Should I give my coworker valentine gift secretly?

[Anonymous]

We are not dating.

[Makeushiver]

If you can really do it in secrecy and not tell someone who is going to tell him eventually. It also might depend on the nature of the gift. I'm assuming this is someone you wouldn't mind getting to know so used toilet paper is probably not a great idea. If his position is above you or he has any control over your advancement or salary then keep it a tight secret. I wonder if anyone has done something truly in secret.

[mobiusforniner]

No. Please, just no. Been there. I mean, it may be nice when reciprocated. But even then when things dont go well later, lets just say HR gets involved and shit happens.

[Puppystarfish23]

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo... speaking from past experience DO NOT HAVE ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR COWORKERS!!!

just pleasessss don't do it I'm begging you, you will look back a cringe so hard.

[Guy13]

Go for it as long as not a superior...

[Pyrofox]

I would say definitely not unless you are like childhood friends cause it gives the wrong kind of connotations.

[Ligerzzero]

If you want a sexual harassment lawsuit, or get fired go ahead

[nrm736]

You shouldn't. This idea can go wrong so easily in many ways.

[driven159]

It would be better to do it in private so not to cause issues at work

[Drumlin2001]

I wouldn't, it's a minefield these days.

[Heolurt]

Nope it might send them mixed signals

[Asker]

What mixed signals? I like him

[Heolurt]

Then why do it secretly

[Asker]

secret admirer

[Heolurt]

Just tell him.

[emmaa1]

no you shouldn'tt

[melanieeeB]

Nopee

[kareka]

Just if wanna show him interest

[Iron_Man]

Then no