2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Most men do NOT want this - many are vehemently against it, in fact - but there are a few who do. They tend to be submissive men who want the female to lead the relationship, though, and in my experience, the women in these relationships isn't really happy in most cases.
You have been taught by (an extremely Feminist) society to BECOME the man that you want to be with, instead of to become the WOMAN such a man would want to be with. Feminism - which is everywhere and woven throughout the media and society - has been teaching women to behave like men and to adopt male-oriented goals, and while this is fine for women throughout their 20s, when they're still physically attractive and their youth makes them desirable, once they hit 30 or so, masculine women tend to be unable to get a relationship (they can still attract men for casual sex if they're physically attractive, but such men won't commit), and this makes most women very unhappy, lonely, and resentful.
What's worse is that this was done to women INTENTIONALLY, in an effort to prevent relationships between men and women. The radical Feminists who have led the Feminist movement - who are avowed Marxists - DESPISE the fact that women are designed to work WITH men and are happiest that way, and specifically set about to destroy the nuclear family. That's not conjecture - they've said so, in speeches or in writing - many times.
https://nikitaccoulombe.medium.com/why-feminism-wants-to-dismantle-the-family-long-4695d45bcf88
Feminism has convinced women to trade having a family and being able to stay at home and raise her children (and be cared and provided for by her husband) for the prospect of working a job outside the home for 40 years. Even more concerning is that women generally only have a small fraction of the retirement savings that men provide, because women tend to spend nearly everything they earn, mostly on consumer goods and travel, when left to their own devices. So women who have no husband or children will be on their own in their old age, dependent completely on their ability to PAY strangers to care for them when they're unable to care for themselves, and most do not have anywhere close to the amount of money needed to retire, much less pay for personal care. But by the time most women are old enough to figure this out, it's FAR too late to do anything about it, and few people - few younger women especially - are interested in hearing their warnings.
You are free to live your life as you see fit, obviously, but at the very least, choose your path in life with your eyes open, and with a full understanding of the likely consequences of your decisions, and take responsibility for the choices that you make, rather than complain about them or expecting others to bail you out. Unfortunately, most women, when they realize they've put themselves in a terrible position, expect the government (i. e., taxpayers) to bail them out, and that's not sustainable, especially with the massively reduced birthrate that's happening now. There simply won't be enough workers to tax to pay for this, and millions of women will be completely on their own - many will be living in the streets.
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I don’t want kids. I don’t want to be a stay at home mom raising kids.
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I hate this standard that women must have kids and raise kids
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Kids are also not here to care for us when we are old. Talk to nurses at care homes for the elderly, most kids don’t even visit their parents lol
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You're talking to a man who spent many dozens of hours each with his great-grandparents in nursing homes, and spent hundreds of hours with his grandparents prior to their deaths (only one of the four ever spent time in a nursing home, and that was 6 months). We take family very seriously where I'm from - my parents moved my grandparents a couple of miles down the road 5 years before they passed, so that my mother and sister could take care of them every day, and the rest of us as we could. My other grandmother lived with my parents and my aunt & uncle until she passed.
Do you really think you have ANY chance of getting that kind of care from strangers? And do you have any idea what decent care costs? I have 3 chains of assisted living centers as clients, and being decent places, they START at $8000/month for basic residency and minimal care - it goes up from there pretty steeply for those needing more medical care. The reality is that working men are on track with necessary retirement savings at 71%, vs. only 28% of working women. That's just money you need to survive ASSUMING you DON'T need assisted living or serious medical care - very few people have the kind of money saved to pay for even decent assisted living. - +1 y
And state-run nursing homes - who I've had as customers in the past - are a horror-show. I used to install satellite TV-based TV systems in those (over 120 locations installed!), so I've spent hundreds of hours in those places up and down the state, and I would not wish that on anyone. And anyone who thinks they could end up there should be VERY afraid!
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Idc im not reading your paragraphs. Not everyone is like your family.
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I don’t want kids bye
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She didn’t insult him. She is right.
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Y’all are mysoginistic men
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@Brittanyroseee most kids don't even visit their parents?
I had to check your profile and realised you're American. Makes sense. 23% of American he's are broken. The world average is 7%
You think the way you do because the culture you were birthed into is poison. God bless. - +1 y
@Brittanyroseee American homes are broken.
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I don’t want kids.
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I don’t even like babies or kids!
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Bye!
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Who? Me?
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And i despise people who trash other people for not wanting kids simply cuz kids are not an interest for them. BYE
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I don’t want skin babies or crotch goblins lol
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@Juxtapose people like that exist. They're destroying the country but understand that these are people who are traumatised. Women who have been traumatised behave very differently than men who are traumatised. Be careful heading down the rabbit hole with someone who is cognitively unwell.
God bless. - +1 y
I just don’t like kids… what is the issue? They are not interesting enough for me to sacrifice my life freedom privacy and money for. Get over it
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Im not traumatized i just have a different want in life. Sorry
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I literally don’t care about babies or kids bro
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@BlackBeauty90 wow why so angry lol
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Then I don't know who your referring to
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@Brittanyroseee my dear, I was not referring to your child comment. Even if I was to factor that in, if you look through your life and can honestly say there has been no event that has caused you to think negatively about having children, but instead some divine realisation that has come to you, then fair play. But remember the reason you have periods every month is because your body 2qa designed to give birth, your choice not to want children is fine, but it's a tough sell to convince me that you're working against your body because of some higher calling.
In any case I have no desire to control your reproductive choices. All the best to you - +1 y
Ok thought you were referring to my child comment lol
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Just cuz im able to physically give birth doesn’t mean i should. Tons of women have kids that they end up regretting, neglecting, abandoning or abusing… so yeah lol
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If i could, i would literally have an ovariohysterectomy honestly 😂 but it’s a 20k surgery, not all insurance covers it and it’s extremely hard to obtain.
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@panerabricks you don't have to be a psychologist to realise when someone says that much about someone they don't know most likely they're projecting about themselves. If you read what she wrote and realise that she's really talking about how she feels about herself, the origins for the anger become a little clearer.
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@Brittanyroseee "regretting, neglecting, abandoning or abusing…"
Aaand there's the trauma lol we got there in the end. Lol - +1 y
Its the truth tho. Just cuz im able to get pregnant and birth one doesn’t mean i should. Kids are meant for people who strongly desire them. Me? I could care less haha
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I would regret my child if i had one lol
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I literally wish i could have my ovaries and uterus removed bro
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Self mutilation? Have you never heard of that procedure?….
