Why do people assume your hot when you don't have a pic up?

[Anonymous]

And said youve never had a boyfriend before or been asked out and dont have much of a life?

[Anonymous]

Self delusion. I see guys do this on here all the time. I always say if the Pic she uses is really hot (it's someone else), or if she uses no Pic she's probably pretty homely.

I think guys ignore this fact because many of them hold to the belief there's a really hot woman out there, he just hasn't found her yet.😆😆😆 I think many guys figure if she turns out to be ugly they can always just ghost her and break all ties. I know this'll probably make some women mad. But I assume you wanted and honest response. It's not right I'll agree. But it's truthful.

[loveslongnails]

Who and how many people have "assumed you're hot", and who and how many have not? Have you taken a poll? Go ahead, I think you should.

[Asker]

Quite a few

What would be the pt when i dont wanna put a pic up? I know im not like other girls. I dont need anyone to tell me that..
(and i know im on this site to look for help re guys, i like to think i might connect with someone who will like me for me and not my looks, although maybe i have a nice smile lol)

[loveslongnails]

That's not what I meant. The question would be something like " Hey guys - based on my conversation, do you think I'm hot or not, without seeing my picture".

[Asker]

I dont think u can tell by text

[loveslongnails]

LOL then I don't understand where your question comes from, or maybe you're implying that anyone who doesn't post a pic is presumed to be "hot" by "quite a few" people? And how many would that be?

[Asker]

It just seems to b a regular accurence, because i can't get with a guy i really like im being told to go and find another one despite tje fact he's the first guy in 35 years to pay me some actual attention... And i dont think there's many men out there would be the same

[loveslongnails]

what does "can't get with him" mean? Explain>?

[Asker]

he's not responding to my message and im now blocked on all social media (by accident)

[Guy13]

To get attention and mske conversation

[FilmGuy93]

I'm having a hard time understanding this question. What are people assuming about you?

[CoolCatMar1]

Internet is weird

[Jamie05rhs]

I never assume anything.

[Calculated_Guess2]

They make up fantasies in their own mind.

[Anonymous]

i could care less