How can you make a fuckboy fall for you?

[Anonymous]

What type of attitude attracts them?

[DaveJord]

Honestly, if he is fuck boy... you need to fuck, and then get him to hang out and spend more time with you. Fuck boys are fuck boys and they will be until the time comes that they want more than just being a fuck boy. You could be the one, or you could not be.

But I would ask him out and make a point of making sure it does not end in sex. Maybe a good kiss and hug, and then schedule the second date before ending the first date. But make it clear to him by the second date that you are not interested in having sex until you are sure it's more than just about sex.

By then make him wait until 6th or 8th date before having sex with him... the problem that if he is a true fuck boy, then he will do whatever is required to get to the fucking part... so you have to set boundaries on yourself and be prepared to accept that he will hurt you.

I waited 6 weeks to 6 months to have sex with a woman, because she really wanted that emotional bond, and felt having sex too soon would ruin that. Well honestly, I was very supportive and in favor of that process... I wanted the same thing. But honestly be it 2 dates or 12 dates, once the fucking started the relationship progressed and withing 6 to 8 weeks it was over no matter what. The only difference for me was that I put in all the time and effort to really get to know someone, and they still did all the same shit that other women did.

Am I fuck boy? NO, I am NOT. But I get it and i understand it.

[ShiftingMonke]

Others have pointed out that it's a terrible idea and provided examples, but you are young and confident that you can Change Him, so fly in the face of conventional wisdom and try it.

If you want more of him, then become wholly and entirely subservient. Do what he asks, when he asks. Ensure that you prioritize his desires and happiness over yours, be grateful that of all the women in his harem, he's choosing to manipulate and use you, and that's your ultimate goal.

If you succeed, take comfort in the knowledge that you won your fuckboy over and do your best to ignore the cheating and infidelity behind your back. Don't let the demeaning insults and constant fights get to you, you know that he loves you, you just have to try harder to please him. You will fail, but he will make sure to let you know how everything you've done has been wrong.

But if you fail to lock him down, you can always resent yourself for not being good enough and either develop a terrible self image or go on a crusade against men blaming them for all injustice in the world and in your life. Men Are Pigs will be your motto and you will never internalize the true cause of your unhappiness.

Best of luck!

[itsalyssaagain]

You can't. Even if he does fall for you, he will hurt you.
I am speaking from experience. I have been in love with 2 fuckboys in my time and they both loved me. I was engaged to one. But no matter how much he loves you, he will always be a fuckboy.

[melanieeeB]

Either a man falls for you or he doesn't. No matter if he is a fuckboy or not. The only thing you can do is to get him to sleep with you but you can't change feelings and the heart.

[bamesjond0069]

Virgin girl that's different than the rest. Fuckboys are generally attractive to women so they are used to every girl just fucking them asap. We tend to feel like we can get any girl easy so they are all the same. What stands out is a woman who is into us but who isn't easy. HOWEVER some bullshit pretend won't work. If you slept around a bunch and then just make us wait, that won't work. Fuckboys hate that and either will walk asap or put in the work and then specifically ghost you because you were difficult.

[OfMiceandMen]

If you just want to screw the guy, it should be easy enough to entice him with your womanly charms.

However, if you are trying to land him as a boyfriend, I would think twice. Women who try to change a guy into something they are not, rarely works. If fuckboy is liking his lifestyle, he is not about to give that up for you or anyone else, and most likely he will end up hurting you in the short term.

[inhua]

unless you're a kind-hearted, supportive, family oriented virgin, the answer is you can't make a fuckboy fall for you. if other girls couldn't do it, what makes you think you can do better than them?

[Paul_in_Indy]

You can’t make him fall for you. But he will happily sleep with you. That should not take much work.

[Asker]

Nah I want him to fall for me

[Paul_in_Indy]

Guys like that won’t fall for you. Or, at least, their version of “falling“ is an intense infatuation leading to casual sex.

[Anonymous]

Simple. Have a vagina, offer to let him use it, then let him use it.

[Paul09]

A wh@re? What else? A woman that gives out everything, a woman that doesn't mind if he sleeps around with multiple women. I'm not sure why you'd want to be with an a-hole.

[Still-alive]

why don't you go after guys who actually like you instead?

[Anonymous]

The same way you convince a hungry grizzly bear not to eat you. 🙄

[Sirenboobzilla]

I wouldn't even bother

[ERB62]

Put your pussy on full display

[Asker]

Nah I want them to develop feelings

[Paul_in_Indy]

The feeling he will have is that he really enjoys having sex with you.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Why would you want to

[Tomisworthless]

What even is a fuxkboy

[NostalgiaSenpi]

You can't.

[nmixx]

play them

[Asker]

How?

[nmixx]

act all kind to them and when they start being kind to you, then u have to play hard to get