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@Brittanyroseee You already look old for 24 anyway.
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Why are you mad?😂😂😂😂wtf?
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@ManOnFire mad cuz I don’t want kids?😂🤚🏼
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@Brittanyroseee not all men are like them. You shouldn’t even talk to them. I mean, I won’t tell you what to do, but it’s literally insane men their age think like that..
They essentially want adult children to abuse-
Bear my semen
Listen to my commands
Think nothing
Do nothing
That’s literally insane.
Every father would agree with me and punch these suckers out the ring.
Actually- probably not because what good would that do. Keep doing you sis.
Those guys who want you to be weak are weak themselves and only feel empowered when they can look at someone below them.
They are not for world progress.
They let being a man go to their head, and forget they’re just a human.
They’re a human with a rod, and we’re a human with a hole.
We lead different lives.
Since when does ANYONE have to lead a relationship?
Like what the absolute f u ck is that?
Relationships should be mutual.
Not leading or being submissive.
Dom and sun is purely bedroom talk
That shouldn’t be a thing in our society.
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Even animals don’t get this twisted over their genders… they mate and then go their separate ways.
Hyenas packs are female-led
So it doesn’t matter what the genitalia is anyone can lead
It’s not about emotions it’s about logic.
No one should be leading in friendships or relationships
That’s just absolutely terrifyingly
Horrendously
Incredulously
Anciently
INSANE
Nothing about that was logical.
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@ManOnFire what does that have to do with her choosing to not want children?….
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Your post was an interesting read to me. Where I fully agree: "we" have no need to imitate 'the other gender' (here ignoring additional speculative genders for now); putting each group's individual strengths into a team effort will unleash the FULL potential.
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@Rosexøxø hello,
I'm just here for the fun. I'm 32 now and I remember when I was 20, all the girls spoke like you, ow that they're all in their 30s, they've swiftly converted back to default settings.
But for the sake of entertaining your young mind, are you aware that hyena females lead hyena men because they're bigger, stronger, as well as having pseudo penis's? Not a great example to use young lady.
It's very sad that a woman your age has such a warped ideology of what life actually is. Clearly no man has loved you enough to be honest with you and that breaks my heart.
I can already tell you've been hardened in your belief system so there's really no debate here to be had. Your age allows you to entertain magical thinking, but father time will sober you up my dear. Mark. These. Words. Down.
One day you will realise that the only reason you're able to espouse your young ideology, is because you're 20 and at the peak of your sexual Market value. Men will nod along with whatever grand vision you have of how humans should be 😄, you aren't the first and you won't be the last female, just wait till you hit 27-30. No one is going to entertain you and people are going to stop nodding along, then you'll have to enter back into the real world like every other woman.
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Why do people auto assume that the guy would need to be submissive? Most relationships that work do not have a sub/dom dynamic, both people treat the other with love and respect.
There is also this notion of the guy being the breadwinner vs the girl doing so, but thats stupid. In todays shitty economy, if you aren't doing dual incomes, you're either stupid, or happy with very little in life.
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+1 yNothing you described is masculine energy, it’s independent energy
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372 opinions shared on Dating topic. under this description, I’d say I relate,
but otherwise I wouldn’t call it masculine or feminine..
that just fuels the gender wars.
What you’re doing is simply SURVIVING and living in a modern societal world.
What you earn shouldn’t relate to who you fuck or marry. That’s something else that’s all based on arousal purely- not what’s in the pockets.
A good handful of men do and a good handful of men don’t like a woman who can simply take care of herself.
They want to keep bedroom talk going out the bedroom-
dominating and being the one to influence the lives.
They want an inferior so they can feel superior.
Women wanted equality. Is there equality in the male comprehension for their “hierarchy” and alpha males?
Any wonder why “alpha males” would be AGAINST equality?
I’m not even talking about privilege- I’m talking about making sure the country thrives as a whole.
If someone is willing to work then let them make something of themselves, damn it!
can’t fantasize all day, gotta eat at some point, amirite?
So that’s why family men would be the first to get this.
Not just family men because someone like Dwayne Johnson, wouldn’t mind a lady who MADE something of herself, nor would he be threatened by that
because he can socialize and carry conversation with her when it matters, and he can have his way in the bedroom with her if he would like that because all is fair for couples in the bedroom.
If you find men I don't know.. HATING you for you taking care of yourself? You gotta find the mature men who aren’t struggling to take care of THEMSELVES.
I say keep goin’ sis and just live your life.
It’s just too short, in all honesty.
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a guess some men do some men dont but am not a man but i wouldn't like a women with way to much muscles good energy but not loads of muscle it looks weird fit cool but looking like a man with to much muscle yuck🤮but thats my opinion and am a curvy girl iam feminine but not to feminine as in a dont act like a petite barbie doll you know those kind of girls that think oh iam a women i can't rifft oh iam women i can't lightly pimp incase my guy things am not plastic or women like enough fk that yes iam a girl i wear girls clothes trackys but in a way am a kinda tomboy have been from i was young i hung out with boys girls to but i do dress more like a women now av grown up but have the tomboy in me a tiny bit but i recan yeah i mite rifft a little sometimes but its not like i mean it it just comes out or maybe even a tiny pimp i recan if a guy can do it so can i take this advice be who you wanna be but if i was a guy not to much muscle on a women it looks weird nd not my kinda a women no way
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1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Some men are okay with masculine women. It doesn't work for me though. There often is a clash. A woman is supposed to be the feminine opposite of a man, so when you have two masculine partners (and the same would apply with two feminine partners), there's going to be friction especially in emotional areas.
A man wants a woman who can support him emotionally when he's in that kind of moment, not a woman who treats him like he's a "girl" or wants to laugh derisively at his frustrations - which these things are what a lot of women do because they have masculine energy and want to control men.
And a man wants to be a leader in a relationship, not have a feminist-minded woman who wants all the power and dominance in it.
These are largely the problems with today's women. An excessive need to have power and control over or above men, hence masculine energy that causes conflict.
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What man wants?
Think Being femenine can't be at the same time as being able to solve problems? - +1 y
@ItsMykolaJenkins Sure, a woman can solve problems. That's not unfeminine.
