Guys, which girl do you select out of these both?

[Anonymous]

Girl 1 : very independent girl, settled in a job, earns a decent amount of money more than you

Girl 2 : very dependent on you about money, can't live without your job earnings and expects you to do the job and provide her the money for all her needs

[WaterIsland]

I think there is a big distinction here. Her being dependent on you, is a gold digger in my opinion. However, her being like a stay at home mom, and you both being dependent on each other, is totally fine.


It should be a mutual thing where each person brings different elements to the relationship.

[hissugarbunns]

Very true

[hissugarbunns]

Well you can look at this two different ways if you have children together and you want her to be a stay at home mom and do all the work.. being a stay-at-home mom is a lot of work but if you don't have children aren't married she should be working that's just my opinion

[Asker]

Agree with this

[hissugarbunns]

My fiance provides for me and are two children we had the discussion before we had our children what we would want to do if if we had children and now that my children are older I'm back to work

[Asker]

Great