She asked me if it’s a red flag why he would be chasing after someone her age since she’s 10 years younger instead of a woman his age, I’ve heard men prefer younger women.
They all Predators if you ask me. It's easy to manipulate a younger girl. And why would anyone want a older guy? If he is rich or look like Henry Cavill then I can understand. It's not what men want. It's about what you want? Going after someone just because he shows interest in you is so stupid.
My dad is 12 years older than my mom and they’ve been married 30 years. If she’s interested in him too, she should go for it.
As long as they are of legal age, consenting, and both interested, yes! Why throw away an opportunity just because of a number that's given arbitrary significance?
Go for it. Plenty of couples make age gaps work.
That's more of a gap than I personally would be comfortable with, but probably not a big deal... I'd be more concerned about whether or not he's serious, or just looking for some young eye candy to screw.
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If the guy thinks he can keep up, more power to him.
However, I think it would be better for her to find someone closer to her age.
If she thinks he's someone she wants to be with. Some of the best and longest lasting marriages from people I know are between couples where the man is around 10 years older.
why should he only go for women his age? who's to say he hasn't gone after women his age? should people just go after those within their own race too?
A 25 year old was hot to me when I was 25, is still hot to me now I'm 30 and will undoubtedly still be hot to me when I'm 35. I don't see how it's a red flag
Why don't you let her decide that. Sometimes we just need to butt out. Otherwise we may be the ones who get dumped if things we endorsed goes south.
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If she wants to.
I wouldn't because i like men my age. Whatever she's comfortable with.
That's perfectly normal. In fact, it's bred in evolution and biology. Men prefer younger females. plenty of video's about that
Is she attracted to him? Then sure, why not. It happens all the time.
It doesn't hurt to find out more about him to see where it may lead. A 10 year age gap can work.
The age itself should not be an issue, but if her gut is telling her something is off it is probably better to not.
It's fine girls normal go for older guy's. I'd be making sure he not married or with someone already is the only worry.
If she's talking about me.. go for it. If it's the guy from titanic... run away (he will dump her the moment she turns 26)
Age really doesn't define if a guy is "good" or not. It just means he's been alive longer than her.
ain't nothing wrong with taking a chance.
If she's interested, sure. 10 years isn't a huge difference unless you're like 15.
If she is an adult and interested, she should go for it.
No
see if he’s dating someone already
Only if he's buying her diamonds
tell her to follow her instincts
Sure. Men who want kids go after women under 30.
I would take it as a red flag.
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