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What in male eyes is unfemenine
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@ItsMykolaJenkins So let me try to answer with an answer I gave someone else on here before:
A lot of women in our culture look and dress feminine, but still have masculine energy and masculine habits. Which deep down is the reason why most men ultimately are not satisfied with the women of our society, even if these men don't realize it.
Even all the cute, pretty, curvy big-boobed women on Instagram have masculine energy. They talk streetsy and use trap rapper lingo, call their girlfriends and own boyfriends "bruh," have large area tats of course, like to game, and have messy homes or bedrooms. Some of them even burp loud like men and don't say 'excuse me,' and this I know from personal experience.
On the outside a lot of these chicks look great, but are still full of that masculine energy that isn't really what men want. But a lot of men don't know that and don't even really recognize what they're feeling, they just chalk 'being feminine' up to a woman dressing like it, looking very girly, or having a very sensual feminine figure, but there is still a masculine energy that can be felt. And it's the reason why these guys will still be looking at other women - which is wrong of course, but that's the reason why. - +1 y
You explained me perfectly well😂
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I dress like a girl, i like girly things but my mentality and perspective on life is more like a mans. I do burp out loud like you said, i talk like a guy, i drive like a guy, etc
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Oh well😂im not changing myself
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how to have more femenine energy?
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@ItsMykolaJenkins It’s sad that you ask, but also understandable because today's society doesn't teach women how to be womanly. The best way to get that energy is listening to your feminine side, and also trying to learn from the women of older generations.
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itry to be both be femenine and elegant and cute but not manly
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@ItsMykolaJenkins Then you're doing fine.
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+1 yYes very much so ,,, feminine men love it.
80 Reply 7.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not so much. Feminine is what we like.
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Damn lol yeah im not that
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Im only “feminine” when it comes to being prochoice 💀😂
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That’s fine lol
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There's tons of women that are pro-life. Where I live, the pro-life marches are 80 percent women. Being pro-choice isn't feminine at all.
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Cool im not prolife cuz idgaf lol
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@Wraith_Cemetery Irish women ftw?
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+1 y1) “Im very rational and I go by facts“
You don’t go by facts and you’re not very rational. I’ve seen you peddle all sorts of left wing propaganda.
2) “I tend to come off “aggressive” if told im wrong.”
You tend to be aggressive when you are literally PROVEN wrong with evidence.
3) “I can be very impatient”
Yeah because the last thing we all want is a screaming b*tch to deal with.
4) “My biggest want in life is money”
Because money is more important than family after all. Selfish b*tch.
5) “Most women want a family and kids, I just want to be financially stable!”
Pick the right man and you will be financially stable.
This is all just about you either wanting a weak man you can control or a guy you can financially use.
You’ve said it yourself already. Money for yourself is your motivator.
You don’t care about helping other people, raising a family or advancing the interests of humanity in any way.
So why would any guy want you?
Your loyalty doesn’t mean sh*t to us when it’s built upon us doing all these things for you.
True love is unconditional. Its not all built around “you gotta do all these things for me”
So if ever you do end up marrying, whatever delusional man chose you is gonna soon find himself in a divorce court.
But thank you for sharing. I’m sure @KrakenAttackin was very impressed by your maturity and thoughtfulness, as I have been as well.
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Left wing?😂im not a liberal 😂😂🤣🤣🤣I literally voted trump bro. Nice try though
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Yep, to me career and money is more important than kids
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I don’t want kids
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You don’t know what type of debates or arguments i have gotten into😂🤣🤣
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What if I don’t want to get married? Have you thought of that?
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“You don’t care about helping other people or raising a family or advancing humanity” no idc about raising children. I also don’t care much about society standards and I don't know what you mean by “help other people”😂
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I don’t peddle left wing bullshit😂the only left thing i agree with, is abortion LMAO.
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Your whole comment was bullshit lol
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It doesn’t even have to be about kids I’m just saying you’re such an intrinsically selfish person I can practically tell you’ll be of no use to a man as a partner
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Explain how im selfish. Please lol
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And thanks for ignoring my other responses 😂
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Literally not a liberal 😂the only liberal thing i agree with is abortion
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And voting for anybody doesn’t mean shit to me. The fact is you’ve been a womens rights “my body my choice” militant. That just shows an extreme lack of character.
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You literally called me selfish for preferring money over raising a family 💀
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Who cares what i agree with? Is that your issue? Me supporting prochoice, doesn’t make me a liberal. Im more conservative but yes, my body, my choice😂sorry!
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And why the hell do you care about what men think of you have no intention of being with one?
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You are big mad😂very angry. Very offended
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Your whole comment about me was wrong. You don’t know what debates i get into, you don’t know what arguments i get into with people, you don’t know the stuff i agree or disagree with. Im allowed to be prochoice, there are already enough kids in foster care why add more. Me wanting money over raising children is not selfish.
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I certainly would not want to be with a mysoginist
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“Me wanting money over raising children is not selfish.”
It is though. Being thoughtful of other people is a far more attractive quality for a woman to have than only caring about herself.
I don't know what your issue is but did your parents never love you? - +1 y
Um since when are children a requirement?….
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I have no issue😂wtf? I just prefer a career and money to myself over a family. I’d rather have a husband and NO kids involved and some animals. That is my dream😂🤣🤣🤣 if husband doesn’t work out then fine😂 as long as i have a good stable career with decent income, that is all what matters to me.
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So having kids is being thoughtful of other people?😂wtf? I don’t think anyone will care if I don’t have skin babies
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Its not. If you said you wanted to be a veterinarian because you loved helping sick animals, that’d be fine but you’re probably gonna be selling Only Fans pics instead
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To me kids are not really important. I don’t care for them honestly.
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I literally work at a vet office.. nice try bud.. nice try… I’ve been in this field for 6 years bro. Finished school for vet nurse February 2020… why are you so angry?
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I don’t have an onlyfans😂🤣🤣
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Wow you are angry😂 speaking out of your ass all this nonsense because i prefer money over fucking kids
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Fuck off bro
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Wanna see my savings account? I have 40k
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It still doesn’t matter. You said yourself that money is the primary thing you care about in life and that just shows an extreme lack of character. Going off of what you said, if your job paid an average, but still perfectly liveable wage, you would’ve still left it all behind.
