I am not into those dating games I see and hear on the internet. I find them wastage of time.
Courtney Ryan said that an emotionally immature person would find them as a challenge and exciting, but not someone who is matured emotionally.
So how do I know if someone is emotionally matured or not?
The only way I know to find out the emotional maturity of another is to engage them, without fear, for 6 months to a year. There is no knowing until frustration arises and this usually requires same proximity familiarity and time.
One should shy away from initial gut instinct and realize this is their best behavior. If emotional instability is slightly obvious on the front end, then you have a ticking time bomb
Have an argument with them.
Have a battle of wits but make sure they’re armed a lot of people come unarmed.
Most people will just bash you and call you names instead of giving you a valid reason why you’re wrong.
Having an argument with someone who is mature enough to understand what’s going on will give you valid reasons why you’re wrong and also back it up with facts instead of name calling like a child.
people who know when and how to settle, have reached a certain level of self-understanding, are aware of their thoughts and behaviour, and know how to best handle tough situations and rough times. it's a stage, and bottom line, people who are emotionally mature went through a lot. you could spot them in no time if you know how to read between the lines, because it shows in every action.
I dont base maturity on age but on reactions. I look at how they react to different situations and it tells me all I need to know about them. One of the most seemingly mature men showed his true colors when he thought he was about to become a father. Straight Immature trash
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u You date them long enough to see how they respond when you have a conflict between the two of you.
I guess if you find them boring, then that's a sign they must be emotionally mature :D
Most of the time you can't tell until you spend some time around them
s When they respect your opinion even if they disagree with you. When they're able to take a "no" for answer. When they give you space, when they're not expecting you to be available for them 24/7. Also when they're not expecting you to "complete" them.
They can communicate. They are okay going X amount of time without hearing affirmation from you and they are mature enough to define X with you. They trust you. They don't retreat from conflict and can communicate through it. You can have disagreements and the core of your relationship isn't altered. You can hurt each other and forgive and rebound.
This is the tip of the iceberg...
You can try to make an immature comment on someone and if they correct you, they're most likely emotionally mature.
next time you hang out with someone pay attention to their facial expressions and their bond language as well as the tone of their voice. you will start to notice small things like what upset them and how they deal with it.
you are mature when you try to understand other people. when you try to understand why they behave a certain way and be forgiving towards them
Maybe by observing their reactions to sensitive situations
when you say no to them and they respect you for it instead of throwing a hissy fit. thats one way
Well if a person lacks common sense that's a big sign, one of my biggest pet peeves in dating, which would get a woman blocked quick
They will tell you, you only need to believe it the first time.
Look into the how they handle situations and questions
When you meet him or her for some days and interact with him or her you can guess.
You have to have some interaction with them to spot any red flags of immaturity!
If it’s a female, ask her what she brings to the table. If she gets triggered, or shames you… she is a child.
You never know till you have been with someone for a few months at least.
u You can just tell
Ask the random questions fr her or him
by how they handle stress
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