Should I really give up this time?

[Zorro66]

The woman I really like just left me on read few days ago, she never did this before, but she still likes my post and views my stories. Anyway she ever rejected me so I walked away and went no contact for months. During no contact she kept liking my posts too, while I never did that. Until I decided to break no contact due to working circumstances, then we finally talk again. But I can't lie to myself that I still like her. Until there were few women who asked me out on a date, I rejected some but I tried to move on and accept some of them, and still I can't really forget the woman who rejected me till now lol. The thing is I'm not sure that I still have chance, and I don't think that she likes me too. Should I keep going or really give up this time? Thanks

[Guy13]

It seems that she is not interested and is trying to make it plain to you. She got even and is done.

[Zorro66]

Yeah ikr thanks, guess if she's interested then she will make it everything easier for me.

[Anonymous]

"The woman I really like just left me on read few days ago, she never did this before, but she still likes my post and views my stories."

This is one of the main reasons why so many relationships fail these days. Get off the internet and learn how to communicate in the real world. 🤦‍♂️

[Zorro66]

Well it has nothing to do with the internet, I'm just not sure whether I should keep going or not because she ever rejected me once.

[cryscrys1]

Do you have her number?
Would be ideal to ask her if she wants to go out have dinner this weekend or watch a movie etc and see what she says

[Zorro66]

Of course I have, I asked it the first time I contacted her again after months of no contact and she said "thanks, maybe next time". Well I don't think I will ask her out again on a date soon. But she never refused it whenever I asked her to meet if it's related with work, she's a coworker anyway. That's why it's killing me lol. But we don't meet everyday though. So I guess she only wants to maintain a professional relationship in a place of business.

[cryscrys1]

If she said maybe next time it means she isn’t really interested. But that next time comes with many questions lol. Usually when it’s a no it’s more like oh thank you but I’m busy or anything to reject but next time isn’t that bad. You can simply have a regular conversation with her if you want you can still message once again! ?
Asking “ how her weekend was?“ that’s all and see where it goes. But if no that’s fine too. I think she is aware you like her by now.. it’s hard to tell. Maybe she is worried dating someone in her job that it might cause her problems etc who knows.

Anyways , however this goes don’t worry really her lose I hope you find someone whom things flow easily so you do not feel hurt. ✨

[Zorro66]

Yeah really thanks, anyway I'm pretty sure that she will respond if I text or call her for small chat but I'm just afraid it will lead to nothingness because I don't think her interest level is as high as mine. It doesn't mean that I did nothing at all to get her though. I did, but I don't think I will continue chase her if maybe she's the type of a woman who liked to be chase or likes to play hard to get.
Anyway it's not because of work that she is worried to dating someone to, she just said she isn't ready yet to start a new relationship when she rejected me. Which I don't know if it was true or just an excuse that she doesn't like me or maybe like someone else.

[In_Trance]

Get off the internet and have face to face conversation

[Iron_Man]

Talk to her live and see what’s going on

[Zorro66]

Well I'd like too but I don't think I will ask her again to meet up, since last time she refused it by saying "thanks, maybe next time"

[Iron_Man]

Don’t let pride interfere with getting nothing accomplished