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Money is pretty important buddy. It gets you a comfortable decent living. It pays your bills, it buys your groceries, it pays your medical expenses
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You don’t know how much i make lol
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Your offended clearly
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I have no interest in people who need to flaunt their wealth either. You’re a disgusting person
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Im disgusting because to me personally money is more important than raising skin babies?
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I don’t know what part of me saying “a liveable wage” didn’t make sense. My entire point was you care not about helping those sick dogs as much as you do what it pays you
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You spoke out of your ass, called me a liberal, said i always argue about left wing stuff when i do not😂 you don’t know the debates i get into. You assumed i have no job and i do onlyfans. I don’t have an onlyfans, i work fulltime at a vet clinic the past 6 years i have been in this field. I work hard for my money, and money is important. It is what gives you a living. It pays your bills and gets you stuff you want and need. So shut the fuck up
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Excuse me?
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Why do you think i chose this field? Because i prefer animals over humans. Actually this field doesn’t pay well😂on average a veterinary technician makes 40k a year.. not a lot
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Again you are talking out of your ass. Dumb ass
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Funny how you’re calling me angry when I haven’t been the one telling people to stfu
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I have no time to sit here and talk to a retard who has no idea what he is saying 😂👋🏼
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Everything you are saying is out of your ass. Im only telling you to shut up😂
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You are the only one who i said “stfu” to😂
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by the way the field i work in, doesn’t pay well😂😂😂😂😂
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You are the only one who i have told to shut the fuck up😂😂😂
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Would it have been better if I made this out to be more like a job interview?
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Avoiding everything im saying once again
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Fuckin retard lol
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Telling me i work in this field for the money when this field is the bare minimum 😂😂😂🤣look up the salary of a veterinary technician please😂😂😂😂😂
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Getting angry because i prefer money over raising expensive skin babies🤣
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You are talking out of your ass so I suggest you stfu
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There was nothing to respond to. I don’t have to acknowledge petty insults.
Either way, can’t understand why I even bothered wasting my time with you.
I guess I am a retard. Even though I have a 3.8 GPA in Engineering. Whatever - +1 y
You deserve the petty insults for telling me i work in the vet field for the money when once again, this field doesn’t pay much. You shouldn’t talk out of your ass or assume things. This field doesn’t pay much money.
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Just because you have a 3.8 GPA doesn’t mean anything. You still are an arrogant person who talks out of his ass and calls someone else selfish because they prefer a career and money to themselves over raising crotch goblins.
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I suggest you look up the average salary for a veterinary nurse
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You are the rude one here, not me. And clearly you are offended by what i said about money being important to me. Without money, you have no life.
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You know even if you aren’t cut out to be a mother yourself, children do play an important role in society. Who’s gonna care for the elderly in the future when they’re all sick and in the hospital on their death beds?
Not saying you gotta be the one to do it, but don’t just be minimizing them. A lot of them do help out their parents around the house.
And even just with farm labor. Is it better for 50 year old men to be using heavy equipment or their 20 year old sons? - +1 y
Talk to nurses in nursing homes. Many will tell you their own kids put them in there…. Most of the time their children don’t visit them.. kids are not here to take care of us when we are old. That is a selfish way of thinking. People have their own lives by that time, you can’t expect your child to take care of you when your old..
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I don’t want kids cuz im not a fan of them. They are not interesting to me and I don’t even find babies “cute”. They are time consuming, annoying and expensive. They are demanding, talk back, messy, etc. Nope! Not for me! Bye!
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Im on birth control for a reason bro
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You do realize that with the proper discipline kids won’t display any of those negative qualities
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Idc. I don’t want the responsibility of one. Kids still throw tantrums and cry and are demanding and messy and so on. Not something i will deal with
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They are expensive.
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Time consuming
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And that’s all well and good. Glad we have an understanding. Still curious though how close you are with your parents?
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Does it matter? What does me being close with my parents have anything to do with this? Yes im close with them😂 doesn’t mean i will birth skin babies which I won’t care about
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Not everyone wants skin babies?
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That’s fine. It’s just your obsession with money is the thing I found concerning.
You should love your parents more than money. They raised you - +1 y
Jeez, I don’t love money more than my parents. Again here you are going off on nonsense from your ass. Im saying i prefer money and a career over marriage and raising skin babies. Bye
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I haven’t heard you speak positively about one thing besides money so far. Not even a comment about how much you love your parents or anything like that.
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Why do i need to bring my parents into this? 😂🤣🤣im talking about my mindset and perspective on life and how i want my future to be. Your weird. Bye
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This has no relevance to my parents 💀 you are bringing my parents into this lol
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I think you are just offended because a woman is saying money is more important to her than skin babies and crotch demons
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You said your biggest want in life was money when it could’ve been something like the happiness of others and those around you
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Ok whatever 😂 im talking about myself and my future. Am i not allowed to want things for myself? Why do i have to wish things for other people? Damn bro
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Bye dude
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Yes my biggest want in life is to have a stable career and good income for myself. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. That is what gets me a living so im not struggling in poverty or possibly homeless. I don't know what the big deal is about me talking about how i want my future to be.
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I still find it ironic how with such a money consciencious individual you’re so quick to still flount your money around. Bragging that you have 40k in the bank, and sporting around a Balenciaga purse that costs thousands of dollars.
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Why do you care so much?… 😂😂🤣who gives a shit what i spend my money on. It’s my money😂😂🤣
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And maybe just don’t live in California if you’re so worried about things being expensive. It’s a sh*thole state anyway
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Yep, 40k i made from the past 5 years of saving my hard earned money. That just shows im a smart individual who works hard for what she makes. Bye
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My life is here:) thanks tho
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My family and friends are here, im not leaving them. Bye
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You seem to care about what i do. Worry about yourself
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My bag actually costed $1796. Didn’t cost thousands of dollars 😂 nice try tho once again assuming things.
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Who even cares what i spend my money on. My ex costed more💀
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Well its an ugly purse and you got ripped off. Terrible deal. Not to mention you supported a company of child groomers.
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Cool. I got the bag a year ago, what do you want me to do? Im not getting rid of it. Are you done? Cuz im done with this conversation
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I didn’t get ripped off. My ex costed me 5k😂much much more expensive than my bag. Nice try though
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Have a good night bro.
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Seems like you enjoy arguing
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Well its not anyone’s fault besides you that you dated a cuck of a man that couldn’t provide for himself. No woman should ever have to pay for a man. Period.
