Does that make a person crazy if they hold onto something that someone did a long time ago?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

Holding onto pain as a grudge is like thinking because you do it you are then poisoning or getting back at the other person. It can drive one absolutely crazy. It is better to forgive and move-on with life outside of their control.

[Sparkie460]

It doesn't make them crazy, they just hold a grudge for a long time

[Asker]

I think it is dumb because it doesn't solve the problem but makes it worse

[Sparkie460]

Some people just can't forgive or forget.

[Asker]

The person who did it to them doesn't think anything about it.

[Sparkie460]

These people are people that you know personally

[Sparkie460]

Thanks for the mho

[OddBeMe]

Yes, that’s a personality disorder of not able to let slights go.

[Anonymous]

Yes, if its not good for their mental state of mind.