individual who would happen to be a guy.
I like men to do what they want with me in the bedroom for example and I like to hear men talk about men things, but I will not stand for someone trying to enslave or shut me up and say I can’t handle money for myself and be a part of the supply and demand economic market.
Maybe that’s not all in the question
But I’m adding it
And saying she should be able to to think smart
And be able to handle herself
Then she can date and fuck anyone she wants without being an emotional wreck or clingy amirite?
I missed seeing this part before:
"I would argue that being agreeable and people focused is intelligent because once you look at psychopaths and whatnot?"
I don't agree with this. Generally speaking, most people are very dumb, You are well aware of this and frequently post perspectives on topics that are contrary to general opinion/"knowledge", but none the less often more accurate or more logical.
The smarter a person is, the more often they will disagree with the majority, so being generally disagreeable often is usually a sign that the person is either very smart, or extremely dumb. It is not one or the other, but when smarter, its still a consequence.
Interpersonal relationships are important to self care, but only under the context of comfort, teachings, and relatability, if the people you are exposed to lack the ability to offer those to you, then interpersonal relationships become synonymous with isolation. The smarter a person is, the smaller the number of peers who can offer those is, often reaching zero locally for many.
Probably not. They like smart women but when it comes to women with masculine energy the tiny egos of men get rattled and thry instantly become repulsive. At least this is what I’ve noticed so far.
No, men do NOT like masculine women. And, why is money so important? You sound very selfish and self centered. If you think money will bring you happiness, then you have been mislead. Life is not about money.
Money is important. It gets you a stable comfortable living. It gets you anything you want in life. It pays your bills, your rent, your expenses, it buys you nice vacations, it buys you groceries lol
Girl, to go through life easily, you need money😂🤚🏼unless you are fine being homeless
Life is about money. Think about it. How can you live a comfortable stable life if you are broke?💀
If masculine you mean strong minded and won’t take crap, yeah then I’m a bitch I guess.
No we don't want women with masculine when we already have masculinity.
That sucks lmfao
I'm male, and I like to be the ONLY male in my relationships. That said, I like attractive, strong-minded, smart, funny, caring, trustworthy females!
Personally I have very feminine energy I guess you would say but there are times where I've like thrown a football good I don't know if that's masculine energy but I remember it impressing guys
some do I just like them to have good energy
What you're describing is super far from "Masculine Energy".
Nope. No thanks. I'm not gay therefore I like feminine women. More feminine the better.
Nope, I want a woman that feels like a woman
Opposite attracts so you would need a guy with a feminine energy if you ever decide to date.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts here. Not only you but also 90% people wants to earn money and make their family happy.
I’d like to see some of the other ppls opinions but when I click on them it won’t open. I’m new to this site, am I doing something wrong? Lol
I see them now lol
yup there was an American football league called the LFL of hot women in skimpy outfits. Many men love tough women. i did polls on it
I want a woman who is a woman in every sense of the word. And if your highest priority is money, then a guy is never going to feel loved or feel a commitment from you (even though you think you are loyal.)
Money is important. Im not trying to be homeless or struggling financially
You can achieve financal security without making money the most important thing in your life.
Not true😂😂😂
Without money, you are poor and homeless
You sound like someone who was hurt in a relationship and is now trying to convince herself that it wasn't important.
What wasn't important?
Now trying to convince yourself that LOVE wasn't important.
Mmmm its not
You can be married for 10-20 years and think their the one, then they cheat on you or leave you.
It may be more important to you. But im not gonna base my sole happiness on another person who could leave at anytime. I’d rather be financially stable and have a good career than be with someone who could possibly fuck me over.
no. not really
only beta submissive guys do and they tend to let their wives and girlfriends bang other dudes.
Damn ew. I would like a dom😂
I can be dom myself so I prefer someone like me
@inhua Bullshit, it's more something career oriented intellectual men who think like her want.
@TheSpaceGnome sure
Most subs I know prefer feminine women. Whack statement.
I'd love to see one cause leat she ain't so girly I have act like a butch
I get a boner when a woman has masculine energy (sarcasm).
I'm not a man so I don't act like one, I've asked guys this before and they don't like a girl who is manly (not most of them anyway)
You are the best, wish I could meet a gal like you
They go out with the boys for wings and beer for that shit so no.
You don't look masculine, I can accept tomboys, but if woman prefer money of kids it bad.
I mean if woman prefer money over kids it bad.
Not if the guy doesn't want kids.
Fuck yeah i prefer money over kids. I don’t want kids😂😂🤣I don’t even like them
Kids are messy destruction tornadoes and ruiners of hopes and dreams._.
@thespacegnome yes they are. I don’t even have a motherly instinct or find kids “cute”💀
Babies are ugly
Most are yeah.
Enjoy ruining your family you two, kids are the future, too bad that you don't see that.
Kids are not for everyone and not everyone should have kids. Stfu
Tons of people have kids and are horrible parents lol
Family? I don’t want a family 😂
Kids are not the future for me. They are not something that i want. Sorry you are too blind to understand that. Bye
@TheSpaceGnome this dude i argued with him in the past and he seriously has problems. He only see’s women as breeders.
Not all men want kids either. My brother and sister in law despise children and decided to not have them. My coworker and her husband don’t want kids
Men who don't want kids don't make it any less wrong, your brother also ruin the family.
Again kids are not for everyone. Im not gonna argue with you.
I don’t want kids sir. I don’t like them. Nit interested in them. Bye
I don’t want a fucking family!
Its a free world. We can live how we want. Bye
Many people have kids and they are horrible parents.
@berethor I'm adopting pets instead of having kids, because kitties.
I'm not worried about "the future of my line", I'd rather extend my own lifespan to an extent never done before.
Nothing wrong if you want financial stable...
But you sounds dominant also
How?
I mean you said masculine and aggressive...
I am sure you love to dominate too 😂 😂
Or like taking decision and controlling
I gotta say there's nothing better than a girl with a powerful feminine energy!
The weak ones do
Maybe he should be dating dudes
Nope. Not even slightly.
Some do, some don't.
God no. I pray you have big boobs.
I find them quite attractive!
I suspect many men want a cooperative feminine wife.
Lmfao cooperative? A slave?
We have a very different view on that and I'm not surprised.
But if you're making a success of yourself and are happy, keep doing what you're doing.
Yeaaaah im not a slave😩😂😂😂
can't speak for all men. i don't.
I'm attracted to kind fit women.
Yes, plenty of them.
Money can not buy happiness, ever...
Mmmmm yes it can
It pays your bills, rent, buys you groceries, gives you a stable living
It buys you anything you want
Nice vacations
Buys you pets
I can say the same thing about relationships and marriage, you can’t base your happiness on that shit either