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Ok! Bye! I said im done conversing with you. Have a nice night
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You should burn your purse as an act of righteous anger. If you really cared about justice you would’ve taken action.
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Im not gonna burn my purse 😂 wtf
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Im sorry to say this.. but IDGAF about the dumb scandal. I honestly don’t. It doesn’t affect me or affect my life. I have more important things going on in my personal life to be concerned about. I also spent my hard earned money on that bag which I bought a year ago. I like the bag, im not getting rid of it or burning it just to follow the cancel trend. I don’t care.
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Stop arguing with me. This will not go anywhere 😂
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Ok gn
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Seriously you are wasting your time arguing with someone who doesn’t give a shit about any of your opinions. Im over wasting my time conversing with you. I said this many times.
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Good fucking night. Im blocking your annoying ass now
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Lol triggered
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Not triggered. I just find you annoying and i said to drop this many times. You seem to like to drag things on when the other person has made it clear they don’t give a shit about anything you are saying
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You wasted your time and you wasted mine. Thanks.
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I do what I want. End of the story
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Its because I don’t take orders from women
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You gotta say please
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Then it’s harassment. I told you to stop
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I don’t take orders from men.
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Go and be a victim then.
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Not playing victim. You seem to be the type to like to argue with people who have made it clear they don’t give one fuck about what your saying. I made it clear.
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I also don’t take orders from men either
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Again you wasted both of our time
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Your Dad made an obvious mistake that night he forgot his condom
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And you are a botched abortion. Are you done yet? Someone is angry lol
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You’re right, your mom should’ve never bent over when he asked
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Butthurt man you are😂
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Wow! You are offended!
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Botched abortion
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Mommy should have killed you in the womb💀💀💀💀
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Mommy should have shoved a hanger up her vagina to be rid of the parasite that was growing inside of her womb before birthing out such arrogance that enjoys talking out of his ass and likes to argue with people who make it clear they don’t give a fuck about what he says💀
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Im a bitch. You asked for it.
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She would never sink to your level of degeneracy in her wildest imagination
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You deserved that degeneration. You asked for it.
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Your Dad wearing a condom would not have hurt anyone
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Mommy should have aborted you in the toilet and flushed you down to the sewer 💀
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Seriously you should have been killed in her womb. Less arrogant people on this planet. You know there are tons of people on this planet that don’t deserve to live. Just saying lol.
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You are asking to be degenerated. You asked to be spoken to all nasty.
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You are just butthurt because I didn’t give one fuck about anything you had to say. Again you wasted your time running your mouth
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Not gonna lie. Your obsession with abortion is genuinely scary. You do realize it’s murder? If I read one more word I swear I’m genuinely starting to get sick.
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Idc if you think its murder. We kill people everyday. We have murdered innocent people on death row. Get over it.
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+1 yIt depends entirely on the guy. There are lots of guys that are drawn to dominant energy, like the character, Lady Dimitrescu. So many men are hella drawn to her. She’s a powerful dominant woman.
But, there are also many guys that prefer more submissive energy.
If you look at M/M or F/F couples, you often see one person as naturally more dominant and the other person as naturally more submissive.
There’s an energetic pull like Yin and Yang.
Opposites in dominant/submissive energy will naturally attract, like magnets.
So, you will naturally attract men who are less dominant than you.
But, if you want to attract dominant men, you may need to tap into your submissive side (if you have one).
My fiancée says I give off dominant energy, and at work I always find myself placed into positions of leadership, like at the current company I work at, I tripled my income in 3 months and got promoted to upper management. I’m highly driven and ambitious.
To me, women who give off a similar dominant energy as me are great to work with in terms of accomplishing tasks and completing projects. But, in terms of romantic or sexual attraction, the spark is never there. They get friend-zoned because I am instead attracted to that polarity in energy. Something inside me is just drawn to it.12 Reply- +1 y
I’d be curious how you tripled your income. What do you do for work?
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I joined a fast-growing startup as a copywriter, then got promoted to content marketing manager, and then became head of marketing, working directly under the CMO (who is also the CEO). He said I proved to be an asset to the company.
I’d say my success was a combination of skill/talent/drive meeting with an opportunity that would allow me to grow quickly.
Right Preparation + Right Opportunity.
And a whole lot of hustle.
I want to learn everything I can while I’m here so I can grow a big business of my own (a production company) in 5 years or so.
But yeah, I continually learned and took on responsibilities and demonstrated my worth and contribution.
Half of our company’s revenue is from our marketing efforts and we currently bring in about $200/month gross revenue with high profit margins.
We just launched less than 6 months ago and the CEO has plans to scale this to $100M per year. 🚀
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yWho labeled you that way? Why did you believe them?
NONE of those traits are strictly masculine. They are characteristics of a very smart and reasonable human being, whether man or woman.
You sound more like a hurt person. Naturally, we all get worked up if someone kicks us where we were hurt.
You are more rational, and factsy, and driven, and organized than others because you either had too much responsibility for your age, couldn't handle it, or were exposed to extreme situations where you felt insecure. This is all your defense mechanism. You want to feel secure with your feet on solid ground.
You also don't think about wanting kids because you don't want your future children to experience the same insecurity that you did. That's why you want to be strong and driven to be able to give them good, sound support. It is actually called a very very strong and healthy maternal instinct, which is very feminine. Only it has been over-activated because of too much difficulty.
That is what I think based on what you said about yourself. But if you feel more on the masculine side for any other reasons except the ones that you mentioned, there is still a way. There are lots of guys out there (look for ones with lots of sisters) who have a bit more feminine traits. You will match up very nicely with them if you are both aware and accepting of your truths. They usually get married later than the average marriage age for guys. You will have to pry them out of their family's clutches though. Good luck!
If you never end up feeling secure enough to have kids, then don't do it. Children are primarily the mother's responsibility.
I think some counseling could help clarify things better and faster.
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Opinion Owner+1 yDon't listen to the guys here. Most of them are sorry a**, sore, lame, whiny losers. They just get a kick out of poking you where it hurts. It makes them feel significant and superior to exploit your self-doubt and vulnerability.
Opinion Owner+1 yIt makes them feel more like a MAAAN! Roar!!!
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Um😂😂😂I don’t want kids cuz I don’t like them and I don’t want the responsibility of one..
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I disagree I’ve had this mentality since i was in highschool
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I don’t want kids cuz I don’t give a shit about them😂😂😂😂pets are better and less expensive and actually cute
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You're very right.
Of course we like it: at least truly masculune men like it. Weak men despise it. But I think you might really be asking if we are attracted to masculine energy in women in a romantic sense, and the answer is "no."
We don't like it in that way for the same reason we don't date our guy friends. So a woman with masculine energy will get friendzoned somewhere along the way (unless guys only use her for hookups or regular sex). There is a reason gay relationships always have a more masculine one and a more feminine one. Even lesbian relationships often have a more masculine one and more feminine one.
When it comes to a masculine woman, one of 3 things will happen. Men will entirely ignore her, dislike her and conflict with her, or they will befriend her. That hold true for me and every guy I know. I generally don't notice masculine women at all, and the ones I do notice I either dislike because they are assholes acting like douchebag men because they think that's the way to get respect, or I befriend then because they are easier to communicate with than women. But I and most men can only be romantic with feminine women. The exceptions include men who are willing to string masculine women along for sex, feminine men who are attracted to what they lack, and maybe some ultra-masculine men like bikers.00 Reply- 530 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yIt’s not a bad thing. But I notice so called “masculine” women don’t know how to push and pull the same way masculine men do.
When these women get in “a fight” they get tunnel vision that everything is their way or no way. They tend to overcompensate with aggression which is really a mix of logic and emotions (insecurity, anger).
Some women automatically assume that it’s necessary to take things a step further since they are being “discriminated” against for because of their gender. Sexism will always exist but in modern society most companies try promote women all they can to appear progressive. Mature men respect driven women when she doesn’t act like an underdog just because she’s a woman.
Masculine men are definitely goal oriented and will do what it takes to accomplish their task. But they don’t take things as personally when things don’t go their way. They look for rational methods to achieve their goal. They are good at choosing their battles. They see opportunities in setbacks. They may express negative emotions but they process it quick and get back on track.
Anyway I don’t want to make any bad assumptions about your personality. But I’ve come across so called “alpha” women who actually over reach and cause more harm than good in team environments. They don’t know how to time their aggression as well as men do.
00 Reply 567 opinions shared on Dating topic. No, men do not like women with masculine energy, to put it bluntly it gets out hackles up, women who display masculine energy often do not realise how much it rubs guys the wrong way, and everything you see as being a 'strong successful woman' turns guys off.
You say that you come off “aggressive” if told you're wrong then I suggest instead of responding immediately, you go make yourself a coffee/tea/drink of choice and let you mind mull it over and then give a response people will take it better if you show that you have given it some time and not 'just shot from the hip' as it were.
There is nothing wrong with being career oriented and money driven but you have to learn to find some balance.
You say that you can be very impatient and plan things, they do not often go together well, If you can learn to step back and check your impatience and calmly think things through you will find your planning will be more coherent.
Your profile says you are in healthcare that is a career path were coming off as “aggressive” will not further your career If you can learn to tone that down it will help you, and by that I do not mean go all mushy.
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+1 ySounds like me. You are more yang than most females. If people feel that you are too yang for their taste since you are a rational planner, that is their problem, not yours. I am a planner, have enough food in the house to cover a 6 month shutdown, etc. Yet if people think I am too man since I know how the body works, I can cook and can appreciate (and play) music, that is also their problem and not mine.
Just one comment, FWIW- If you want to be stable- financially or otherwise- consider raising a family in a state OTHER than CA. Seriously, that state is just an accident looking for a place to happen.
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I don’t want kids lol so im good
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I want money for myself lol
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Having sufficient money is good. Just don't become a slave to it! And be sure to spread some around to help others who "really" need it. Example: I am totally ticked that eggs rose to $4+ : even at Aldi. But a couple of weeks ago, a lady was almost in tears when she saw the price. I gave her $5 and told her to buy her eggs! That "cost" me a gallon of milk and a weekly treat, but the good it did for her- body AND mind- will outweigh my "loss".
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Im good😂don’t tell me to give my money to other people. Thanks. I don’t expect others to give me their money
1.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Well all that sounds brilliant to me , especially if you are really giving due consideration as to " how " you are going to make this serious money , I believe that if you really focus on something , with a goal and a pathway , it happens.
I did okey , BUT if I had of had todays tools at hand when I was 24 , I would have gone much harder , and all that money would have compounded and I'd be x 5 where I'm at now , I didn't know who Warren Buffet was ( few did ) equities were cumbersome to purchase , people my age sometimes say " Ohh life was great , I wouldn't change any of it " , that's bullshit to me , I'd change a plethora , and really kicked my wealth into the top 5% in Aus , and it would have all come via long term investment.
Anyhow , my answer is YES , many young guys would love your attitude.
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+1 yHonestly I work in a male dominated field. I can’t say masculine energy is why I wanted this career as since I graduated I go into the class every year and tell the students about my job. For the past 4 years there has been at least one girl in the class. I’d say 2 girls were more feminine then I was and one that was more masculine. I hate playing that card and I’m not afraid to be “one of the guys”. I can be a girl outside of work. I enjoy putting on makeup, not a bunch just a little natural glow, and wearing nice clothes. Plus my dating apps show me as me, I got some nice pictures on there and one of me working so they know what they will be getting into. I have yet to meet a guy that isn’t scared of what I do. Yes I work in a male dominated field and yes I do enjoy it, don’t like me because of that? Well sorry you aren’t for me then.
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+1 yThe answer depends on the woman's degree of masculinity. To keep a househould running correctly for instance, I can't imagine a weak woman anyway. Since millennia women were told to be submissive, but are they really so? I'm not convinced. Neither are all men that dominant.
In a relation I like to have a relative equal balance of masculinity and feminity in both partners. A real woman with still always be a woman, with generally the capacity of getting pregnant, but that should not prevent her from taking her own decisions.
00 Reply988 opinions shared on Dating topic. You fit a stereotype that's generally unattractive.
Men don't really care if you're on your mission in terms of money that doesn't add any attractiveness.
Leading with facts is definitely a plus and could be attractive to man who is mature.
You commented only being feminin when it comes to pro choice which kinda tells me that you're one of those women who only play the woman card when they stand to gain something but have 0 interest in the responsibility that comes with being a woman.
Overall I would say most men don't like women who behave like you and the few who do usually just overlook stuff out of lust or desperation.
Not saying this to be mean or anything, these are harsh words but meant in a positive sense to give you all the facts about reality and let you decide if you need to make a change or not.43 Reply- +1 y
I can’t change my mindset. Sorry. Yes im prochoice. I don’t want kids.
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Makes sense
+1 yDepends: if you don't require from me to share your same priorities (lots of money, p. ex.), then I wouldn't have a problem with your energy. I am ambitious but not in terms of money: I have projects to finish and for me is more important to accomplish them than spend my life earning lots of money without focusing in what I really want to do. I prefer being just independent doing what I like, than being rich doing things that are indifferent to me. So, if you have no problem with that, I would have no problem with your energy (by the way I would never ask you to lend me your money)
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+1 yWanting a career and financial stability is not a bad thing, but this statement here " My biggest want in life is money", would be a real turn off for me. To me, it would indicate what in the Hopi language is called “Koyaanisqatsi” (kojɑːnisˈkɑtsi), or “life out of balance, in turmoil, and disintegrating. Money is not the root of all evil, but rather, the love of money. I understand the fear of being without it, but there must be balance in the pursuit of it, and of what truly matters.
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It's understandable
I like men's behavior for their bromance ability, their will to have fun and stuff, but even if that's what I look like from people (men and women), I want a woman who's after the kids and the house. But I don't mind that she wants a career and money, I'm like that too.
Also, I don't call it a "man's behavior". Just a behavior.13 Reply- +1 y
I guess my mindset is different than most women’s. I don’t want kids
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Yeah i would hate to be a housewife and stay at home mom😂
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Don't get me wrong, I don't want a housewife, I would accept it if I was rich lol but I think having time on our own, focusing on something else than family is important to breathe. But it is true that I've been educates with some old rules so I consider that the man has to work more for the family to be in a suitable situation, and the woman can work less so she can also take care for some work at home. Of course, that doesn't mean that the man doesn't have to do anything home. But because of our physical and psychologic differences, I expect it this way.
2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. nothing wrong with those goals.
that is why many people try so hard to succeed in life, because winning the lottery doesn't seem to work out very well.
You are just a strong independent woman that knows what she wants and is not afraid to go after it.
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+1 yI do not think "masculine energy" is about being very rational and I go by facts, but rather being dominating.
If you come off as “aggressive”, you are likely dominating and no one like bitching behaviour.
Being career oriented is not a positive for men, why would they care if you are, they are not bennefitting from it. Men like feminine women, and career is for men to shine, not women :)
The greater the career you get, the more money you make, and the harder it will become for you to find a good man who wants you.
"im quite strong", again sounds more like domination or being bitchy.
"My biggest want in life is money and my fear in life is being broke. Most women want a family and kids, I just want to be financially stable!"
No issues, get a cat, not a man ;)
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Yeah I don’t want a family lol.
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Money to me is far more important than kids
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Kids suck you dry!!!
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Completely fair, hope it makes you happy your entire life.
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It will:) thanks
976 opinions shared on Dating topic. No man who wants to start a family wants what you're describing. Most men who also just want to make lots of money and not deal with kids are more likely to buy into it.
You're also only 24, and your mindset is likely to shift dramatically, probably multiple times in the next few years.
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I don’t want kids or a family🤷🏼♀️
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I’ve been this way since i was 17… won’t change lol
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Yep. I want a husband who wants no kids and is more career and money oriented. I want pets.
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Nope. I know what i want. I don’t want to be a stay at home mom raising babies. I don’t want to spend my money on kids. I like having my freedom
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I don’t even necessarily like kids bro
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+1 yI would say that most men do not want women who put out a lot of male or masculine energy, however there are always exceptions to every situation involving human beings, and I am sure that some men are attracted to masculine women, or women who put out a lot of masculine energy.
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+1 yI guess that would depend on what you're perception of and what qualites you are defining as being masculine. Even then this would appeal or not appeal to a wide range of men because despite what some would like to imagine we all are not alike and are capable of complex thought.
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Accurate.
Most men like the feminine woman who doesn't try to be competitive with them, but there sure are some men who like the strong dominant woman, they tend to have weak personalities... but the question you need to ask yourself is, do you want to be with those kind of men?
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+1 yWomen often "think" a man is a certain way and they act like that instead of how a man would actually act. Now imagine that shit in a relationship... there is no way I want to come home from work just to get put to work and challenged on any and everything I do.
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+1 yI have quite a strong assertive personality and definitely relate to and get on better with men, I have more male friends than female. I take no shit from my partner of 19 years in day to day life, he's also very assertive. But In the bedroom it's a different story I'm definitely submissive and like to be dominated and almost treated badly. The balance worked well for us for the last 19 years.
00 Reply459 opinions shared on Dating topic. Actually most women prefer to have financially independent or at least to the point she no longer needs to worry about paying the bills.
This is shown throughout most of the women lives. They want their husband to be able to support a family.
Sometimes women will chip in to share the burdens but they all want that moment they no longer have to work to live.
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+1 yBreaking news: Another feminist wants no responsibility and equal outcome!
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What do you mean no responsibility?
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yI liked those types of women before but my preference is changing with age. Unlike most men, I know cooking cleaning all kinds of housework, and am very independent, so I do not necessarily see girlfriends as caregivers. However, I have realized masculine women follow abusive toxic male behaviors and are less empathetic and kind towards other people. They still expect to be courted like girly girls, who like to sleep around. As you age, you try to get kinder persons who will care for you as partners. Plus money never attacks me, there are way more things in life than money. People need a certain amount of money to live comfortably, true but working 24 hours for money is terrible, and in my career, I will already have a very good amount of money.
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That sounds like a lot. I hope you're okay now.
6K opinions shared on Dating topic. I couldn't be with a woman I perceive to be masculine it's off-putting and unattractive to me.
I need for my woman to be feminine and womanly both in mind and body because that's what I find attractive and appealing. And contrary to what some people may think, masculine energy and feminine energy compliment and feed into each other.
00 Reply896 opinions shared on Dating topic. Vast majority of men - even effeminate men - are definitely turned off by masculine women. The same way most women have a problem if the guy's boobs are bigger than hers.
It's a crude way to put it, but there are actual psychology studies demonstrating only around 1-2% of men genuinely find masculine women - physically or in terms of behaviour - attractive.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNo men like women feminine women. If you want to attract a man stop trying to act like a men and act like a lady. Men’s favorite thing about women is that they aren’t men
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Im good😂
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Im the type of girl to call you “bro” and sock someone in the face for disrespecting me.
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+1 yIf you want those things and feel that way, and you are a woman, then it's not masculine energy.
You are simply smarter than your female peers.
And yes it's an attractive mindset.10 Reply - 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yOf course you can't make a generalization that applies to everyone but in general I think most men feel as I do and want a woman with feminine energy not masculine energy. Maybe gay men want that. What would be the point of there being a difference in masculine and feminine energy if most people wanted the same kind that they had? We wouldn't be here discussing it today.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThey don’t usually… but when you find the one who does, he's gonna love you so much! And other men will be jealous of him in ways as well.
I recommend finding a man whose around your height too. Being able to play together like kids, competing, best friends who take each other’s clothes or shoes. It’s the cutest. 🥺10 Reply
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yYou do not have 'masculine energy'.
There are plenty of men in the world who are deluded religious nuts so being guided by facts has nothing to do with your genitals (though apparently you aren't being guided by any on this subject) and rest assured that money is most certainly what WOMEN care about.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yNo, most men are attracted to women / feminine energy. And you can still have all of those desires and still be feminine. But being career oriented, aggressive etc etc... ask yourself why a man... whose entire life since birth is a different forms of battle... would want to come home to that...
00 ReplyActually, I do but not necessarily they way you think. I like rational women. More into science and logic and technical. Russian and Belarusian women felt like that to me. I have penpals and in comparison to American and European they click what I am saying 95% of the time.
And the worst is Pakistani girls, they can't understand technical stuff, construction, civil work, improvisation etc
00 Reply545 opinions shared on Dating topic. Watch a girl who rides horses, oxen (!) and works on a farm with farm animals. She knows what masculine energy is. Bus does not have to be misandrist.
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+1 ySome do, most prefer feminine but I think if you look the part it doesn't matter if you otherwise give off masculine energy.
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+1 yno women like you are undesirable to masculine men
im glad you’re at least asking do men like masculine women because most masculine women just blame men for not being attracted to them

These are the type of men that masculine women get
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+1 yThere's no such thing as masculine energy if you are a woman.
And being aggressive and logical or desiring woman has nothing to do with masculinity. That's internet social construct BS.
You can't never be masculine since your biology is female not man.
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*money
We are designed to be attracted to our polar opposites. Men like feminine women, women like masculine men. Of course there are varying degrees, but in a nut shell, most men will be most attracted to the most feminine women, and vice versa.
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+1 ysome do, some of those traits are women. My wife was driven especially about certain pursuits. We're all different.
all that stuff was created from your personality and early life experiences and peceptions.
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+1 yI like women who are open about who they are and what they like; some would call that masculine energy, i call that being a person who is happy with who they are... so i guess... i also like fit muscular women...
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+1 yDepends. Can she turn it off at home and follow her husband without challenging everything he does under the sun?
If not, fuck no. That is a dick killer.
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Nobody likes a piss taker
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNo such thing as masculinity and femininity.
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Opinion Owner+1 yYou and i have a common purpose: money. I like that a lot. Money is everything and being broke is torturous.
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Yes, money to me is more important than kids or any of that crap
Opinion Owner+1 yI concur completely.
If she's feminine in the looks but has a masculine mindset, then yes, I will like her (most probably). But if she's masculine in the looks with the same mindset - no, thanks.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yMore men then you'd think. You say you're loyal and that's the main thing. It's OK to be aggressive as long as you can also be agreeable. It's called a partnership for a reason. If you are I don't think you'll have trouble finding a guy. Just make sure he has the views on money as you do. I think that'll definitely be a point of contention otherwise.
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+1 yI'm sure there are men out there who want that but I definitely don't. Really cannot stand how manly women are becoming and how femininity is no longer seen as a good thing.
00 ReplyEvery time I’ve heard someone talk about masculine energy in the context of women, it has been seen as negative. Like everything else in life, I’m sure there are positive and negative aspects, but the overall reception seems to be negative
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+1 ySure, bro! We like women with masculine energy, bro. No matter your gender, if you have energy matching ours, then you are one of us, bro. We can hang out and play games, bro.
00 ReplyDepends how you define "masculine" energy? If it's in the sense of a strong minded woman, then I admire that rather than look down upon it or discredit them in anyway.
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+1 ysome men hate women who are against being unfaithful they find that attitude masculine when that's just BASIC RESPECT
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Since when did my post say anything about cheating?😂😂😂😂
I do. But it's not something that's on a checklist. But also not something where I say "ewwwwww, masculine energy."
10 ReplyNo, masculine energy is not attractive for a woman, feminine energy is, it goes without saying.
No man needs a nonsupportive competitor, who doesn't need him, who wants to feel unneeded and unappreciated?
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+1 yObviously not. Why would a man want a woman w/ masculine traits. Would you date a man that wore skirts and makeup?
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+1 yDon't get me wrong, but your set-up is a nightmare for certain types of offices. Although you may have strong traits, you still lack a male/male interactive instinct. "Our" own male instinct will feel a conflict... unless you are surrounded by faggots, of course.
If you struggle to accept being a woman, I suggest to seek a therapy. Otherwise - insert the 'women's way' into your methods. It is valuable, and it's appreciated as well :)012 Reply- +1 y
And what is the “womans way” exactly?😂
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Emotional empathy. We men often are too rational and matter-of-fact. Just as one example.
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Well😂im rational and i use facts so😂
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I use facts over emotions 🤷🏼♀️
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Im not changing myself😂😂😂
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Facts overrides “emotional empathy”
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I dod not request to change yourself :)
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Being rational and using facts will always override using the heart and emotions..
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If you’re not requesting me to change don’t tell me to get therapy if I won’t insert feminine traits lol
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It was a suggestion - not a request... double-lol :) - Anyhow, the energy you display now in your comments is feminine :D
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Nah, im just doing what i want.
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Lmfao don’t suggest anything to me. Fuck off
+1 yI’ve heard most men don’t but there’s someone for everyone, at least I like to believe that even tho nowadays it’s harder in the dating world.
00 ReplyThere is nothing wrong with wanting to be financially stable. Just remember that life is short so take time to enjoy it also.
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